Why so much hate?

MFPAddict · February 2012

I posted something on my profile telling my friends that I was going to create a thread against women posting cleavage pictures. It was done as a spoof because of the uproar the bikini thread caused. I figured there would be some debate. Some rebellious cleavage pics. Some jokes. But WOW, talk about the haters!

I had several people suggest I was trying to portray the LL Cool J picture as being me, despite a disclaimer on my profile stating it is not. Based on the posts that I was able to read (apparently many were deleted), the people that bothered to check my profile only did so with the intention to find material for criticism. An activity that happens on this site every single day. Disagree with someone, check their profile to find something to use against them.

One person even said to check out my Caucasian pictures before I delete them. Really? Clearly this individual missed my disclaimer about the LL Cool J picture. This point led me to a conclusion. The only reason I made my profile visible to all MFP members was so people would stop sending me FRs because of the picture. I still get those such requests almost daily. If no one bothers to read the profile anyway, why bother making my profile accessible to non-friends?

Clearly it is just used for haters looking for ammunition anyway.

LauraMacNCheese · February 2012

Some people need to be referred to a good proctologist to first remove the stick and secondly locate his/her head.

Fred77 · February 2012

I think there is a serious sense of humour failure from lots of people on this site. some take everything literally.

hbrittingham · February 2012

It's okay for you to joke as long as you are "one of them". If you aren't, then "they" want to castigate you. Add in the fact that there are a lot of people here with absolutely no sense of humor and you get what happened to you. Sorry. I saw your thread for what it was, a joke and the hope that you might see some cleavage pictures.

SergeantSunshine_reused · February 2012

I just saw it as a joke too! Missed all the drama I guess

LuckyAng · February 2012

UGH! (That's all I've got)

IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym · February 2012

sadly, they had no idea you were joking, and felt the need to be asshats.

rjt1000 · February 2012

I think women SHOULD stop posting cleavage pics. They should post completely nude pics instead..... JUST KIDDING FOLKS! And yeah, there are some haters in any forum no matter what the forum focus. Ignore them. They'll never go away but you can always ignore them......

cwmoree · February 2012

they're probably hungry!

sarah44254 · February 2012

hard to tell a joke from typeface. but even if they couldn't tell it was a joke or not, asshattery is never called for.

IronmanPanda · February 2012

All I read was Cleavage

cwmoree · February 2012

:laugh:

Kdingo · February 2012

So people are too literal. Add that to a cirtical/angry type writing anonymously on the internet and you can get just plain mean. Maybe it makes them feel better as a person?:flowerforyou:

sarahgilmore · February 2012

Too many irritable people with no sense of humour because of low blood sugar levels LOL

It can't be that much longer now til the resolutioners all finish dropping off and this place can go back to normal.

Scorpioangel · February 2012

Lately this site has been becoming as ridiculous as Facebook with the haters and that is why I went here with my fitness stuff it really sucks!

LauraMacNCheese · February 2012

NUDE PIX?!?!?!? REPORTED!!!!

Contrarian · February 2012

I thought it was funny. I'm sorry people attacked you.

melsy21 · February 2012

well shoot, I thought this site was a dating site!

becoming_a_new_me · February 2012

hahahaha!!! :laugh: :laugh:

Fitfaery · February 2012

Grip needed on here sometimes! *rolls eyes* Maybe a good use of smilies too...to show joking or not for those who cannot tell the difference x

MFPAddict · February 2012

I believe in the statement "everyone is entitled to an opinion" regardless if it is not one I share. There were several people that didn't get it and actually stated their opinion on the cleavage topic. I certainly don't have an issue with that. What I think is sad is those that access people's profile for the sole purpose to find material to attack.

Dayna154 · February 2012

I thought it was funny too.
Life is to short to cause all sorts of new drama for people who should be supporting each other..
Some people need to work on losing weight and finding new lifestyle.. Others need to find their sense of humor as well...

becoming_a_new_me · February 2012

^^^I threatened that very thing earlier!! lol

clydethecat · February 2012

i think its sad.. i mean to go thru life with no funny bone, how heartbreaking is that.

becoming_a_new_me · February 2012

Um....she was joking too

rjt1000 · February 2012

psssst--- she was joking.......

Contrarian · February 2012

She was kidding. *sigh*

Fitfaery · February 2012

Um..that's why I edited it, lol xx

rjt1000 · February 2012

Now you've gone and done it...... You need to edit your post and add 150 smiley faces and a bunch of LOLs and stuff. I used to hang out at a forum where because of nobody ever understanding sarcasm of a couple of us, we'd post all sarcasm in 18 point fonts in bright red color......

kittenmitton · February 2012

Haters gonna hate.

But besides that, honestly, what's wrong with cleavage? Most women have some (and even if they don't, push up bras exist). It's not a big deal to me. Why censor women's breasts in general? Men have nipples too and they don't get censored. I can go to the beach and see a morbidly obese man with moobs bigger than my breasts walking around with his shirt off and if I take my shirt off I get a fine. What the hey hey? /rant

Fitfaery · February 2012

Sowy :blushing:

Why so much hate?

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