Ex's/Cheating - What have you done?

JennaM222

So this question came on the radio this morning when I was driving to work - and I got to work too soon to hear most of the callers responses.

QUESTION: What have you left at someones place/car/room etc. so that their significant other would catch them cheating?

Here is mine -

about 3-4 years ago my EX of 1 1/2 years cheated on me, we broke up, and the girl he cheated on me with soon after moved in with him.

Anywhoo - one morning VERY early he texted me for a booty call. He was also drunk. I was hungover and in need of some heavy petting - Perfect. Well, when I got there, he was PASSED OUT. Like, there was no waking him up. So, I got on his computer and changed his screen saver to a big close up picture of me and him kissing.

New GF moved in the very next day and was the first to hop on the computer

DO tell your stories!!

Ralstonk2

BUMP!

JennaM222

hello world? no stories? boo!!!

TheRoadDog

Remind me to hide my laptop next time you come over for a booty call. We still on for tonight?

va_va_voom

Not exactly what I was expecting when I opened the thread...

I never went back to my ex after I left him - I figured his new woman could have my sloppy seconds and I certainly wasn't going to double dip. Last I heard she stalks him by phone all the time b/c she's afraid he's cheating on her or something. Karma's a bizzo, for sure.

peuglow

So this question came on the radio this morning when I was driving to work - and I got to work too soon to hear most of the callers responses.

QUESTION: What have you left at someones place/car/room etc. so that their significant other would catch them cheating?

Here is mine -

about 3-4 years ago my EX of 1 1/2 years cheated on me, we broke up, and the girl he cheated on me with soon after moved in with him.

Anywhoo - one morning VERY early he texted me for a booty call. He was also drunk. I was hungover and in need of some heavy petting - Perfect. Well, when I got there, he was PASSED OUT. Like, there was no waking him up. So, I got on his computer and changed his screen saver to a big close up picture of me and him kissing.

New GF moved in the very next day and was the first to hop on the computer

DO tell your stories!!

Who wants to make out when they're hung over? lol

auroranflash

I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

themommie

can't say I have ever left anything behind....not on purpose.But I have never gone back to an ex after he moved on

ElizabethRoad

I've never had anyone cheat on me, sorry.

Or, wait, the question was actually about leaving stuff at the house of the person who is cheating with you. That's oddly specific. I've never done that either. Trashy.

PShep17

Turns out my ex had 3+ girls on the go. When I found out about another girl supposedly being his girlfriend I started small by leaving tights at his.

Then got more and more angry at how he'd treated me so got in touch with her and sent her all the messages from him to me.

Don't know what he said to her or how big an idiot she is but she's now moved in 6 months on.
Revenge didn't quite pan out

Maude_Lewbowski

I never go back I'm one of those "pour gasoline and throw the lighter" type girls. You lost me, you lost me for good.

lorib75

I've left my hair on a pillow of a guy who I thought could be cheating...but that's about it. HUH, guess I'm not a psycho after all!

SteffieMark

Once they were an ex, they were an ex. I never had any desire to go back or do anything malicious to them. It was over. I moved on.

JohnnyGrey

I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

I'm need a like button for this post, it's hilarious

GasMasterFlash

My wife started showering and wearing perfume before going tot he gym. I cut the internet and her gym membership.

Bam. Problem solved.

arojas1227

LOL! I wish I had the chance to show my ex's gf that he's cheating! It's not with me though, so I really have no control unless I told her. Which I know she wouldn't believe me.

auticus

I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.

kimdoes

I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

LMAO Crack open a cold one!

BondBomb

Wow this seems really mean. And I am really mean so for me to say that?
If someone cheated on me I would move on. Its not for me to ruin the next relationship. Especially not by hurting the girl.
She probably didn't know about you in the first place. And if she did then they deserve each other. I would never waste my time on this.

JennaM222

I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.

well that is great thanks for your negative comment. This post was meant as a light hearted, fun post - not everyones stand on how great they are becasue they leave ex's in the past!

california_peach

I never go back I'm one of those "pour gasoline and throw the lighter" type girls. You lost me, you lost me for good.

Me too. I am bridge burner and salter of once fertile earth. I don't look back.

kelseyhere

congrats to Jenna for being honest. Some of the rest of you are liars!

BondBomb

I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.

LMAO Crack open a cold one!

LMAO...
Hey besides Tiffany jewelery you know what else comes in little blue boxes?
Necrophiliacs.

ElHombre23

I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.

^^THIS^^

F all my ex's...once I pull the plug on a relationship its over for good...no recovery no comeback...dead finished over...

ElizabethRoad

I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.

well that is great thanks for your negative comment. This post meant as a light hearted, fun, post, not everyones stand on how great they are becasue they leave ex's in the past!

It is kind of pathetic, though, don't you think?

JustJennie1

Wow this seems really mean. And I am really mean so for me to say that?
If someone cheated on me I would move on. Its not for me to ruin the next relationship. Especially not by hurting the girl.
She probably didn't know about you in the first place. And if she did then they deserve each other. I would never waste my time on this.

I have to agree with you on this.

Why ruin his new relationship because you were feeling spiteful? . Just because he wanted a booty call didn't mean you had to answer it. You're no better than the girl he cheated with.

ElizabethRoad

congrats to Jenna for being honest. Some of the rest of you are liars!

If it makes you feel better hon.

neverstray

No one has ever cheated on me, so...I dunno.

auticus

I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.

well that is great thanks for your negative comment. This post meant as a light hearted, fun, post, not everyones stand on how great they are becasue they leave ex's in the past!

That's quite the projection and assumption there princess. I never stated how great I was. I answered your inquiry with my answer. That being I don't have any stories because I don't involve myself in their lives. You are projecting the negativity and how great I think I am part.

kimdoes

My ex cheated on me with a mutual friend. Many years later, I hooked up with her ex bf that she cheated on with my husband. (swap off of sorts) Then I bragged to her how much better he was than my ex husband. She agreed and left my ex to go back with her ex LMAO That was about as bad as I got...

A_New_Horizon

I am divorcing my ex partly for cheating (working on it now), and I broke up with my ex-boyfriend partly because of it. I am in a awesome relationship now. It really is true...you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince.