bigger girl at the gym

jennc37

So lately I have been going to the gym on a regular basis and because I am a pretty big girl who is not in the best of shape, I have to modify a lot of exercises. LIke today, I was doing burpees but instead of doing them on the ground, I had a bench in front of me (so instead of going all the way to the ground with my hands, I would just put them on the bench and jump out)....for those of you who are fit and do these exercises all the time- is it weird to see a larger person trying to do these? Sometimes I feel like i don't belong at the gym, and I feel like everyone is judging me

ironanimal

If the gym isn't for people trying to improve their fitness, who exactly are they for? :flowerforyou:

wmlpd6

What Ironanimal said. Everyone has to to start somewhere

MissC787

I feel the same way, and actually stopped going to the guym because of it. I am planning to join again this summer. I hope you won't give up, and that you will keep going. Just put your head phones in, and keep pushing yourself.

DEgal99

I love seeing anyone who's serious about getting healthier at the gym.

AliciaBeth78

Stop feeling like everyone is judging you and go enjoy your workout! I promise you no one is paying attention to you, because they are doing the exact same thing... enjoying (or trying to get through!) their own workout!

2bFitNTrim

If the gym isn't for people trying to improve their fitness, who exactly are they for? :flowerforyou:

Exactly! Everyone deserves to take good care of themselves whether they are big, short, heavy, slim, old or young, etc. Do your thing & don't worry about what others think.

kimchi84

Oh dont ever feel that way!!!!!!!!!! , everytime i see a person really trying at the gym it makes me want to go over and tell them good job but i never do because I'm too shy heheh . Keep it up and remember you are doing this for yourself and nobody else !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! good luck on your journey !

rbene07

Don't ever think you are not good or 'skinny' enough to go to the gym. The important thing is that you are utilizing the facility, trying to improve your fitness levels and will see faster results if stay at a gym instead of diet alone. If you still feel a little self conscious, find a friendlier gym - one where you see others as yourself; who have your similar goals and aspirations. Congrats and keep up the good work!

amdahwd

Even the instructor in my regular class is modifying since we are doing Insanity every day instead of her regular workouts. It is a way to get started on the path of being where you want to be!

Let me tell you something funny about modifications... I took my 15 year old niece who is 110 pounds soaking wet, a cheerleader, and a model to my class with me Thursday night. She had to modify EVERY exercise or stand there and walk in place while the rest of us did something.

No judging here!

acg1305

If the gym isn't for people trying to improve their fitness, who exactly are they for? :flowerforyou:

This, don't be insecure. I think everyone is insecure when they first join a gym no matter what their size. Don't be worrying!

LastTenPoundsGodDamnYou

I am more motivated and impressed by larger people at the gym than anyone else, as it shows real strength or character Plus you will be one of the slim ones soon if you keep at it x

lil_pulp

Anyone who is negatively judging you for adapting exercises to your current level of fitness is essentially a shallow moron and, therefore, should not be any of any concern to you.

TexanThom

If someone is looking down at you for your shape...That is their problem....There can be a lot of jerks in the gym. Also, there can be a lot of good, helpful folks there too.

heytherestephy

I feel the same way but my problem is squats!

Not because I can't do them, I'm not as big as I used to be but because I messed up my knee pretty badly and simply cannot squat like I should be able to with out tremendous pain and my knee popping in and out. Same with push-ups, a serious back injury prevents me from doing push-ups, even modified. Ah wellllll.

But as others have said, the gym is meant to be there for you to improve, so improve

marci423

I think if a person is looking at me at the gym then obviously they aren't there for exercise, because I have to stay focused on what I am doing, not looking at the others around me.............

:bigsmile:

of course, they might just be thinking how awesome I look )

killersushi13

I think I'd be more impressed that you're making the effort to do it in a smart way instead of trying extremely hard for a day or two, and then never coming back.

MNguerita

I give you tons of credit for even going! I love the classes but usually don't go because I go once and feel so stupid and "out of the loop" that I don't want to embarrass myself further. Have been thinking of signing up for the yoga for bigger bodies that they offer so then maybe I would not be alone.

badgerbadger1

I love seeing bigger people working it at the gym! When I first started I felt like a freak because I was the only one who seemed to have weight to lose. I kept going anyways. After a while you'll feel like a badass because you start seeing big changes in your fitness level and physique. The more out of shape you are, the bigger the potential for achieving awesomeness.

jolarocknrolla

i cheer for the bigger people! well, inside, generally i won't break out into actual cheers, but i'm super glad to see anybody and everybody working hard ... especially since i know how tough it is. Keep it up

Laura8603

Honestly I really do not notice anyone else at the gym. I'm focused on me. Please don't stop going because you fear what others think. Just keep on doing what you're doing. Being healthy and in shape is the best reward!!

Laces_0ut

i have never seen anyone judge someone for being too big while at a gym. the only judging i have heard is when people see someone using horrible form...something like "that guy is going to blow his back out".

Ralfgar

you are there for your health not for what they think! I feel you are doing the right thing by changing your workout for where you are at this time in your fitness level. As your fitness gets better so will how you do your workouts. If you are still getting your heart rate up and you feel the burn you are doing it right.

good luck and stay focused

AZKristi

I felt the same way when I started working out, and I think it is a normal concern. But, for the most part, people at the gym are focused on themselves and their own workouts and probably pay little to no attention to what you are doing.

As far as your modifications... Its always better to see someone modifying an exercising and completing it with good form at the appropriate level than to see someone struggling with something that is beyond them and potentially injuring themselves. Sounds like you are doing exactly what you should be!

TheWinman

Your goal is to improve you health/ fitness, look the way you want to and live a healthy lifestyle. Keep focused on that while at the gym. Most people are not even paying attention to you it just seems that way to you. Enjoy!

alu1977

I am lucky and actually have myself set up well in my home. With an elliptical, bowflex, some dumbells and room for cardio aerobics. Not everyone has that opportunity. If I had to go to a gym I would feel the same way. Forget about them, everyone has to start somewhere. Your working out smart!!

JennW130

Stop feeling like everyone is judging you and go enjoy your workout! I promise you no one is paying attention to you, because they are doing the exact same thing... enjoying (or trying to get through!) their own workout!

exactly!

fussica1

I just started going to the gym again after a pretty significant hiatus. I take classes at the gym with all of these crazy athletes. The first time I went, we did burpees on top of everything else I couldn't do. I even fell while attempting to do a regular plank. I was so embarrassed, and all I wanted to do was hide and never go back. But people were encouraging and told me I needed to come back, that I did a good job (even if I felt like a failure). So I've been at it for about 4 weeks now. I can do a plank, I can do a push-up and burpees. Maybe my mountain climbers need a little work

My point: They are not judging you, those athletic people are thinking, good for you. Now is a better time than ever. Keep going, keep challenging yourself, you will be surprised how much easier it gets as time goes on. You get more energy from working out and feel better about yourself.

poedunk65

You belong there girl. Good job!

Darkskinned88

i used to feel that way starting out, especiallly at the free weights and i still cant bring myself to go running in public. But we all have to start somewhere

GLJezebel

I felt that way when I first started a little over a year ago. The first few times I went to the gym I wouldn't go if my BFF didn't go with me. After I got my routine down, I was fine going by myself and actually prefer going on my own. I am there to workout, not visit. I have since switched from a city rec center to 24 Hour Fitness and it doesn't bother me at all. Don't worry about what anyone else is thinking, most likely they aren't paying any attention to what you are doing. KEEP GOING!