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My fiance' says he thinks I am sexy now..But I know I am 50 pounds over what I should be and I think he is just being nice. I don't think there is any possible way that he could find me beautiful.. Could men really find a fat woman attractive? I am being for real! Thanks
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LOL me too!?0
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There are men who find overweight women attractive.0
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My husband loves a little "squish"...I'm still 30 pounds overweight, and he can't keep his hands to himself. But he loved me and thought I was beautiful 30 pounds ago as well. I don't get it, but I love it.0
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There are men who find overweight women attractive.
And we those men.0 -
A definite yes. No question.
"Ah, you gonna take me home tonight
Ah, down beside that red firelight
Are you gonna let it all hang out
Fat bottomed girls, you make the rockin' world go round
Hey, I was just a skinny lad, never knew no good from bad
But I knew life before I left my nursery
Left alone with big fat fannys, she was such a naughty nanny
Heap big woman you made a bad boy out of me"
Freddy Mercury said it best!:bigsmile:0 -
The 50 lbs is a more or less arbitrary number that you want and that is fine as long as healthy getting there and being there.
Beyond that is the fact that you are attractive now as you are,accept that fact and understand your guy cares about you as you are.0 -
He loves you. I'm sure he finds you attractive.0
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YEP....most guys i know like curvy girls. they think skinny ones are twigs and athletic ones are creepy. i`m not here to impress the guys though. i want to be like, in the middle of all of these things!0
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I think pretty much every dude is going to answer this differently. I've had guys think I was too big at one weight while others thought I was a "goddess" (his words) at the exact same scale number. You can't ever say "THIS is the weight that will attract EVERY man." Ain't gonna happen. Because human beings are all different and like all kinds of different things.
If your guys says he likes your body, believe him! Guys are pretty straightforward, in my experience.0 -
I was about 50 lbs heavier when my boyfriend and I started dating than I am now, and I still have at least 20-30 lbs to go. He's super supportive and encouraging of my goals, but doesn't care what I weigh, he says he finds me sexy regardless.0
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My fiance' says he thinks I am sexy now..But I know I am 50 pounds over what I should be and I think he is just being nice. I don't think there is any possible way that he could find me beautiful.. Could men really find a fat woman attractive? I am being for real! Thanks
Were you 50 lb less when you met him?0 -
Men find personalities and certain people attractive.
I mean, I'm definitely at least 50lbs overweight at 5'2 and 180lbs. (Oh god its the first time I admitted numbers properly). My boyfriend (who is a lean and in shape guy naturally from his job) always insists he finds me attractive, sexy (yuck) and doesn't get why I want to lose weight.
So yeah.0 -
He loves you. I'm sure he finds you attractive.
Mhmm ^^0 -
Yes we do find overweight women attractive. Sexiness is half attitude anyway. Plus haven't you heard the term BBW (big beautifiul women)?0
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Ladies, being sexy has nothing to do with weight...it's seriously about who you are and what your are and the way you are. I find many women who would be considered overweight sexy as do many other guys. I'm no philosopher but i've been around a long time i'd say make any diet / exercise changes in life for yourself first and foremost!0
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Yes, men, myself included, find larger women attractive. As a general rule.
In your specific case.. you are gorgeous so he is not lying.0 -
every guy is different. but beauty goes further than the skin deep appearance. He obviously thinks you are the most beautiful girl in his life and wouldnt have you any other way!
There are a lot of shallow guys out there and they are just idiots and use girls! You have your self a top bloke! Your a lucky girl0 -
Could you find a fat man attractive? Or a bald man? A tall man, or a short man?
Everyone has different tastes, but if he's dating you, I'm guessing (hoping!) that he's there for more than just your body. Even for men, personality and compatibility plays a role in attraction.0 -
I weighed 20 pounds lessMy fiance' says he thinks I am sexy now..But I know I am 50 pounds over what I should be and I think he is just being nice. I don't think there is any possible way that he could find me beautiful.. Could men really find a fat woman attractive? I am being for real! Thanks
Were you 50 lb less when you met him?0 -
i'm certain he means it0
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