FLIRTY WOMEN - AGE DIFFERENCE

MFPAddict
MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
This thread is intended for the women on this site that ENJOY flirting with men. If you are a prude or just anti-men, your time might be better spent elsewhere. Here is a Cat Lady thread you might enjoy.

http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/573685-crazy-cat-lady-photos

Anyway, just curious what your comfort level is regarding age difference with the men you flirt with. Personally, I do not put much thought into age when it comes to my flirting. For me it is mostly about personality, and of course looks plays a role as well. I am in my early 40s and have had multiple young women (early 20s) on my friends list over the past year. Some didn't let age bother them at all and were quite flirty. Of course for some age was clearly an issue.

Please note, not looking for friend requests. I maintain a very small (under 30) list and plan to keep it that way. Just a topic I was curious about.
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  • Farfourah
    Farfourah Posts: 896 Member
    If you're old enough to be my dad, no unless you look amazing, and don't look like you're pushing 40...I'm so okay with that =O
  • LauraMacNCheese
    LauraMacNCheese Posts: 7,173 Member
    I prefer older guys, personally...but I'm an equal opportunity flirt :bigsmile:
  • ashmarie484
    ashmarie484 Posts: 296 Member
    I prefer older guys, personally...but I'm an equal opportunity flirt :bigsmile:

    ^^^This^^^
  • DeenaSteelerGirl
    DeenaSteelerGirl Posts: 421 Member
    Is there flirting on MFP ?? News to me. I am shocked. But to answer the question anyway... even though I don't fall into this catergory.. (my story.. sticking to it) I do have some age limits. I have a 15 yr old son and I would feel like I was robbing the cradle if I go below the age of ... welll... Hmmm... 28 ... maybe a year or two younger.. But mostly my male friends are my age alittle older.. alittle younger.
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    If you're old enough to be my dad, no unless you look amazing, and don't look like you're pushing 40...I'm so okay with that =O

    Kinda reminds me of a comment a guy made in another thread.

    The same exact suggestive message from two different guys (one attractive, one old, fat, ugly) will result in different reactions. The attractive guy gets a pass, and the other guy is labeled a creeper.
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Is there flirting on MFP ?? News to me. I am shocked. But to answer the question anyway... even though I don't fall into this catergory.. (my story.. sticking to it) I do have some age limits. I have a 15 yr old son and I would feel like I was robbing the cradle if I go below the age of ... welll... Hmmm... 28 ... maybe a year or two younger.. But mostly my male friends are my age alittle older.. alittle younger.

    Deena. You really need to get a t-shirt with that phrase (my story, sticking to it) on it.

    Preferably white and soaked with water!
  • roachhaley
    roachhaley Posts: 978 Member
    I find it weird how many people flirt on here. It seems like such a weird place to. But anyways, my boyfriend is 4 years older than me but I would be fine if he were a few years older than that. I dont want to think about dating someone younger than me.
  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    im thinking of eliminating anyone on my friend list below 28 as even though there isnt any flirting going on it just feels creep to have a person on my list below that age
  • L00py_T0ucan
    L00py_T0ucan Posts: 1,378 Member
    Hey! Some women like men AND cats. The two are not mutually exclusive.



    Never forget that a COUGAR is essentially feline. :laugh: :bigsmile: :noway:

    - - -

    young men - be VERY afraid! RAWR!
  • DeenaSteelerGirl
    DeenaSteelerGirl Posts: 421 Member
    Is there flirting on MFP ?? News to me. I am shocked. But to answer the question anyway... even though I don't fall into this catergory.. (my story.. sticking to it) I do have some age limits. I have a 15 yr old son and I would feel like I was robbing the cradle if I go below the age of ... welll... Hmmm... 28 ... maybe a year or two younger.. But mostly my male friends are my age alittle older.. alittle younger.

    Deena. You really need to get a t-shirt with that phrase (my story, sticking to it) on it.

    Preferably white and soaked with water!

    :bigsmile: I will bring one when we meet.... lol.. oh.. wait.. I don't flirt.. damn it !!
  • TheBraveryLover
    TheBraveryLover Posts: 1,217 Member
    I usually flirt with guys near my age and older. Guys who look like they're in high school or early 20's who hit on me make me feel uncomfortable (don't ask me why) but I'm friendly back with them; not flirty. As far as age limit? None. I've flirted with the 50-something year old guy who walked past me on the train and said I had great legs. I winked at him. :-P

    Oh, you're talking about on here? Yeah, I don't flirt on MFP. Only in real life.
  • AdoraK
    AdoraK Posts: 724 Member
    I flirty with most people if I am comfortable with them and they are ok with it...

    If they give me the creeps - there is no flirting...
  • katiedid1226
    katiedid1226 Posts: 231 Member
    Hey! Some women like men AND cats. The two are not mutually exclusive.



    Never forget that a COUGAR is essentially feline. :laugh: :bigsmile: :noway:

    - - -

    young men - be VERY afraid! RAWR!

    DAMN STRAIGHT about the cougar part.
  • JanetLM73
    JanetLM73 Posts: 1,226 Member
    For me, I would have to say 30 and up. I'm 38 :wink:
  • blynn2708
    blynn2708 Posts: 262 Member
    I'm 40, I work in a pub part time, I pretty much flirt with all the men, age doesn't make a difference...a girls gotta do what a girls gotta do! :drinker:
  • Bonita_Lynne_58
    Bonita_Lynne_58 Posts: 2,794 Member
    You know I'm older than you. My flirting comfort zone....if only flirting...mid 20's and up. So 25-65 or so....


    Not that I'm ever guilty of flirting. :noway:
  • Loko_Ino
    Loko_Ino Posts: 544 Member
    WHAAAAAA-AAAAT..!!
    There is flirting here? No way...really??
  • tambink
    tambink Posts: 349
    I do some age limits My son is 21 so I cant go below 29 that doesnt work for me. Mostly like guys my age or a little younger and some a little older.
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    Hey! Some women like men AND cats. The two are not mutually exclusive.



    Never forget that a COUGAR is essentially feline. :laugh: :bigsmile: :noway:

    - - -

    young men - be VERY afraid! RAWR!

    You are right, sorry.

    And some men like pancakes AND waffles!
  • UponThisRock
    UponThisRock Posts: 4,519 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    i have no age restrictions. I flirt with pretty much everyone on my friends list. guys, girls, young, old, heavy, fit, whatever! if you're fun, you're fun!
  • TinkrBelz
    TinkrBelz Posts: 866 Member
    I like to joke around on here because it is fun. But, I do not think that I flirt with men....I try not to because I do not want to put it out there that I am available. BUT, I do enjoy reading everyone elses' flirts and jokes. They are really really funny!!!

    I do think that I flirt with my girls tho...I guess I feel safe doing that because I think that they know that I am not serious, so it is fun.

    Now, if I was going to flirt, I would feel uncomfortable with any man or woman in their 20s. I would feel like a creeper. I am not saying that people that do are creepers, I would just feel like I am crossing the line.

    BUT, I never have young men flirt with me....only older guys, so I never have a chance to cross the line with younger men!! haha!

    EDIT: I thought I should put, I am 42....so people in their 20s are soooo young compared to me!!! LOL
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    it must be a full moon or a weird planet alignment day, cuz I almost agree with iam_thatdude :noway: . I like light flirting, but when I realize someone is 10 years younger then me I feel a little like a creep. if they are more then 15 years younger I feel like a creep old guy. I won't reject a FR due to age, but I am more aware of what I say to a younger person.

    But this is how I feel and folks should feel free to do as they see fit.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    Generally, I tend to be more comfortable if they are at least a few years older. I just turned 28, and I would say my comfort level is best with men between 35-45.
    There are exceptions, but that is it in general.

    Oh, but I will flirt with anyone - especially the ladies - sometimes MFP makes me forget that I'm straight.
  • TK266
    TK266 Posts: 3,638 Member
    And some men like pancakes AND waffles!
    Who doesn't like a "Short Stack" of waffles. :tongue: :tongue:
    I would say my comfort level is best with men between 35-45.

    Missed CoryIda's cut off again ...... opps there I go being a creepy old guy again.
  • Katrina1223
    Katrina1223 Posts: 10 Member
    Age is just a number.... as long as they're legal ;-)
  • ironanimal
    ironanimal Posts: 5,922 Member
    I'm starting to think something "happens" to women when they get close to 40 or so.
    They realise how many years they wasted saying 'Not tonight - I have a headache/I'm too cold/I'm tired.'
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    I like woman of all shapes ages and sizes. Personality is HUGE!! But lately I have been attracted to woman between the ages of 40-55 who are in amazing shape. There is something Hot about a woman who doesn't let age stop her from having a great body
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I would say my comfort level is best with men between 35-45.

    Missed CoryIda's cut off again ...... opps there I go being a creepy old guy again.
    Um... I've stalked your pictures more than once. If you were on my FL, I'd probably make you blush daily.
  • MFPAddict
    MFPAddict Posts: 2,069 Member
    I would say my comfort level is best with men between 35-45.

    Missed CoryIda's cut off again ...... opps there I go being a creepy old guy again.
    Um... I've stalked your pictures more than once. If you were on my FL, I'd probably make you blush daily.

    And you should see her tongue!!!