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  • Mellie13
    Mellie13 Posts: 424
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    I'm not really sure, mine is closed to anyone who isn't my friend, but I accept all friend requests, so it seems to be a moot point. I don't really care.
  • dad106
    dad106 Posts: 4,868 Member
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    Some people are just private or sensitive...they don't WANT your remarks or input. I don't know why that's so hard to understand??

    thanks I DO understand. however do they not want SUPPORT either from their MFP buddies?

    No they want support.... but the fact that you can't see their diary, should not determine if you support them or not.. and if it does, well then you suck as an MFP buddy.
  • megsmom2
    megsmom2 Posts: 2,362 Member
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    I do get support from my MFP friends, and give the same. I don't need to pry into private space to do it.
  • gunmetalsunrise
    gunmetalsunrise Posts: 131
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    Because it's no one's business but my own (or the few people I have friended) what I eat and how much I exercise a day?

    Personally, it kind of creeps me out if people are creeping other's diaries and making comments about it. Sometimes I don't log in, or I only log half a day (this rarely happens anymore), so I don't need anyone coming in and trying to tell me how to eat.

    Basically, if I want your opinion, I'll ask for it. If not, please stay out of my business. :)

    (all you's or your's are used in a general sense, not directly said at the OP)
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
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    Because I'm here for me and nobody else. I don't need generic WTG's for eating. I eat with or without a cheer group. That's why. If the day comes where I feel I need help, I will open it and ask all my bad *kitten* friends to take a looksy.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    Some people are just private or sensitive...they don't WANT your remarks or input. I don't know why that's so hard to understand??

    thanks I DO understand. however do they not want SUPPORT either from their MFP buddies?

    You people are focusing on the wrong stuff.

    Logging your food and exercise doesnt matter as much as the fact that you did those things today. You can support and encourage each other without knowing what stuff is going into their poop.

    The diary is the smallest part of MFP and the most impersonal part of the whole get-fit-mission.
  • jamiesadler
    jamiesadler Posts: 634 Member
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    I have mine open but it doesnt bother me when others do not. It only irritates me when they ask for help but wont tell you what they eat. How can you help????
  • smae1980
    smae1980 Posts: 794 Member
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    Mine use to be open, but I closed it becasue i was not doing well for a while and i found that I was too embarrassed to keep track of what I was eating , so I wasn't logging accurately. i closed it to help get my butt back on track. I've since gotten through it, but I just haven't reopened it.
  • lind3400
    lind3400 Posts: 557 Member
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    I personally keep my diary public...just so my friends will read it and then I'm less likely to go out and eat McDonalds or a bag of chips....but thats what works for me everyone is different:smile:
  • bedinky1207
    bedinky1207 Posts: 53 Member
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    I go back and forth on this one. I don't tend to look at other peoples diaries unless they are saying they are struggling with weightloss and then I hope I can give them a few pointers. I turned my food journals into a personal trainer numerous times for tips and advice. I've been successful at weightloss so I worry that if people see I had Taco Bell this day they will judge me or think that they can do the same thing. My one day slip of Taco Bell does not ruin my diet.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    Some people are just private or sensitive...they don't WANT your remarks or input. I don't know why that's so hard to understand??

    thanks I DO understand. however do they not want SUPPORT either from their MFP buddies?

    No they want support.... but the fact that you can't see their diary, should not determine if you support them or not.. and if it does, well then you suck as an MFP buddy.
  • StaceyL76
    StaceyL76 Posts: 711 Member
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    MFP is a tool that allows one to track food intake and activity output. It is nice to have the option of setting the diary public and receiving feedback on one's choices. If that is the kind of feedback that folks want or need.

    I had my diary open for a long time and it was very helpful. At this point, I don't want that feedback - not because I am faltering - it is the exact opposite. I am doing very well.

    However, for a while, when I was faltering it added a lot of stress.

    Not everyone is in the same place on this ride. Needs vary from one person to the next, my pals honor that and don't give me grief.
  • misscristie
    misscristie Posts: 643 Member
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    i don't like closed diaries, it defeats the whole purpose

    Really? For me, the purpose of the diary is to track what I'm eating. Doesn't matter whether other people see it or not.

    Exactly. I am here for me and me only. What I eat etc, is my business. My caloric intake affects my body alone.
  • channa007
    channa007 Posts: 419 Member
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    I like my McD's... there are no NO NO foods it's all moderation and caloric deficit. But to answer your initial question I know some friends who keep them private because they keep personal information about their day in them to refer back to.
  • stephl81
    stephl81 Posts: 122 Member
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    I like to look at other people's diaries but respect those who keep their's private.
    ^^^^^ this!
  • TeresaWash
    TeresaWash Posts: 283
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    I keep track for me, and me only. I don't care if anybody ever says "nice job" when I eat under my calories. I can honestly say, I've never looked at another persons diary.
  • ashleynicol3
    ashleynicol3 Posts: 187 Member
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    My diary is open because I really don't care what anyone has to say! I'm doing this for me, not anyone else. I pretty much eat what I want, within reason - as long as I can fit it in and still be under my calorie goal. I like to look at other people's diaries to get meal or snack ideas from people who have similar calorie goals, so I leave my diary open so others can do the same if they choose. I really don't get any harsh comments or anyone telling me I should eat more or less of something, but I'm sure some people do and probably choose to keep their diaries private for that reason.
  • FrancesOReilly
    FrancesOReilly Posts: 23 Member
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    Some people just aren't comfortable letting others see what they eat for various reasons.. be it they don't eat very healthy, or they don't eat enough, or they forgot to log half the time.

    Whatever the reason, the point is mind your own business and let people alone. If you are that nosy and must know what all of your friends do, then just ask them and potentially creep them out.

    P.S What the hell is wrong with MCD? If people want to eat that or junk, then who cares? I eat junk all the time and am doing just fine thank you!

    Wow.. Bit OTT if you dont mind me saying.. It was just a question in gest.. And as pointed out at the start, no offence was intended.. I agree its nice to see what people are eating.. Not to be nosey at all.. But to get ideas for my own meals.. As most people will I'm sure agree, its easy to get stuck eating the same few meals regularly which leads to getting bored n giving up...
    If people wana keep their diaries private that's fine.. The person asking the Q wasn't saying they shudn't.. was just a general query...
  • KelseyDawn84
    KelseyDawn84 Posts: 129 Member
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    Because I use the site to track the nutrients and calories going into MY body. MY body belongs to ME. I don't even know you.
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
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    i don't like closed diaries, it defeats the whole purpose

    How so?

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