WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A GUY...

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  • ryall70
    ryall70 Posts: 519 Member
    I have to agree with the guys. Sorry. If was as into it as you seem, he would make time for you no matter how busy he is. It only takes a couple of seconds to text "sorry. i'm busy, call you later".
    Yea it only takes a few econds to say Hey.
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,064 Member
    Read this book and take its advice (as well as the majority of posters on this thread):


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    No i would say he would for sure want to be "In to you"
  • thomassd1969
    thomassd1969 Posts: 564 Member
    Some guys only start long distance love affairs because they need attention or they want reassurance of their manhood. They never really intend on it being a relationship. Dont take it personally those guys are just jerks. His loss.
  • Tybalt71
    Tybalt71 Posts: 1,064 Member
    Any update on how this relationship is going??? OP are you moving in with him? engaged? pregnant?-Ty we want to know-txs in advance
  • Dayna154
    Dayna154 Posts: 910 Member
    he isnt interested anymore or found someone else.. Move on.. Life is too short to second guess someone who isnt there
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
    It means he's not interested in you and has found someone else he's directing his attention to. Move on.
  • Bumdrahp
    Bumdrahp Posts: 1,314 Member
    bummp anyone else lol
    BUSTED!!!!! married guy or has a GF, comes only around when convienant for him on his terms, hes involved or found another playtoy-cheers-Ty , want me to go beat him up? lol

    yes he lives in Pennsylvania...
    does he try to get you on webcam and tell you to put something nice on like a tank top and shorty shorts? if he does, hes not only a liar but not original cuzz those are my lines-Ty

    LMFAO! Horrible... yes sweetheart move on, the guy isn't into you. :(
  • TheDoctorDana
    TheDoctorDana Posts: 595 Member
    I think you already know but from his actions or lack of...sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you. Usually most people when they are attracted and into a relationship will text or call all the time...pay attention to you as much as possible and let you know it. Doesn't sound like he is based on what you said. I can't judge him or know that for sure but from what it sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you...sorry :(


    This :(
  • Savyna
    Savyna Posts: 789 Member
    Advice: Move on

    Opinion: He is one of many sleazy guys online that is actually in a relationship, had a slow point or bad point inhis relationship, found you had some fun (whether it be physical or just emotional feeling attractive) now everything is Peachy again and he is trying to get you to dump him.

    true, i've had it happen to me except she wasn't online she was in school and was playing all these games but then was quick to run off to her ex which is now her bf again -.-
    I would move on like everyone else has said. They aren't interested so just keep moving forward.
  • loseweightjames
    loseweightjames Posts: 360 Member
    I think you already know but from his actions or lack of...sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you. Usually most people when they are attracted and into a relationship will text or call all the time...pay attention to you as much as possible and let you know it. Doesn't sound like he is based on what you said. I can't judge him or know that for sure but from what it sounds like he isn't that 'in' to you...sorry :(

    ^^^^^^^^^^^^^^ THIS

    he's not into you

    sorry
  • Heaven71
    Heaven71 Posts: 706 Member
    Find someone closer to you that you can have a real relationship with.

    Starting long distance will almost always end long distance.

    His loss.
  • loseweightjames
    loseweightjames Posts: 360 Member
    I want to take a vote or see some opinions on this.

    I have been talking to a guy online at first, then he kept asking for my number. I gave it to him. He lives in a different state, but only 4 hours away driving. at first the calls were not everyday but at least every other day and he also used to be on messenger a lot. now he doesnt answer my texts and when i call he doesnt answer he will probably call back a couple days later. when i ask him why he hasnt been calling he says he is busy and that he took on a new job (he designs web sites and such) ... i just dont understand. Also I saw him once for an hour or so, after he left everything was fine, but lately past couple weeks or so he has been so distant. I'm not sure what to think and I dont want to say or do anything to seem needy or desperate. I texted him once and called him once on sunday with no answer. he still has not called me back so im not going to call. what should i do from here? What should i think? I'm so confused, and i really dont have time for a heart break. maybe he is just busy, but i mean u dont have a second to text me hello or something? ur not obama..... ugh.... some advice?......

    thanks guys :ohwell:

    OH.... and some advice. Webcam first, or do something so he knows EXACTLY what you look like TODAY.

    Guys are very visual, if they see great photos online and then they meet you and you don't look the way they envisioned they won't be interested. It doesn't even mean someone has "fake" photos, but sometimes profile photos look better than your average day-to-day look.

    Now if you live a few miles from each other it's not that big of a deal, but always make sure to take a very recent photo and send it before actually meeting. Dating profiles.... i usually try to put up "the best", to try and get them talking, and once we're talking and she seems interesting then I'll send a photo I took recently or get on webcam or something.
  • kprangernix07
    kprangernix07 Posts: 122 Member
    Know that you deserve better, otherwise you wouldnt be looking for a fix. And if you dont have time for heartache then you dont have time for love sweet-pea!
  • Changing__Christina
    Changing__Christina Posts: 245 Member
    I'm sorry but he isn't into you. He probably met someone or has a gf or something. I've been there, done that a few too many times! It sucks, but move on...its better that you aren't with a jacka$$ anyway!
  • meemo88
    meemo88 Posts: 436 Member
    Any update on how this relationship is going??? OP are you moving in with him? engaged? pregnant?-Ty we want to know-txs in advance

    lol....i dont know.......we havent spoken in 2 days.....no im not moving in with him, i would love to be engaged to him, but im not.....lol......im waiting for a phone call......i wonder how long it will take to get engaged lol :(

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