Is it necessary to be that trashy?

myofibril

My take on the OP's language was that it was not the taking of nudie booty pics, videos and or wood carvings that was trashy, but rather that it was ttrashy for the recipient/film maker to share them with persons not initially included in the sharing circle. I would think that the latter would fall under most any reasonable definition of trashy. Perhaps I read it wrong?

No, you have it right.

I wasn't disagreeing with the OP but more the further discussion that seems to suggest that somehow the actually taking pictures in itself was trashy, lacked class or was something to be avoided or be ashamed about.

It's that I don't get...

MFPAddict

My take on the OP's language was that it was not the taking of nudie booty pics, videos and or wood carvings that was trashy, but rather that it was ttrashy for the recipient/film maker to share them with persons not initially included in the sharing circle. I would think that the latter would fall under most any reasonable definition of trashy. Perhaps I read it wrong?

No, you have it right.

I wasn't disagreeing with the OP but more the further discussion that seems to suggest that somehow the actually taking pictures in itself was trashy, lacked class or was something to be avoided or be ashamed about.

It's that I don't get...

The people disagreeing with the OP are the people that HAVE to have the lights off in order to have sex. :laugh:

iron_jj

I would do nothing but consider it a lesson learned.

This, not much you can do I guess.. Thats very low though.

Meg177

If it hadn't been the pics it would have been something else. That’s one of the problems with being intimate with somebody. He sounds angry and hurt. I don’t think you need to get even because, really, that’s built in to what he’s done. Can you imagine what the people to whom he has shown those pictures think of him? It will bite him and you won’t have to do a darn thing except feel a bit sorry for him.

SwannySez

My take on the OP's language was that it was not the taking of nudie booty pics, videos and or wood carvings that was trashy, but rather that it was ttrashy for the recipient/film maker to share them with persons not initially included in the sharing circle. I would think that the latter would fall under most any reasonable definition of trashy. Perhaps I read it wrong?

No, you have it right.

I wasn't disagreeing with the OP but more the further discussion that seems to suggest that somehow the actually taking pictures in itself was trashy, lacked class or was something to be avoided or be ashamed about.

It's that I don't get...

Oh, ok. That I don't get either. But there are a whole lot of posts in these forums that make me shake my head, chuckle and hope that birth control is being practiced. Unfortunately, the puritannical midset that finds such acts abhorrent generally goes hand in hand with prolific breeeding to rival the Duggars.

I say it all the time on here: the world would be a much better place if people spent less time judging others and more time heloping others.

Crap, I sound like a freakin' cereal box. Granola. I need to go look at boobs now.

KickassAugust

Just forget your dreams of running for high office and move forward. :flowerforyou:

jcstanton

My take on the OP's language was that it was not the taking of nudie booty pics, videos and or wood carvings that was trashy, but rather that it was ttrashy for the recipient/film maker to share them with persons not initially included in the sharing circle. I would think that the latter would fall under most any reasonable definition of trashy. Perhaps I read it wrong?

No, you have it right.

I wasn't disagreeing with the OP but more the further discussion that seems to suggest that somehow the actually taking pictures in itself was trashy, lacked class or was something to be avoided or be ashamed about.

It's that I don't get...

Oh, ok. That I don't get either. But there are a whole lot of posts in these forums that make me shake my head, chuckle and hope that birth control is being practiced. Unfortunately, the puritannical midset that finds such acts abhorrent generally goes hand in hand with prolific breeeding to rival the Duggars.

I say it all the time on here: the world would be a much better place if people spent less time judging others and more time heloping others.

Crap, I sound like a freakin' cereal box. Granola. I need to go look at boobs now.

I made a comment about being embarrassed about ADMITTING to having taken photos/video of such. Not from an attitude of judgement, but because I learned a long time ago that, if there's something you're thinking about that you DON'T want anyone else to know about, don't say it, don't write it down, don't take photos, don't video it, don't act on it. Once it leaves your mind, it's only a matter of time before it's no longer a secret. If you act on your impulses, be sure you're prepared to suffer the consequences if/when it becomes public knowledge. Again, not trying to justify the jerks who would intentionally try to humiliate their ex by making such a private moment public, I'm just advising that it's always wise to think before you act.

Lifting_chick

that is why you don't do naked pics.

Bronx_Montgomery

that is why you don't do naked pics.

LuckyAng

Can someone please explain to me how exactly sending naked pictures of yourself to your partner, or anyone else for that matter, is trashy or lacks class? I really don't get it.

Sex in itself is not trashy. How then does the act of physically recording it make it so? Should I be keeping my eyes closed throughout the act because hey, sex is ok but seeing it is definitely not? Should I make love in complete darkness?

The same with nudity. Nudity is not trashy but recording it somehow is?

Frankly the argument strikes me as utter nonsense.

Love this.

Wreak_Havoc

Relationship mistake: Nakie pictures of one another

Relationship ends...someone has to be immature and white trash and spread those pics around

what would you do and how should they be punished??

Did you really need to say "white trash"? That's racist & makes you sound "trashy & immature".

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=white trash&defid=1421081

Seriously? You're calling me racist....and citing the URBAN DICTIONARY?! :huh: :noway:
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What if they are black? Can they still be white trash?

Oh heck yes! Any race can be white trash, we just do it best! Bwahahahahahaha :glasses:

Shanna_Inc86

The original question was more of a hypothetical but I love all the responses and debate.

MFPAddict

The original question was more of a hypothetical but I love all the responses and debate.

Damn. Was hoping to see stumble upon your pics. :bigsmile: