Is this grounds for divorce?????

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  • BlessedShauna777
    BlessedShauna777 Posts: 118 Member
    Let's say you were married to someone for 10 years and one Sunday you come down for lunch and your spouse says I have fixed a "shrimp salad for lunch would you like some?". You are allergic to shellfish and have never eaten shrimp in your life. Just based on this alone would you say that is grounds for divorce?

    lol maybe it was a joke....
  • MrsLVF
    MrsLVF Posts: 787 Member
    um no... unless you suspect they are trying to kill you for the insurance money. Then HECK YEAH!
    Did she know you were allergic? If yes then this^^^^
  • Nikkei24
    Nikkei24 Posts: 282 Member
    No, I try to feed my brother in-law peanutbutter all the time even though he hates oeanut butter. lol it's love

    Sorry and he is allergic. A guy I work with is allergic to the pollen on fresh fruit so i always offer him some lmao
  • RikanSoulja
    RikanSoulja Posts: 463 Member
    Let's say you were married to someone for 10 years and one Sunday you come down for lunch and your spouse says I have fixed a "shrimp salad for lunch would you like some?". You are allergic to shellfish and have never eaten shrimp in your life. Just based on this alone would you say that is grounds for divorce?

    Hmmm an assassination attempt.. sounds serious. Did you forget to take out the trash?
  • 1RBelle512
    1RBelle512 Posts: 53 Member
    Take her to the doctor to find out if she has early-onset Alzheimer's.
  • Fit4Evolution
    Fit4Evolution Posts: 375 Member
    :happy: i would had asked to be a wise *kitten*.. but thats just me..
  • PlunderBunneh
    PlunderBunneh Posts: 1,705 Member
    Of course it is. How dare she spend even one second of her life not thinking about you and your needs? What kind of wife is she?
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Maybe you guys should never get married. Then you wouldn't have to be contemplating this in the first place.

    You seem cross about this. Was there a crustacean related mishap in one of your previous relationships?

    Thanks for assuming I've had a previous relationship. Sorry, I haven't :happy:
    You're scaring them all away with your love of shrimp.
  • Meg177
    Meg177 Posts: 215 Member
    Next time don't tell her what is in it... will be much cheaper then divorce.
    She's the one that made it, dude.
    ^^This

    It was probably your turn to cook.
  • sundancer1966
    sundancer1966 Posts: 478 Member
    could be an innocent mistake, brain cloud, or it could be a first attempt, maybe hire a food tester? I hope it was innocent
  • sunshinesonata
    sunshinesonata Posts: 241 Member
    Absolutely not. Nowadays, people are way too quick to suggest divorce.


    this
  • Gilbrod
    Gilbrod Posts: 1,216 Member
    better than her giving you crabs!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    LMAO!!!! If you're serious, man up and discuss things through. If you're trolling....LMAO!!!!
  • Rdahl2
    Rdahl2 Posts: 90
    This is something you should not be discussing with internet people.

    I actually agree with this 100%-- we are people trying to lose weight and change our health-- we are not specifically suited to handle matters of a personal affair with strangers. I mean, really, would you come home and say 'The concensus on the internet says I should divorce you'

    Totally agree! It's a weight loss website, not Dr Phil or Maury!! Smh!
  • WhittRak
    WhittRak Posts: 567 Member
    I think she has a reason to divorce you based on this thread. So there ya go.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    I left my first wife, because I sent her to the store for Bourbon. She came back with Evan Williams. I drink Knob Creek. B*tch slapped her and put her to the curb.
  • callikia
    callikia Posts: 226 Member
    Perhaps more grounds for a restraining order. Keep lookin' over your shoulder man...that may have just been attempt #1.
  • BaileyKat52
    BaileyKat52 Posts: 461 Member
    This is something you should not be discussing with internet people.

    I actually agree with this 100%-- we are people trying to lose weight and change our health-- we are not specifically suited to handle matters of a personal affair with strangers. I mean, really, would you come home and say 'The concensus on the internet says I should divorce you'

    I think it's funny and sad at the same time. Funny that it's so ridiculous to think some would base a divorce on the internet and sad knowing that this actually happens. You know someone somewhere out there has went to their spouse and said "I want a divorce....my friends on (inset website here) think you're a ..... and I should leave you". It's scary really when you think about it.
  • Rdahl2
    Rdahl2 Posts: 90
    nope... I'd say you're being a petulant baby.

    ^^^LMAO! Amen to that!
  • beckajw
    beckajw Posts: 1,728 Member
    No. I've been a type 1 diabetic for 22 years and my mom still brings cookies (or donuts or candy) when she comes to my house.

    It's easy to just not be thinking.

    Especially with shrimp--people often forget they are shellfish. They are low cal, so she was probably trying to do something healthy for you.

    However, since you even had to ask the question, you probably should just get divorced. If something like this makes you upset enough to consider it, she's better off without you.
  • secretlobster
    secretlobster Posts: 3,566 Member
    It's grounds for murder.
  • gleechick609
    gleechick609 Posts: 544 Member
    :laugh: If she wanted to murder you, she would have fed you the salad without telling you what it was first.

    Calm down, bro.
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    :laugh: If she wanted to murder you, she would have fed you the salad without telling you what it was first.

    Calm down, bro.

    exactly. and she would have chopped up the shrimp
  • TxAlpha
    TxAlpha Posts: 173 Member
    I'm with the person who stated that there are obvious trust issues.....and I'm also with the person that stated the fact that people losing weight aren't the right crowd for opinions on this matter because most of the time people losing weight are trying to upgrade themselves and there perspective relationships too.....Just my thoughts....
  • sjmgde
    sjmgde Posts: 381 Member
    this is a comical thread. thanks for the laugh and the funny reponses
  • Roadie2000
    Roadie2000 Posts: 1,801 Member
    No, I don't think having a low IQ is grounds for a divorce.
  • sandrinamsilva
    sandrinamsilva Posts: 651 Member
    You didn't say if you made the salad or she did but I wouldn't jump into divorce court just because someone may have innocently forgotten I was allergic to shellfish.
  • VintageDisaster
    VintageDisaster Posts: 56
    I hope this is a joke.

    Seriously.
  • msjersey73
    msjersey73 Posts: 182 Member
    i really hope that the original poster was not serious. if you were serious, sounds like you just need a reason to divorce.
    Seriously, people forget things all the time.
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    Calm down bro, she probably just had you confused with someone else.

    LOL
  • weighlossforbaby
    weighlossforbaby Posts: 847 Member
    Hopefully she was kidding. I know you've been married to her for 10 years but did she know? I hope you love her more than that to divorce her over this.

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