WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A GUY...

meemo88 · April 2012

I want to take a vote or see some opinions on this.

I have been talking to a guy online at first, then he kept asking for my number. I gave it to him. He lives in a different state, but only 4 hours away driving. at first the calls were not everyday but at least every other day and he also used to be on messenger a lot. now he doesnt answer my texts and when i call he doesnt answer he will probably call back a couple days later. when i ask him why he hasnt been calling he says he is busy and that he took on a new job (he designs web sites and such) ... i just dont understand. Also I saw him once for an hour or so, after he left everything was fine, but lately past couple weeks or so he has been so distant. I'm not sure what to think and I dont want to say or do anything to seem needy or desperate. I texted him once and called him once on sunday with no answer. he still has not called me back so im not going to call. what should i do from here? What should i think? I'm so confused, and i really dont have time for a heart break. maybe he is just busy, but i mean u dont have a second to text me hello or something? ur not obama..... ugh.... some advice?......

thanks guys :ohwell:

Nekhet · April 2012

I think you already know but from his actions or lack of...sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you. Usually most people when they are attracted and into a relationship will text or call all the time...pay attention to you as much as possible and let you know it. Doesn't sound like he is based on what you said. I can't judge him or know that for sure but from what it sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you...sorry

meemo88 · April 2012

bummp anyone else lol

Eaglesfanintn · April 2012

I think you already know but from his actions or lack of...sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you. Usually most people when they are attracted and into a relationship will text or call all the time...pay attention to you as much as possible and let you know it. Doesn't sound like he is based on what you said. I can't judge him or know that for sure but from what it sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you...sorry

^^This^^

Toxictwist · April 2012

need to move on with life. If he contacts you at a later date then great... But don't wait around for him (or any guy)

LisaJ2904 · April 2012

:flowerforyou: Yes sorry sweetheart but the guys are right. He's just not that into you . Leave it now and move on xx

poncho33 · April 2012

He isn't into you, you're young and pretty just move on!

GasMasterFlash · April 2012

maybe he is just busy, but i mean u dont have a second to text me hello or something? ur not obama..... ugh.... some advice?......

Clinton would have been all over dat azz.

kennie2 · April 2012

maybe he's actually just busy, i think youre looking into it too much

_the_feniks_ · April 2012

I have to agree with the guys. Sorry. If was as into it as you seem, he would make time for you no matter how busy he is. It only takes a couple of seconds to text "sorry. i'm busy, call you later".

sma83 · April 2012

Sorry Honey, but I have to agree with the other poster. It doesn't sound like he is that interested. Maybe he met someone else and doesn't want to say. And maybe he is just busy with work, but if you were that important he would make the time, busy or not. Try to move on and find someone who appreciates you and let's you know it! :flowerforyou:

Lifting_chick · April 2012

I think you already know but from his actions or lack of...sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you. Usually most people when they are attracted and into a relationship will text or call all the time...pay attention to you as much as possible and let you know it. Doesn't sound like he is based on what you said. I can't judge him or know that for sure but from what it sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you...sorry

same here don't take it personal you just might not be his type....

spudman1232 · April 2012

here is my number....:) I respond.

janalayn · April 2012

Don't waste time on losers who don't have time for you. If a guy is into you - - he will find a way to make contact no matter how "busy" he is.

tabithajoyy · April 2012

I think you already know but from his actions or lack of...sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you. Usually most people when they are attracted and into a relationship will text or call all the time...pay attention to you as much as possible and let you know it. Doesn't sound like he is based on what you said. I can't judge him or know that for sure but from what it sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you...sorry

I to, AGREE!!!!