Married ladies....

nikrit84

Yes my husband knows my weight. Never a good thing for either of us when we discuss it though. He is one of "those" who eats, eats, eats and can never gain an ounce. So he is embarrased to see that he weighs less or the same as me and I am embarrased to see that I weigh more than a man. It is normally the other way around! So yes he knows, but we both choose not to discuss it lol

tgianino

I know my husband's weight, but he doesn't know mine! I'll tell him when I lose more weight!

iNkedFiTmama

Yes he does but only because I talk about it.. I don't think he really cares lol

karenjoy

My Husband know everything about me bless him, I call him to look at the scale and make him look at me naked and everything

cardiokitten

I'm not married, but yes, he does. I think it'd be sort of ridiculous if he didn't know such a simple thing about me. You're supposed to be completely open with each other, and if you can't divulge your weight to your significant other, that seems like a problem...

jamiesadler

My husband knows my weight when I do... lol
He really doesn't care, but when I am losing or gaining, I share it to help hold myself accountable.

This!

JanetLM73

I've been married for 9 years, we've been together for 14, he's seen me at my smallest (120) when I was 21, and my biggest 212 (9 months pregnant).
He has no clue what I weigh. I told him once I get to my goal I'll tell him the number I started at (206) I'm 191 he will be shocked. I'm ashamed to tell him, even though I know he loves me so much.

lorac321

He knows...

farmboyphotography

My wife is pretty amazing. Our fourth child was born only seven weeks ago, and she is almost back to her pre-pregnancy weight. (She will probably be at her pre-pregnancy weight before I am at mine... ha ha).

I know how little she weighs because we talk about our state of health and fitness all the time. And yup, I am mighty proud that she takes such good care of herself! My wife is a gem! :happy:

mightyafrodyte

Oh HELL no :laugh:

This!

Kandygirl

my man knows how much i weigh but thats because we talk about it. but he thinks im about 2 pants size smaller then i really am which is nice.

momof8munchkins

NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!
lol.. I think he knows the ball park .I tell him when I've lost but I never give the exact weight and he doesn't really care.. Girls, there are just certain things a woman should keep to herself.. he also doesn't know when I shave my legs , tweeze my eyebrows or give myself a pedicure etc. all he knows is I am stunningly beautiful and an amazing creature lol!

AlSalzman

My mustache is actually a finely calibrated scale... HEY-OOO!

Thank you, try the veal... I'll be here all week.


///OK, real response:
If your S/O isn't fitness-oriented or athletic, you shouldn't be suprised if he can't guess your weight by looking at you. Unless the guy is with you on your weightloss ride, or played a lot of sports (we were always sizing up the competitors), he probably has no experience at guestimating bodyweight just based on what he sees. I don't think it's all that unusual that the average guy can't judge your weight just by looking. Remember, we're not very perceptive (disclaimer - unless boobs are involved).

If you're concerned that they haven't been listening to you talk about how important your weightloss is and how unhealthy your starting point was and how excited and proud you are of meeting your goals, well... uh, get used to it...? Or get a different guy that will pay attention to stuff that's important to you.

rfarinha

My husband doesn't know, and he doesn't ask. He does know how many pounds I've lost, so when I get to my goal weight, I guess he'll do the math and figure out just how huge I was... :ohwell:

I am just hoping to get down to where I weigh less than him! :laugh:

smsinger75

We have been together for 17 years. Married for over 16. Hubby knows now what I weigh. I never hid it from him, he just never inquired about it. He had no idea that my highest weight was that high (159). I am only 5'2". He thought it was at least 10 lbs less than that. I was close to weighing the same as him. He is 5'10". I think that was my wake up call. I weigh in on Monday mornings first thing. He has become my cheering squad for the scale and then he takes all of my measurements for me to celebrate the NSV. He is super supportive! I am down to 141 now. Almost halfway to my goal.

hesn92

yes I tell my boyfriend every time I lose weight. "I weighed 143.6 this morning!" "oh... is that good?"

MinnieInMaine

He doesn't know the exact number but he knows about how much I've lost and what range I'm in. LIke I told him when I finally weight less than him, got under 200, got out of the obese range per BMI and when I hit the 170s. Had to also tell him when I could fit into his pants. LOL! It was totally by mistake but I had to run out to my car after having changed into my sleeping shirt so I needed some pants and his shorts were on the floor. Figured I could at least pull them up enough to cover the vitals with my shirt hanging over but they fit! And come to find out, that was perfect timing because a couple weeks later he needed my help doing some driveway sealing jobs and I didn't have any rugged pants to sacrifice but I was able to wear his D!ckies (can't believe that was editied...)

Another funny story about weight showing he doesn't have a clue... When I first started, we talked about my goal and where I want to get to (150's) and he said "why dont' you get down to 120?". Ha! With my build, I'd have to starve myself to get that low! Maybe the 140's but I'd rather be cut than super thin.

TubbsMcGee

Yes, my guy knows almost exactly how much I weigh.

We're also High school sweethearts, have been together for 6 years.

If I have him guess my weight, he usually guesses about 5 lbs less, but if I'm in a good mood after a weigh-in, I'll come cartwheeling into the room and insist he estimate my weight that day. He kind of does the same thing too, but not as often and with less cartwheeling.

Ashley_Panda

Well of course he does. He also knows my highest weight, shoe, dress, jean sizes also. No big deal.

scs143

Oh HELL no :laugh:

This!

EBell83

My husband does know my weight...though I'm not sure how much he cares about the actual number. He was surprised when I told him I was up to 160 a few weeks ago. He said he didn't see that at all and actually would have guessed about 20-30 pounds less. Love is blind, maybe? He's very supportive (and smart) about how he views my exercise progress and weight loss goals. He'd be just as happy if I never lost a pound as long as I was healthy and happy with myself.

qtiekiki

Yes. My weight is the same as it was when we first met, but the topic never came up. He just said I was around 110lbs when he carried me the first time, and he was right.

WJZR

Hi ladies. I had an interesting conversation with my husband yesterday. I told him that I may reach my first goal on MFP this week. He asked what it was and I hesitated. I thought for a second and realized he has no clue what I weigh. It never really comes up as I don't obcess over the number much. When I told him my weight, he seriously told me he thought i was 10 lbs less. He wasn't joking, he did look confused. We have been married for 8 yrs and are high school sweethearts so trust me when I say... He was clueless. I can read him like a book :laugh:

I have been told by many that at 150, I look closer to 130. Must be muscle mass or big bones! :grumble: I am 5'3" and wear a size 6.

So ladies that are married.... Does your husband know what you weight? I am curious.

Wow, if you are 5'3" and wear a sixe 6 you must be pretty fit. You probably dont really need to lose.... i am 5'4" and 165 lbs, and wear a size 16! Not a happy, sweet 16 either. My hubby knows what i weigh, i guess i have complained about it over the last few years. my goal is 135, but i would be happy with 140, at age 60.

jimsuzy

My poor husband doesnt have a clue....he thinks he has been getting weaker as we have been married for 23 years....poor man

bloodbank

Well of course he does. He also knows my highest weight, shoe, dress, jean sizes also. No big deal.

Same here. I am confused why anyone would think "I've gone so far as to legally commit myself to this other person, hopefully forever, but OMG they can't know xyz about me!"

elenathegreat

My poor husband knows my weight intimately----every week we share the agony/exstasy of the weigh in----seriously, though he is my biggest fan

TTcarey

21 Years later and 80lbs lighter heck yes my husband knows how much I weigh!!! but 80lbs ago he didn't have a clue!

Crying_In_Color

He sure does. I tell him every time I weigh in. We also work out together at the gym daily. He's body building and I'm working on weight loss before I tone. He knows everything about me.

jennfost777

Yes mine does but always forgets. He used to tell me that I looked fine when I was 160 but now that am 143 he takes second looks lol. Funny thing is that when when we got married I was 130 and a size 8 but now after loosing 12 pounds. On here I am 143 and a size 6 so Weight really doesn't have as much to do with size as I once thought it did.

ahersh00

HELL NO! He knows that I weigh generally in the same ballpark as him...but he doesn't know the exact number... He does know how much weight I've lost, however!


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