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  • rugbyphreak
    rugbyphreak Posts: 509 Member
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    I'm in the same situation. He kicks me out at a certain time in the evenings so he can go play online with his buddies. He cancels plans with me when his online friends plan a tournament. I've asked why he doesn't want sex and he says he's just not interested. I've asked if he wants to play some video games with me and he says no because I'm not any good.

    He's a PS3 guy and I'm an Xbox girl... we can't agree on a damned thing!
  • Anayalata
    Anayalata Posts: 391 Member
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    Honestly if a guy is choosing video games over sex then either...

    A) He's already pleasured himself (meaning he prefers porn/pictures)
    B) He's got a low drive (which can be remedies by the doc)
    C) He's got E.D. (maybe won't admit it since for many guys 100% of their self-confidence is attached to their penis)
    or
    D) He's tired of you (as in he wants other women and is tired of having the same thing over and over)

    These are the only reasons I could think of as to why I'd lose interest.
  • Sunscreenandsweat
    Sunscreenandsweat Posts: 190 Member
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    I hated that when I was dating a gamer. =/
  • CassieReannan
    CassieReannan Posts: 1,479 Member
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    He's a PS3 guy and I'm an Xbox girl... we can't agree on a damned thing!

    Thats the problem right there lol.
    I'm a PC girl, hes a PS3 guy. It kind of works ahah.
  • amercer09
    amercer09 Posts: 28 Member
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    I am 21 my hubby is 22....I walk around naked alot and he will brag to his friends, but I cant even get him off of it so we can go to sleep at night. I rarely ever get him off for sex.....once a week sucks.
  • HikeRunLift
    HikeRunLift Posts: 70
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    i can walk in front of the game naked and get told to get out of the way.
    Having looked at the pictures in your profile, something's definitely wrong with your husband.


    I agree with this guy. good advice coming up.. dump that guy and get with an older guy whos like 10 years older. You'll make him feel like a stud cuz youll be younger than him. Preferably one with a Viagra prescription
  • rugbyphreak
    rugbyphreak Posts: 509 Member
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    i can walk in front of the game naked and get told to get out of the way.
    Having looked at the pictures in your profile, something's definitely wrong with your husband.

    I'm having similar problems with my wife. Once a year is probably one time too many for her. She will give in twice a year if I'm persistant, but then there are so many rules to follow and she puts forth no effort, it's really not worth the trouble.

    I know I'm not the poster you're referring to, but I do all the work in that department and he still won't have sex with me! If I could hang a TV on the ceiling, I'd let him play his games while I had my fun, but I don't trust myself with hanging anything more than a picture frame...
  • Ashley_Panda
    Ashley_Panda Posts: 1,404 Member
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    Blow him while he's playing.

    Yeah, I'm the best wife ever.
  • Drenched_N_Motivation
    Drenched_N_Motivation Posts: 1,004 Member
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    Jesus, it sounds like most of you need to end your relationships or get a divorce. I know its not "as easy as that" but come on, why do this to yourselves?
  • ChrisGoldn
    ChrisGoldn Posts: 473 Member
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    I'm for Hire!!!! :)
  • f1ctional
    f1ctional Posts: 235
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    haha, he chooses xbox over your box?

    sorry hun. time to dump that dude. Life is too short

    ^^
  • Drenched_N_Motivation
    Drenched_N_Motivation Posts: 1,004 Member
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    Blow him while he's playing.

    Yeah, I'm the best wife ever.



    Now you're starting to think outside the (X) box!
  • CassieReannan
    CassieReannan Posts: 1,479 Member
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    Blow him while he's playing.

    Yeah, I'm the best wife ever.

    Lol, also this.
  • CarolinaGirlinVA
    CarolinaGirlinVA Posts: 1,512 Member
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    Thanks for posting this KaryLee, we've talked about this but until now I didn't realize how many of us there are.

    In my case, I have been in councelling. He admits he prefers the game and acknowledges he is an addict. At one point he got tired of me "bugging" him to go out or spend time with me and told me to find a bf. I know from experience, that is not the answer. Now because I was a sh***y wife, he doesn't want to deal with me at all and buries himself even further in his game.

    I have suggested he get his testosterone checked, he said he was not the problem. I have a high sex drive and I am getting more and more frustrated.

    Maybe we should form a group? I really could use support from other women who have been there.

    *excuse the spelling...using the itty bitty browser on my phone to post!
  • warmachinejt
    warmachinejt Posts: 2,167 Member
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    i like gaming but i still have a very crazy drive then again i'm 22 :laugh:
  • ChihakuZeal
    ChihakuZeal Posts: 65
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    I'd love to have both! xDD
  • manda1002
    manda1002 Posts: 178 Member
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    Blow him while he's playing.

    Yeah, I'm the best wife ever.

    I'm an ex-gamer, and my husband is a gamer, and this is basically it haha.

    And people don't understand it, but like gambling, and food, and sex, gaming is an addiction. Ever hear people say world of warcrack, or that such and such game eats your soul? its for a reason. it took me about 4 months to >completely< quit my gaming addiction, which also ended my weight gain, and depression. Gaming becomes everything to you. It's more important than damn near everything.

    Really, the only fix is to get them away from the games, or let them know just how bad it is. Pack the bags and tell them you're out, hide the games in the truck of the car or something.

    Or join them, and let the games eat your soul too.
  • ljd0693
    ljd0693 Posts: 289 Member
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    After the sex what is he going to do for the other 23 hours 55 minutes of the day? Play video games of course.
  • doorki
    doorki Posts: 2,611 Member
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    I find it funny that every ad on my browser is for gaming.
  • RollinDawg
    RollinDawg Posts: 235 Member
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    I don't get it. In high school I played video games because I didn't a girlfriend...if I'd been able to get girls I wouldn't even know who Mario or his brother was.

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