Is it just me...?

Bethie_B
Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
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Is it just me, or is there just a ton of ladies complaining about their men, or men in general lately?

If you don't like or aren't satisfied with your man, then get a new one. Then you can sit back and enjoy how much you miss your ex, because your new guy isn't satisfactory either. Maybe, just maybe, your man isn't the problem; it's you.

Or, you could just take a page from the "man book". Be happy with what you have, keep your trap shut, and try being rational instead crazy emotional. That's what men have to do all the time just to deal with women.

Of course, the other option is that you don't really want to do anything about your unhappy situation, you just want a forum full of strangers to feel sorry for you. And that's just... dumb.
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  • allisonrozsa
    allisonrozsa Posts: 178 Member
    HA HA HA HA! AMAZING!
  • creature275
    creature275 Posts: 348 Member
    Is it just me, or is there just a ton of ladies complaining about their men, or men in general lately?

    If you don't like or aren't satisfied with your man, then get a new one. Then you can sit back and enjoy how much you miss your ex, because your new guy isn't satisfactory either. Maybe, just maybe, your man isn't the problem; it's you.

    Or, you could just take a page from the "man book". Be happy with what you have, keep your trap shut, and try being rational instead crazy emotional. That's what men have to do all the time just to deal with women.

    Of course, the other option is that you don't really want to do anything about your unhappy situation, you just want a forum full of strangers to feel sorry for you. And that's just... dumb.

    wow, never thought Id hear a woman say stuff like that hahaha, with getting a good guy ladies, its all about location I promise find a good guy in a gym or something, thats how me and my wife got together and we have a wonderful relationship, not at some bar or a club a guy in the gym will be much more structured in his life, and dont be intimidated by us, the guy you think looks good pumping iron probably thinks your looking pretty good on the treadmill too haha
  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    P.S. Go make your amazing man a sandwich, and let him rest his beer in your cleavage.
  • MrsLVF
    MrsLVF Posts: 787 Member
    No, it's not just you.
    That goes for men & women. Instead of being man (or women) haters they should probably just be single & figure out how they want to live their life. Once they have that covered, they'll be able to have a healthy loving relationship.
  • ElizabethRoad
    ElizabethRoad Posts: 5,138 Member
    Why are you such a misogynist? Why do you buy into the idea that women are always crazy and men are always rational? Disgusting.
  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    Why are you such a misogynist? Why do you buy into the idea that women are always crazy and men are always rational? Disgusting.

    Well, perhaps it's because there is such an overwhelming amount of posts about women complaining about their men. Are you saying that women (in general, of course- my friends list is a superb group of ladies) aren't led by emotions? And I'm not even saying that women don't have a right to feel how they feel, just quit blaming it on your guy. You aren't happy? Change your situation.
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    P.S. Go make your amazing man a sandwich, and let him rest his beer in your cleavage.

    Marry me? :love:
  • strandedj
    strandedj Posts: 128
    I say just be happy you have it good. If you don't like someones vent choose another thread!
  • umachanxo
    umachanxo Posts: 926 Member
    I think that complaining on a forum about your partner just shows what lack of communication there is in the relationship. When I have an issue, I sit down with my man and discuss it. The problem won't be solved if I talk to strangers rather than him. If the issue is too big to handle, I talk to him and we would go for couples counselling.

    I know all of this, and I'm only 20 years old. I guess I don't get why others don't understand that if there's a problem - fix it with the person.
  • sunnyday789
    sunnyday789 Posts: 309 Member
    Is it just me, or is there just a ton of ladies complaining about their men, or men in general lately?

    If you don't like or aren't satisfied with your man, then get a new one. Then you can sit back and enjoy how much you miss your ex, because your new guy isn't satisfactory either. Maybe, just maybe, your man isn't the problem; it's you.

    Or, you could just take a page from the "man book". Be happy with what you have, keep your trap shut, and try being rational instead crazy emotional. That's what men have to do all the time just to deal with women.

    Of course, the other option is that you don't really want to do anything about your unhappy situation, you just want a forum full of strangers to feel sorry for you. And that's just... dumb.
    Men never complain about women!? Don't think so
  • HellsBells61
    HellsBells61 Posts: 64
    Why are you such a misogynist? Why do you buy into the idea that women are always crazy and men are always rational? Disgusting.

    Well, perhaps it's because there is such an overwhelming amount of posts about women complaining about their men. Are you saying that women (in general, of course- my friends list is a superb group of ladies) aren't led by emotions? And I'm not even saying that women don't have a right to feel how they feel, just quit blaming it on your guy. You aren't happy? Change your situation.

    Maybe because there are an overwhelming amount of women on MFP compared to men? Or women are more likely to moan on a public forum? Or that women share their problems more readily than men? Your comment is a sweeping generalisation with little or no basis in facts. Get over yourself.
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
    And a good morning to you toooooooooo:flowerforyou:
  • 412HeavyLifter
    412HeavyLifter Posts: 170 Member
    Is it just me, or is there just a ton of ladies complaining about their men, or men in general lately?

    If you don't like or aren't satisfied with your man, then get a new one. Then you can sit back and enjoy how much you miss your ex, because your new guy isn't satisfactory either. Maybe, just maybe, your man isn't the problem; it's you.

    Or, you could just take a page from the "man book". Be happy with what you have, keep your trap shut, and try being rational instead crazy emotional. That's what men have to do all the time just to deal with women.

    Of course, the other option is that you don't really want to do anything about your unhappy situation, you just want a forum full of strangers to feel sorry for you. And that's just... dumb.

    Spot ON!
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    Your right! Women are Irational crazy emotional beings!
  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    I think that complaining on a forum about your partner just shows what lack of communication there is in the relationship. When I have an issue, I sit down with my man and discuss it. The problem won't be solved if I talk to strangers rather than him. If the issue is too big to handle, I talk to him and we would go for couples counselling.

    I know all of this, and I'm only 20 years old. I guess I don't get why others don't understand that if there's a problem - fix it with the person.

    Atta girl! I wish you much happiness and continued success in your relationship!
  • morganhccstudent724
    morganhccstudent724 Posts: 1,261 Member
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    I can't make sammiches while I'm at work :wink:
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Grabbing some popcorn. This one is going to be fun to watch. :bigsmile:
  • umachanxo
    umachanxo Posts: 926 Member
    I think that complaining on a forum about your partner just shows what lack of communication there is in the relationship. When I have an issue, I sit down with my man and discuss it. The problem won't be solved if I talk to strangers rather than him. If the issue is too big to handle, I talk to him and we would go for couples counselling.

    I know all of this, and I'm only 20 years old. I guess I don't get why others don't understand that if there's a problem - fix it with the person.

    Atta girl! I wish you much happiness and continued success in your relationship!

    Thanks! <3 We're actually getting married in 9 days LOL.
  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    Why are you such a misogynist? Why do you buy into the idea that women are always crazy and men are always rational? Disgusting.

    Well, perhaps it's because there is such an overwhelming amount of posts about women complaining about their men. Are you saying that women (in general, of course- my friends list is a superb group of ladies) aren't led by emotions? And I'm not even saying that women don't have a right to feel how they feel, just quit blaming it on your guy. You aren't happy? Change your situation.

    Maybe because there are an overwhelming amount of women on MFP compared to men? Or women are more likely to moan on a public forum? Or that women share their problems more readily than men? Your comment is a sweeping generalisation with little or no basis in facts. Get over yourself.

    Sure, more women than men. Agreed, more likely to share problems. Fact? I never claimed a fact, just an observation. And the question isn't why are women posting more or sharing problems; the question is why are they so often complaining about their unsatisfactory relationships and putting all the blame on their fella?

    Listen, I'm just as emotional and hormonal as the next gal. You know what I do about it? I apologize to my man for acting crazy and not listening to my rational brain. You know what I get in return? Kindness, support and hot action! Give it a shot, you may like it.
  • chanstriste13
    chanstriste13 Posts: 3,277 Member
    whoa...
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    Oh.
  • chanstriste13
    chanstriste13 Posts: 3,277 Member
    toe?
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    Is it just me, or is there just a ton of ladies complaining about their men, or men in general lately?

    If you don't like or aren't satisfied with your man, then get a new one. Then you can sit back and enjoy how much you miss your ex, because your new guy isn't satisfactory either. Maybe, just maybe, your man isn't the problem; it's you.

    Or, you could just take a page from the "man book". Be happy with what you have, keep your trap shut, and try being rational instead crazy emotional. That's what men have to do all the time just to deal with women.

    Of course, the other option is that you don't really want to do anything about your unhappy situation, you just want a forum full of strangers to feel sorry for you. And that's just... dumb.

    You are a wise woman after my own heart...our men are blessed with us...yes?
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    You are a wise woman after my own heart...our men are blessed with us...yes?

    Yes.
  • escloflowneCHANGED
    escloflowneCHANGED Posts: 3,038 Member
    Why are you such a misogynist? Why do you buy into the idea that women are always crazy and men are always rational? Disgusting.

    Well, perhaps it's because there is such an overwhelming amount of posts about women complaining about their men. Are you saying that women (in general, of course- my friends list is a superb group of ladies) aren't led by emotions? And I'm not even saying that women don't have a right to feel how they feel, just quit blaming it on your guy. You aren't happy? Change your situation.


    Maybe because there are an overwhelming amount of women on MFP compared to men? Or women are more likely to moan on a public forum? Or that women share their problems more readily than men? Your comment is a sweeping generalisation with little or no basis in facts. Get over yourself.

    I think we can all agree that some women shouldn't be aloud to post on the forums for a few days a month though...Right?
  • Elizabeth_C34
    Elizabeth_C34 Posts: 6,376 Member
    I :heart: you.
  • Bethie_B
    Bethie_B Posts: 292 Member
    I think we can all agree that some women shouldn't be aloud to post on the forums for a few days a month though...Right?
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    :drinker:
  • Psychoanalytic
    Psychoanalytic Posts: 261
    P.S. Go make your amazing man a sandwich, and let him rest his beer in your cleavage.

    Marry me? :love:

    Just to make it fair, Brett will you marry me? LOL
  • BrettPGH
    BrettPGH Posts: 4,716 Member
    P.S. Go make your amazing man a sandwich, and let him rest his beer in your cleavage.

    Marry me? :love:

    Just to make it fair, Brett will you marry me? LOL

    Sorry sugar. I waited 34 years to find a rational woman. Not gonna let her go ever.
  • chanstriste13
    chanstriste13 Posts: 3,277 Member
    is it just me, or do you think it's really funny when people b!tch about people who are b!tching but act like they are not actually b!tching themselves? maybe alternate viewpoints score b!tching brownie points? just a thought... :tongue:

    edited to uncensor my b!tchiness.

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