Oh no.......I've been deleted!

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  • fatgirlslove
    fatgirlslove Posts: 614 Member
    We have cool kids?...okay lol
  • katythemommy
    katythemommy Posts: 437 Member
    I just realized a guy deleted me. He kept private messaging me trying to "flirt" even though he would post about his wife and children and I'm married with children as well. Don't see it as a loss since I'm here for support not to "meet guys" *eye roll*

    Good riddance!
  • Just realized I've been deleted by one of the MFP "cool kids"....lol. Kinda funny ;-)

    Haha I'm guessing we're talking the same person - I was, too, as was my fiance. :P Oh well, it happens.

    I delete people when we don't interact much, or when they're too cheery. I like real, human people, y'know?
  • I've solved that problem. No friends. Don't ask, don't accept.

    I am an MFP island.

    You have to be a MFP island being a Sens fan! :laugh:
  • Banks01
    Banks01 Posts: 945 Member
    Just realized I've been deleted by one of the MFP "cool kids"....lol. Kinda funny ;-)

    Personally, I've decided to no longer delete anyone off of my friend list. I've done hatchet jobs in the past, partially due to my list getting too large and partially due to me experiencing the male version of "that time of the month". So, if I deleted you in the past, I'm sorry....it's not you, it's me & really, it's kinda stupid. If you're on my list it's because at some point one of us was inspired by or interested in supporting the other.....Good luck y'all!! :drinker:


    So true. There's one I particular that seems to be compensating for lack of popularity in high school. At least everything out of their mouth seems bitter and catty.

    I watch my number drop once in awhile but never know who it is. I'm also done with the cutting. Seems goofy now.
  • juliee274
    juliee274 Posts: 124 Member
    WTH?!? Good Lord, man, you've lost a child! Or a small female! You rock. Screw them.

    I only have four friends, and I may be about to cut one. Of course, I have only been here two weeks. The only reason to have friends, IMO, is for encouragement and support. If you cannot provide that, then off you go.I need ACTIVE encouragement. I have 69 frickin' pounds to lose still.
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member

    Nice I made the fahking cut, spoken like a true Bostonian


    why aren't you watching the sox game right now?
  • LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo
    LaMujerMasBonitaDelMundo Posts: 3,634 Member
    It feels bad when you realize that some people deleted you. I never deleted anyone on my list & yet I noticed that I haven't seen the post or comments of some of my friends here who were consistently posting something in the past & commenting on my post. I don't understand it either and I can't remember saying or posting something rude or insane to drive them away (sigh). Anyway I'll just leave it up to them, they know what they're doing. If they don't like me then so be it.
  • mwcraig34
    mwcraig34 Posts: 359 Member
    As a matter of fact I deleted some one today! I only have 2 friends and this 3 person was a new add! Against my better judgement They got the nod! Then all of the sudden their posts were all drama and "I just changed my entire profile and deleted some of my friends so I can start over!" Ok no thanks DELETED! I dont need drama like that!
  • WickedGarden
    WickedGarden Posts: 944 Member
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    def NOT a 'cool kid'...I only have 3 friends, been here 3 months. What-evs.

    anyway, it's their loss.

    Since you *still* have that awesome profile pic, I'll be your friend!! lol

    LOL, I just got back from dinner and saw this....:laugh:
  • jhardenbergh
    jhardenbergh Posts: 1,035 Member

    Nice I made the fahking cut, spoken like a true Bostonian


    why aren't you watching the sox game right now?

    Who says I'm not
  • jhardenbergh
    jhardenbergh Posts: 1,035 Member

    Nice I made the fahking cut, spoken like a true Bostonian


    why aren't you watching the sox game right now?

    Who says I'm not

    Toronto 2-1, Papi at the bat no ones onbase, take that back Papi is on first now
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    Sniff sniff....dude, is that stench of whine you or my cheese?

    Het your panties out of a wad. The ultimate motivator in life is YOU. And I have to add, you are whining worse than a newborn crying for a nipple.
  • Changing__Christina
    Changing__Christina Posts: 245 Member
    Deleting someone in particular, was one of my best moves EVER! tehehe!
  • jhardenbergh
    jhardenbergh Posts: 1,035 Member

    Nice I made the fahking cut, spoken like a true Bostonian


    why aren't you watching the sox game right now?

    Who says I'm not

    Toronto 2-1, Papi at the bat no ones onbase, take that back Papi is on first now

    Damn it, Toronto got out of the inning unscathed, Papi stranded
  • lionempress
    lionempress Posts: 126 Member
    Be thankful. They might have a reason, & usually is your posts which doesn't match their preferences. You don't need someone who clearly stands against everything you do.

    Couldn't have said it better...
  • _Bob_
    _Bob_ Posts: 1,487 Member
    I feel the need to reply. If and when I delete someone, 9 times out of 10 it's not personal. I like to be able to interact with everyone and provide encouragement and feedback. Sometimes if the list gets too big, it becomes difficult. Then there are the few cases, where I just don't gel with the person. That being said, I don't need to defend it or justify it. It's my prerogative.

    Whatever you deleted me because you are mean and you hate me. I cried for so long that I don't even remember being your friend ;p
    i deleted, oh, 58 people today. I was super cranky and made the rule if i didn't "talk" to someone over the past week, it was over. Not that i wanted to be mean, just that my damned list was getting ridiculous for me to keep up with and i really want to support those people who also support me.

    of course you aren't talking about me here, i just thought i'd chime in on my mass delete practices today.

    and you did because you're mean too, but you're just mean enough to keep me so it's cool
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,576 Member
    wow, reading this has made me update my profile to lower expectations lol
  • LeanerBeef
    LeanerBeef Posts: 1,432 Member
    Sniff sniff....dude, is that stench of whine you or my cheese?

    Het your panties out of a wad. The ultimate motivator in life is YOU. And I have to add, you are whining worse than a newborn crying for a nipple.

    Honestly, I'm not whining and found it a little amusing......much more amusing than your lame attempt at humor. I probably would delete someone like you for the inability to read and comprehend sarcasm.

    It's fine, anyone on here should delete and do as they wish with their own friend list. It's your journey and whatever makes you do what you need to do - do it!

    I recently received an email from someone that I had deleted for no good reason and it made me feel kinda bad. It made me realize that just because you don't interact with someone on a daily basis, maybe for some reason being their friend helps them stay motivated. This gave me a good opportunity to put this out there.....


    P.S. You should also work on your spelling and grammar.
  • MoreThanMommie
    MoreThanMommie Posts: 597 Member
    Have less than 10 friends, never been deleted, but I also don't talk much. I guess my 'friends' don't seem to mind though. *shrug*
  • moran1917
    moran1917 Posts: 1,133 Member
    i deleted one woman because she wrote everything, i mean everything she did all day long. my news feed would only be her and i would have to seek out my other friends pages to support them. now i see everyone again and feel better about it.

    That being said i have been deleted by two people, both of whom i actually talked to and joked with. it did hurt my feelings. It turned out that one of them completely deleted their account so nothing about me there. just not sure why the other one did.

    i like active friends that inspire me when i see their exercise news and good diaries. i like a little pat on the back when i do well too. i like to read friends blogs. i write a blog too, no one seems to read it much, but i like to record what i do and what it felt like.
  • Faye_Anderson
    Faye_Anderson Posts: 1,495 Member
    Be thankful. They might have a reason, & usually is your posts which doesn't match their preferences. You don't need someone who clearly stands against everything you do.


    This! Sometimes you get friends who aren't about what you are about. I deleted someone a few weeks ago that posted things I personally didn't want to read. Now, that's before I knew there was a "hide" option but, why be friends with someone if you are going to hide them? I don't think you should just randomly delete people but, if they are consistently posting things you don't agree with...delete! I'm not a mean person, I don't randomly delete....and I don't kick puppies. ;)

    There is a hide option? Why am I only hearing about this now? How does that work? Does it only block friends or can I hide anyone? People have been deleted off my list because of their other friends dumb commenting
  • JeSuisPrest
    JeSuisPrest Posts: 2,005 Member
    I'm always a little surprised that people take it so seriously. Unless I know the person in real life or it's someone who frequently corresponded with me it doesn't matter. Life is way too short to have hurt feelings over "internet friends". I recently cut my list in half, I could not keep up with all those people and most didn't even correspond with me. If any had hurt feelings, I'm sorry for that but really I can't imagine wasting the time worrying about.
  • mznisaelaine
    mznisaelaine Posts: 2,262 Member
    I have been deleted before oh well!!!! I guess my niceness and positive attitude scared them away! :)
  • LeanerBeef
    LeanerBeef Posts: 1,432 Member
    I'm always a little surprised that people take it so seriously. Unless I know the person in real life or it's someone who frequently corresponded with me it doesn't matter. Life is way too short to have hurt feelings over "internet friends". I recently cut my list in half, I could not keep up with all those people and most didn't even correspond with me. If any had hurt feelings, I'm sorry for that but really I can't imagine wasting the time worrying about.

    I would delete you just for the fancy French screen name...show off! Just kidding! Like I said, to each their own. Some people get wrapped up in it.........
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    This cool kid still thinks you rock and is happy to have you as a pal! Just sayin'

    And I'm awesome!
  • kapeluza
    kapeluza Posts: 3,434 Member
    oh noes....
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  • SiouxsieQue
    SiouxsieQue Posts: 85 Member
    Hey, also keep in mind that some people (such as myself), inadvertently delete 1 or 2 peeps and then they (meaning me) thinks they got deleted! I can't be the only one here!!!
  • Awe..this is the sweetest thread :flowerforyou:
  • Tiggerrick
    Tiggerrick Posts: 1,078 Member
    yea, yea, yea, but do we really exist or is this all a dream anyway?