WHAT DOES IT MEAN WHEN A GUY...
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He is either no longer interested or he's married. either way, you need to move on!!0
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Drop him and move on. Most people you meet on the internet are what YOU imagine in the most perfect sense. When you meet them in person, it's reality, not what you imagined them to be. You can only start facing reality when you find out for yourself they are different than your perceived perfection. I hope you get the gist of this. It's hard to explain. But, it's the reason so many people end up getting hurt by someone they meet on the internet. The internet isn't bad, but you have to use caution in every sense and make wise choices.0
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Online? I love online dating.
Limitless access to guys. This one sounds like a dud. Next!!! 0 -
I say move on!! If he is avoiding you, sounds like he is doing it for a reason.... There are plenty of others out there! You seem like a very sweet person and deserve better!0
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maybe he's actually just busy, i think youre looking into it too much
I have a guy that when he gets super busy he just drops off with the texts. When he isn't so busy, he texts all the time. I have learned that this is his way of coping.
It's hard to say but it sounds like you are getting hurt so maybe just get busy doing other things and let him figure out what he is doing. Sounds to me like he is super super busy.
Also, if he is this busy at the beginning he will probably be like this in the future if you are dating. Just a thought
By the way. YOU are GOURGEOUS!0 -
you're interrupting his time with his wife/girlfriend
This, most likely.0 -
This shouldve been answered in my TRUTH thread, but anyhow, after meeting you he may not have found you attractive.0
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thanks guys
I'm really sad now that all of you are saying this....
if he wasnt interested why did he try kissing me when we met? why did he call or text after? but now isnt so much?
i really really like this guy, and im not interested in anyone else. i dont know whats wrong with me. :sad: what doesnt he like? i make him smile and laugh everytime he has a bad day, i know im not bad looking, and we get along. i just dont get it .. im hurt0 -
He likes you but he wants you to want him so he's playing hard to get. Just keep calling and texting and maybe even do drive by's. He'll get that you really like him and he'll whisk you off your feet and you will live happily ever after.0
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He's not in to you. Move on. Get the book. Don't waste your time. You are too fabulous to be treated that way.0
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if he wasnt interested why did he try kissing me when we met? why did he call or text after? but now isnt so much?
See: Van Halen, Jamie's Crying0 -
He was interested in kissing you. Doesn't mean that he's interested in a relationship.if he wasnt interested why did he try kissing me when we met?0 -
thanks guys I'm really sad now that all of you are saying this....
if he wasnt interested why did he try kissing me when we met? why did he call or text after? but now isnt so much?
i really really like this guy, and im not interested in anyone else. i dont know whats wrong with me. :sad: what doesnt he like? i make him smile and laugh everytime he has a bad day, i know im not bad looking, and we get along. i just dont get it .. im hurt
married??0 -
He likes you but he wants you to want him so he's playing hard to get. Just keep calling and texting and maybe even do drive by's. He'll get that you really like him and he'll whisk you off your feet and you will live happily ever after.
^^^^Listen to the smart lady.0 -
He likes you but he wants you to want him so he's playing hard to get. Just keep calling and texting and maybe even do drive by's. He'll get that you really like him and he'll whisk you off your feet and you will live happily ever after.
^^^^Listen to the smart lady.
i thought she was being sarcastic...0 -
He likes you but he wants you to want him so he's playing hard to get. Just keep calling and texting and maybe even do drive by's. He'll get that you really like him and he'll whisk you off your feet and you will live happily ever after.
*kitten* drive by's, just break into his house while he's at work and be there waiting for him on the bed when he gets home. That's the only logical thing to do to find out for sure.0 -
I went through the same thing recently, after 5 dates his attitude changed and he told me he was busy with work. I managed to get him on the phone and asked "what happened?" He told me we both got busy...apparently I didn't realize my schedule was so packed.
I always remember a family member telling my brother, if someone isn't willing to lose a little sleep to stay up chatting with you or to be up early to see you then they are not interested.
Don't waste your time on him, no one is ever so busy that they can't send a quick text or call.0 -
Boil his kid's pet rabbit while you're there.
*kitten* drive by's, just break into his house while he's at work and be there waiting for him on the bed when he gets home. That's the only logical thing to do to find out for sure.He likes you but he wants you to want him so he's playing hard to get. Just keep calling and texting and maybe even do drive by's. He'll get that you really like him and he'll whisk you off your feet and you will live happily ever after.0 -
Ok...now it sounds a little different. He tried kissing and my guess is he would have tried a lot more if you had let him. Then it's hard to say what would have happened but odds are it would have NOT gone the way you want. If he found you online, he may have found others and is getting what he wants there.
Look.... if I was available and a woman like you was texting me, you better believe I'd text back and return her calls. I'm sorry you are hurt. I really am but my guess is he found someone closer to home. It will all work out for the better IF YOU WILL LET IT. You too will find the perfect guy for you and you'll forget this guy from 4 hours away.0 -
Boil his kid's pet rabbit while you're there.
*kitten* drive by's, just break into his house while he's at work and be there waiting for him on the bed when he gets home. That's the only logical thing to do to find out for sure.He likes you but he wants you to want him so he's playing hard to get. Just keep calling and texting and maybe even do drive by's. He'll get that you really like him and he'll whisk you off your feet and you will live happily ever after.
Absolutely! I can't believe I left that part out! Sorry OP, I almost lost you your guy by leaving that part out.0 -
It's hard to accept, but if he's not calling, he's not interested
Make some room for the next guy
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He likes you but he wants you to want him so he's playing hard to get. Just keep calling and texting and maybe even do drive by's. He'll get that you really like him and he'll whisk you off your feet and you will live happily ever after.
No. I don't agree with this at all. If this is the case with this guy, then his world revolves around him. What woman would want a schmuck like that?0 -
Don't over analyze it...we guys are simple...if we are into you we are right there
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Clinton would have been all over dat azz.maybe he is just busy, but i mean u dont have a second to text me hello or something? ur not obama..... ugh.... some advice?......0 -
:laugh: :laugh: you are HYSTERICAL!!
Clinton would have been all over dat azz.maybe he is just busy, but i mean u dont have a second to text me hello or something? ur not obama..... ugh.... some advice?......0 -
maybe he's actually just busy, i think youre looking into it too much
Even if a guy is busy he will make time to call you even if for just a few minutes and it only takes 30 seconds to reply to a text.
He's obviously just not that into you and instead of saying it to you he figured if he ignores you you'll figure it out on your own. You only met this guy once just move on.0 -
Well he is probably not interested anymore or has found a real girl as in not online closer to him. Just my opnion0
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He's lost interest for whatever reason. Lots of guys like the chase but once they've caught you....they are on to the next chase. It's not a reflection on you.0
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Lose his number. If men are interested in you, they make time for you. Same goes for women.0
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stop calling him
you're interrupting his time with his wife/girlfriend
Hate to say it, but it's probably this...or he just isn't into you anymore. It's hard to have any sort of distance relationship, especially one started online (Do you -really- know him? No, probably not.). It's easy for someone to get distracted and lose interest because it isn't a 'real' commitment. I'd say move on and don't spend your time waiting around for a jerk! Find someone who wants to talk to you as much as you want to talk to them 0
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