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  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,611 Member
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    I am an avid gamer and for a long while I ended up choosing sex over gaming but part of that reason was because my wife had spurned my advances so often that I just stopped trying and then started getting resentful that it would only be on her terms. All of it in my head, we worked it out and are much happier now.
  • hedgiie
    hedgiie Posts: 1,245 Member
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    maybe there is a problem? i love sex but would rather play a game when she's over acting or "playing games" sometimes real games is much better.
  • Drenched_N_Motivation
    Drenched_N_Motivation Posts: 1,004 Member
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    i am 11 years younger and he has NO interest in sex at all.. My needs are very high and maybe once a year isn't coming close to cutting it..

    im at a loss of what to do..


    Maybe he is a cuckold? You want me to head over there?
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,167 Member
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    xbawkz!
  • bbbgamer
    bbbgamer Posts: 582 Member
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    i love the xxx box myself.........
  • jolarocknrolla
    jolarocknrolla Posts: 236 Member
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    dress up like Lara Croft? Wear one of those skyrim helmets and a smile?

    ok, to be serious, maybe he had ED and can't get it up ... he could just need help, is he taking any medications?
  • keem88
    keem88 Posts: 1,689 Member
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    LOL as i am reading this, he is sitting there playing back ops.
    for real, when we find a scientific logical answer please let me know.
  • Drenched_N_Motivation
    Drenched_N_Motivation Posts: 1,004 Member
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    LOL as i am reading this, he is sitting there playing back ops.
    for real, when we find a scientific logical answer please let me know.


    Black ops doesnt nag incessantly
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,167 Member
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    LOL as i am reading this, he is sitting there playing back ops.
    for real, when we find a scientific logical answer please let me know.


    Black ops doesnt nag incessantly
    what about that "follow" guy?
  • keem88
    keem88 Posts: 1,689 Member
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    LOL as i am reading this, he is sitting there playing back ops.
    for real, when we find a scientific logical answer please let me know.


    Black ops doesnt nag incessantly

    lol, i don't nag. i wait around for him to lose interest and interact with me, i'll ask once if he wants to do something or even just hang out and i usually just get a grumble or some similar noise
  • Jen32285
    Jen32285 Posts: 281 Member
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    My husband is a big time gamer. It's definitely ruined our relationship.
  • atjays
    atjays Posts: 798 Member
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    im at a loss of what to do..

    You find a 25 yr old guy who can match your drive... *whistles*
  • keem88
    keem88 Posts: 1,689 Member
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    LOL as i am reading this, he is sitting there playing back ops.
    for real, when we find a scientific logical answer please let me know.


    Black ops doesnt nag incessantly
    what about that "follow" guy?

    not quite understanding that?
  • Alma_Sana
    Alma_Sana Posts: 453 Member
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    yup.. he says its all my fault.

    he has no sex drive at all..
    he refuses to go to conceling.. because i am the only problem.. its all my fault. everything.

    Maybe he needs to see a doc for erectile disfuntion or something Idk hope Im not coming off as offensive. But if that were the true issue it may be hard for him to admit to and it may make him feel insecure about being the older one in the relationship.
  • CassieReannan
    CassieReannan Posts: 1,479 Member
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    My fiance is a gamer.. I know how you feel. Games get played over me, and recently its gotten better..
    We make a comprimise and meet in the middle. We have sex, THEN he can play whatever he pleases and I leave him alone for a while. Sometimes we even game together.
  • HikeRunLift
    HikeRunLift Posts: 70
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    haha, he chooses xbox over your box?

    sorry hun. time to dump that dude. Life is too short
  • Hickyvikki69
    Hickyvikki69 Posts: 371 Member
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    i maybe get it once or twice a month maybe 3 if lucky. been married 9yrs. and decreased over time after having 2 kids. i am a sex addict but he rather play on the computer or just go to bed...im at a loss as well.
  • Drenched_N_Motivation
    Drenched_N_Motivation Posts: 1,004 Member
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    LOL as i am reading this, he is sitting there playing back ops.
    for real, when we find a scientific logical answer please let me know.


    Black ops doesnt nag incessantly
    what about that "follow" guy?

    not quite understanding that?

    Yeah, I didnt get that either. I spent like 2 minutes saying it out loud to myself, and still nothing.
  • nursedb
    nursedb Posts: 313 Member
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    im at a loss of what to do..

    You find a 25 yr old guy who can match your drive... *whistles*
    that's what I was gonna say....I did it!
  • Lee510
    Lee510 Posts: 46
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    i can walk in front of the game naked and get told to get out of the way.
    Having looked at the pictures in your profile, something's definitely wrong with your husband.

    I'm having similar problems with my wife. Once a year is probably one time too many for her. She will give in twice a year if I'm persistant, but then there are so many rules to follow and she puts forth no effort, it's really not worth the trouble.

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