Is it necessary to be that trashy?
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They would be doing me a favor in the dating department. Ladies would already know what im packing and the line would be out the door LMAO
they know what your packing.. but do they know what you have? i done heard..
hahaha I have the Magic stick my friend!! lol0 -
i know a guy..... (just sayin)
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Steal his thunder and publish them on your own website. :smokin:0
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I don't think you should try to punish him. His own actions will. He's showing these pictures around... do you think the ladies in his vicinity are going to be appreciating this and posing for him in the future, with or without a camera. No. I'd play nice. Maybe even nice enough to get introduced to his future girlfriend, whom I would quietly warn. Not a "dump the jerk", warning, just a "watch your back, and don't let him take pictures from that or any other angle" warning.
Let the consequences of his own actions be his punishment.0 -
Don't know what I would do because I think taking them and sending them is trashy enough to begin with. It's not just that this other person has these images of you and they can send them to be spiteful, what if they lose their phone? For a sure way of preventing this just don't take the pictures!0
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Ah your freaking me out, me and my ex broke up about 2 months ago and although it was an Okish breakup now I am worrying about this. The photos were tasteful not everything out, but maybe he will show his mates. Maybe he already has, in all fairness I showed their girlfriends cos I am proud of what I got!
If you are that proud, show us! :bigsmile:0 -
Isn't it like defamation of character or something like that? Anyway, it says more about your ex that he's publishing this stuff than it does about you. It's a free country and porn is legal--not that you're a porn star, but the point is, he's an idiot.Relationship mistake: Nakie pictures of one another
Relationship ends...someone has to be immature and white trash and spread those pics around
what would you do and how should they be punished??
They can be punished. Legally. If you don't mind the police, DA, court, etc. seeing your kibbles and bits, then go ahead and presss charges. The way I hear it, these days the courts would rather go after those perps than the people who are out committing murders.0 -
If you have pics of him naked also then please respond in kind but only if you are totally sure he is showing peeps yours. If you have no pics, then tell peeps hes gay lol
FYI: Next time you take naked pics please keep your face out of it so that this does not happen again. You should prob take a few now and post that we may approve if you have done it correctly. I am here to help
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Yes, said people should be punished (not that they can, but they should). I understand that it would be totally devastating for a woman if the guy starts spreading those pics around. I have a few of my ex's pics on my cell-phone and on my computer but I would never even in my wildest dream spread them around, no matter how badly we ended our relationship. So, as somebody else said, dont show your face in those pics, and make sure the guy is a honorable man, and not some kid who does this to women.0
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I've read stories on the interwebz for years, and that's why there are not nekked pictures of me floating around. It's intelligent to learn from your own mistakes and not do them again, and wise to learn from other's mistakes so that it doesn't happen to you in the first place. When every you ask someone "how did this happen" they said "I never thought it would happen to me." You should always assume it will happen to you.0
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I am of the opinion that if you are stupid enough to take those kinds of pictures or videos, then you should expect someone or many someones to see it one day. My husband and I were just talking about this last night. I told him I wouldn't even let him take naked pictures of me with a polaroid! That is just asking for trouble. People should have more common sense......0
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If you know who he sent them to, I'd be very tempted to send the ones you have of him to the same people. :laugh:
I probably wouldn't acutally do it though. Just move on, he's likely trying to get a reaction out of you. Retaliating in anyway is just giving him what he wants. Him thinking its ok to spread pictures is another validation that you're better off without him.0 -
Relationship mistake: Nakie pictures of one another
Relationship ends...someone has to be immature and white trash and spread those pics around
what would you do and how should they be punished??
Not a position I'd be in. That's what "class" is. You're right that it has nothing to do with money, but it's got a lot to do with naked pictures. Punished? Grownups aren't punished for legal behavior.0 -
And let me clarify: social & financial status does not determine if someone is trash! It's about how you conduct yourself! Just because you have money does not mean you have class!
So true. People with class don't have problems like this because of the way they conduct themselves. They don't pose for naked pics!0 -
Lovely. People calling the OP stupid and classless for something that was supposed to be between two people. Risky? Of course! But it doesn't mean she has no class or is stupid.
Get the sticks out of your rear and quit judging people.0 -
Txs, i hate this burning sensation when i urinate, it burnsssssssss-TyApprently there is this new website where you can register someone as having an STD...0 -
Relationship mistake: Nakie pictures of one another
To me that's not a relationship mistake. The mistake is sending them to someone who isn't trustworthy.
This make come across as boastful, and I do not intend it to be, but during the course of my adult life quite a few women have sent me revealing pictures of themselves in various state of undress and in provocative poses.
It can be an exhilarating experience for both parties. I admit I am a risk taker and attract women who like taking risks themselves.
I have never and would never reveal communications sent to me in private no matter how the relationship ended. It has never happened to me and I believe that is because I can gauge pretty well who I can trust.
To breach a confidence lacks integrity and is trashy, not the taking of the pictures in the first place. The human form is beautiful, especially the form to which you are attracted. I will never feel ashamed for believing that or wanting to see it naked.0 -
Lovely. People calling the OP stupid and classless for something that was supposed to be between two people. Risky? Of course! But it doesn't mean she has no class or is stupid.
Get the sticks out of your rear and quit judging people.
We're supposed to judge the ex who posted them, and she calls him classless. I really don't see how posing for the pics is any classier, and letting someone take, or taking yourself, naked pics you allow to get into anyone else's hands is pretty stupid. She posted with the intention of us calling him stupid/classless, and it is all a little pot/kettley, you know?0 -
Lovely. People calling the OP stupid and classless for something that was supposed to be between two people. Risky? Of course! But it doesn't mean she has no class or is stupid.
Get the sticks out of your rear and quit judging people.
Honestly, I despair sometimes.
Blame the victim, not the transgressor seems to be the default position these days.
Of course you should be wary and careful but I find this cynicism about being able to trust the very people who are supposed to love you very odd. I guess I have lived a charmed existence.0 -
Lovely. People calling the OP stupid and classless for something that was supposed to be between two people. Risky? Of course! But it doesn't mean she has no class or is stupid.
Get the sticks out of your rear and quit judging people.
We're supposed to judge the ex who posted them, and she calls him classless. I really don't see how posing for the pics is any classier, and letting someone take, or taking yourself, naked pics you allow to get into anyone else's hands is pretty stupid. She posted with the intention of us calling him stupid/classless, and it is all a little pot/kettley, you know?
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WoW
Apparently no one wants nakie pics of you :flowerforyou: 
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1. I never said this was specifically about me or not. More of a hypothetical
2. I am most certainly NOT a "troll"
If I was a troll this would NOT be posted in chit chat & games
3. I realize that it's a bit IRONIC that my current pic is my leg :laugh:
4. I'm fabulous no matter and I love you ladies and gents that have an open heart and mind :flowerforyou:0 -
Lovely. People calling the OP stupid and classless for something that was supposed to be between two people. Risky? Of course! But it doesn't mean she has no class or is stupid.
Get the sticks out of your rear and quit judging people.
Honestly, I despair sometimes.
Blame the victim, not the transgressor seems to be the default position these days.
Of course you should be wary and careful but I find this cynicism about being able to trust the very people who are supposed to love you very odd. I guess I have lived a charmed existence.
Thank You :flowerforyou:0 -
I am of the opinion that if you are stupid enough to take those kinds of pictures or videos, then you should expect someone or many someones to see it one day. My husband and I were just talking about this last night. I told him I wouldn't even let him take naked pictures of me with a polaroid! That is just asking for trouble. People should have more common sense......
On the flip side what does that say about how well you trust your husband and furthermore is it because you don't trust him or because you're too insecure to take those kind of pictures in the first place?
IMO: It's not the thought of someone seeing my boobies that would make me angry. I could care less. They're not much but they're fun sized and pretty cute. I really don't care. What would make me angry is sharing something so intimate and private and then the other person decides to completely violate that trust we shared and goes back on their word to keep such pictures private.
Nudity is NOT a shameful thing....I was referring to someone who you had trusted, cared about, loved stabbing you in the back and trying to intentionally hurt you.0 -
i know a guy..... (just sayin)
This is outstanding btw...lol
Co-Ed softball practice should be starting soon....BATTER UP!!0 -
I don't know - sue them for my share of the royalties?...0
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I am of the opinion that if you are stupid enough to take those kinds of pictures or videos, then you should expect someone or many someones to see it one day. My husband and I were just talking about this last night. I told him I wouldn't even let him take naked pictures of me with a polaroid! That is just asking for trouble. People should have more common sense......
On the flip side what does that say about how well you trust your husband and furthermore is it because you don't trust him or because you're too insecure to take those kind of pictures in the first place?
IMO: It's not the thought of someone seeing my boobies that would make me angry. I could care less. They're not much but they're fun sized and pretty cute. I really don't care. What would make me angry is sharing something so intimate and private and then the other person decides to completely violate that trust we shared and goes back on their word to keep such pictures private.
Nudity is NOT a shameful thing....I was referring to someone who you had trusted, cared about, loved stabbing you in the back and trying to intentionally hurt you.
It has nothing to do with not trusting my husband, which I do completely. It has to do with the fact that people are arrogant or naive enough to think that this kind of stuff doesn't and won't get out someday. Not wanting to take the pictures has nothing to do with being insecure, and everything to do with privacy. My naked body is for my husband and him alone. He sees it everyday, why would he need a picture? Taking naked pictures of yourself, in itself, it just trashy, IMO.0 -
I don't know - sue them for my share of the royalties?...
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I am of the opinion that if you are stupid enough to take those kinds of pictures or videos, then you should expect someone or many someones to see it one day. My husband and I were just talking about this last night. I told him I wouldn't even let him take naked pictures of me with a polaroid! That is just asking for trouble. People should have more common sense......
On the flip side what does that say about how well you trust your husband and furthermore is it because you don't trust him or because you're too insecure to take those kind of pictures in the first place?
IMO: It's not the thought of someone seeing my boobies that would make me angry. I could care less. They're not much but they're fun sized and pretty cute. I really don't care. What would make me angry is sharing something so intimate and private and then the other person decides to completely violate that trust we shared and goes back on their word to keep such pictures private.
Nudity is NOT a shameful thing....I was referring to someone who you had trusted, cared about, loved stabbing you in the back and trying to intentionally hurt you.
It has nothing to do with not trusting my husband, which I do completely. It has to do with the fact that people are arrogant or naive enough to think that this kind of stuff doesn't and won't get out someday. Not wanting to take the pictures has nothing to do with being insecure, and everything to do with privacy. My naked body is for my husband and him alone. He sees it everyday, why would he need a picture? Taking naked pictures of yourself, in itself, it just trashy, IMO.
Because it's naughty, because it spices up a sex life, because it's fun, kinky and intimate
Because there are positions besides missionary out there. I'll repeat...nudity is NOT a bad thing...naked pictures are not a bad thing it's the matter in which they are distributed - with or without consent
Edit** And if they are or AREN'T suppose to be distributed. It's about trust and breaking that trust someone has given you
It's about being a completely immature, creepy, files stored on your computer of past girlfriend's jerk0 -
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Because it's naughty, because it spices up a sex life, because it's fun, kinky and intimate
Because there are positions besides missionary out there. I'll repeat...nudity is NOT a bad thing...naked pictures are not a bad thing it's the matter in which they are distributed - with or without consent
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I don't think nudity is a bad thing, just saying that if you take pictures like that, expect someday for someone to see them. Just be careful and use some common sense.0 -
Because it's naughty, because it spices up a sex life, because it's fun, kinky and intimate
Because there are positions besides missionary out there. I'll repeat...nudity is NOT a bad thing...naked pictures are not a bad thing it's the matter in which they are distributed - with or without consent
I don't think nudity is a bad thing, just saying that if you take pictures like that, expect someday for someone to see them. Just be careful and use some common sense.
So you are saying you personally can expect your husband to share a provocative picture of you if he had one?0
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