Ex's/Cheating - What have you done?
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(As far as I know-cause who can ever be 100% sure nowadays) I have never been cheated on, but either way, once a dating relationship is over...it's done. I sometimes have those weak feelings at first, but the relationship ended for a reason. I usually am a "burn the bridges" person--never look back. But in my last relationship we just morphed into good friends.0
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I wouldn't go back to someone who cheated on me, I'm not into necrophilia.
LMAO Crack open a cold one!
:laugh: :laugh: HAHAHAHA!! Love that saying!! :laugh: :laugh:0 -
Well nothing to the new girl friend, but when he moved and left his winter clothes; expecting me to store them, I sold them on ebay! ☺0
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One of the girl's my ex cheated on me with actually kept texting and calling my phone. Of course by this time I had already dismissed him but apparently she didn't know that. She was young and stupid and just would not leave me alone so I decided to have some fun with her. I told her to get tested because he has hepatitis and has been spreading it around. OMG! Her reaction was just priceless! Needless to say, she stopped playing on my phone after that and he lost his playmate.
HAHA thats great!0 -
Well nothing to the new girl friend, but when he moved and left his winter clothes; expecting me to store them, I sold them on ebay! ☺
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It is kind of pathetic, though, don't you think?
well that is great thanks for your negative comment. This post meant as a light hearted, fun, post, not everyones stand on how great they are becasue they leave ex's in the past!I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.
Not if it is meant to be light hearted, I mean seriously, we are on MFP during work hours, how serious can you take these posts....0 -
When I found out my husband cheated I gathered all his clothes
in a laundry basket and gave to the gf ...figured she liked playing
house so if she wanted to **** him she should do the other stuff too!
Happily remarried to a faithful man now.
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I was in denial the first time I suspected him of cheating. He would make up outrageous stories like running out of gas and being home 4 hours late because he had to walk and get some.... The first time we were 19/20 and he cheated on me with a 16 year old girl. Then there was a party with all of our friends, I was pregnant and home alone and found out that he got a BJ from a 15 year old girl.
The last time was with one of my "friends". She was sleeping with him while I was alone in the hospital with our newborn son. We broke up shortly after. I locked him out and ripped the string out his guitar. That same night he broke down the door and beat me with the same guitar (it was a heavy strat). I was on the floor on top of our newborn so he wouldn't get the wrath of his father either.
Saly, I stayed with him on and off for 2 more years. Mostly off than on but eventually I got sick of him only seeing his son once a month, when he wanted a booty call from me. He now hasn't seen his son in a year and lives on his dad's couch. No job, no car, and a girlfriend who he got to watch graduate high school when he was 24. :sick: We now have an AMAZING man in our lives who is actually moving in today and could not be happier!0 -
I was in denial the first time I suspected him of cheating. He would make up outrageous stories like running out of gas and being home 4 hours late because he had to walk and get some.... The first time we were 19/20 and he cheated on me with a 16 year old girl. Then there was a party with all of our friends, I was pregnant and home alone and found out that he got a BJ from a 15 year old girl.
The last time was with one of my "friends". She was sleeping with him while I was alone in the hospital with our newborn son. We broke up shortly after. I locked him out and ripped the string out his guitar. That same night he broke down the door and beat me with the same guitar (it was a heavy strat). I was on the floor on top of our newborn so he wouldn't get the wrath of his father either.
Saly, I stayed with him on and off for 2 more years. Mostly off than on but eventually I got sick of him only seeing his son once a month, when he wanted a booty call from me. He now hasn't seen his son in a year and lives on his dad's couch. No job, no car, and a girlfriend who he got to watch graduate high school when he was 24. :sick: We now have an AMAZING man in our lives who is actually moving in today and could not be happier!
O wow. I am glad you got out okay and are happy!! The EX ( no offense ) sounds like a creep..I am glad things are better! yay!0 -
Um.. I don't think I've been cheated on. Nor have I been the cheater. And I definitely wouldn't go and be some crazy lady leaving things in his apartment to sabotage his current relationship.
ETA: After thinking this through a bit more, if my current man cheated on me, he could probably expect to find his things in our fire pit on the drive way, lit for the neighbourhood to see.0 -
I never go back I'm one of those "pour gasoline and throw the lighter" type girls. You lost me, you lost me for good.
I'm a dude but I fall into this camp...trust is too important and nearly impossible to get back.0 -
Take a long hard look at yourself. If your dude is looking elsewhere to shuck his oysters, maybe you should brush up on your oyster skills at home.0
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I believe the funniest I have heard (and I have no idea if it is true) is that the ex wanted the curtains, so the scorned stuffed shrimp in the curtain rods.
Heh. Poo poo passive aggressive, but that shiznet is funny.0 -
Take a long hard look at yourself. If your dude is looking elsewhere to shuck his oysters, maybe you should brush up on your oyster skills at home.
Take a long hard look at what this post is about....
and go shuck yourself! ( Sorry, I couldnt resist ) :laugh:0 -
Take a long hard look at yourself. If your dude is looking elsewhere to shuck his oysters, maybe you should brush up on your oyster skills at home.
Good point. But that is most definately not always the case. Some people (guys and gals both) just don't care if they cheat.0 -
No one gets a knife near my oysters.Take a long hard look at yourself. If your dude is looking elsewhere to shuck his oysters, maybe you should brush up on your oyster skills at home.0 -
Um.. I don't think I've been cheated on. Nor have I been the cheater. And I definitely wouldn't go and be some crazy lady leaving things in his apartment to sabotage his current relationship.
ETA: After thinking this through a bit more, if my current man cheated on me, he could probably expect to find his things in our fire pit on the drive way, lit for the neighbourhood to see.
Yeah, I don't think I would ever...ever...wish my cheating ex well. I would just walk away (after burning stuff!). In most cases though, it would be a clean break.0 -
I have better things to do with my time than involve myself in my exes lives and social relationships. Mainly because once I break up with someone I stop caring about what they are doing with other people and focus on my own business and relationships.
well that is great thanks for your negative comment. This post was meant as a light hearted, fun post - not everyones stand on how great they are becasue they leave ex's in the past!
This might be a "you smelt it you dealt it" situation hon.0 -
Turns out my ex had 3+ girls on the go. When I found out about another girl supposedly being his girlfriend I started small by leaving tights at his.
Then got more and more angry at how he'd treated me so got in touch with her and sent her all the messages from him to me.
Don't know what he said to her or how big an idiot she is but she's now moved in 6 months on.
Revenge didn't quite pan out
^^^^^^^ Living well is the best revenge!0 -
Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning0
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Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning
Yes!! this is where I heard it 0 -
Turns out my ex had 3+ girls on the go. When I found out about another girl supposedly being his girlfriend I started small by leaving tights at his.
Then got more and more angry at how he'd treated me so got in touch with her and sent her all the messages from him to me.
Don't know what he said to her or how big an idiot she is but she's now moved in 6 months on.
Revenge didn't quite pan out
^^^^^^^ Living well is the best revenge!
I'm working on it!0 -
That's a terrible station.Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning
Yes!! this is where I heard it0 -
That's a terrible station.Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning
Yes!! this is where I heard it
Oh Quiet Binary...I assume you are a 93 x fan0 -
I have a good one! My ex husband apparently was seeing his "now" fiancee while me and him were still married.. So you know what I left behind for her??? HIM!!! She can have that sociopathic, abusive, cheating, stupid man. 0
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I never go back I'm one of those "pour gasoline and throw the lighter" type girls. You lost me, you lost me for good.
I'm a dude but I fall into this camp...trust is too important and nearly impossible to get back.
EXACTLY! ^ Good man!0 -
That's a terrible station.Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning
Yes!! this is where I heard it
Oh Quiet Binary...I assume you are a 93 x fan
I love Dave Ryan! I am sending you a friend request. :-)0 -
Google music for the most part...93 x for the morning news. KDWB if I feel like committing suicide and that putting me over the edge.
That's a terrible station.Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning
Yes!! this is where I heard it
Oh Quiet Binary...I assume you are a 93 x fan0 -
I have never really done anything and I've only had one cheat on me. But when my husband left me for his mistress, I caught wind of him living with her in Section 8 housing, while I was struggling to manage the rent and bills that he stuck me with, so I may or may not have sent a letter to the Apartment complex ratting them out and that my next step was to the government's department that takes care of fraud in regards to housing assistance. Not soon after they had to move out.
But that was it, I was such a nice exwife, I just gave him his divorce, half of everything and walked away, but that was my one little revenge thing I did and I kind of feel bad now (13 years later and wise now)0 -
Do you listen to KDWB?? It would be a crazy coincidence that two different stations were talking about the same thing this morning
Love KDWB! Must have been Dave Ryan in the Morning then!0
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