Really? I can't believe he said that!

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  • Mgregory723
    Mgregory723 Posts: 529 Member
    I agree what he said was rude hurtful and mean.... but for your sister to put you up to it was not cool.. and now she has let her choice in a boyfriend effect your self esteem..

    I think that people are forgetting.. you did this for your sister.. you did what you thought best to help her... but here is where i see the problem .. your sister made the choice to bring this douche into your life..she had no right to ask you to get into the middle of it knowing how rude he is,
    but because your sister has choosen to have him in her life.. dosnt mean you have to have him in yours. I know you have told your sister that she deserves better etc etc... but i think at this point for your mental well being you just have to say to her that if she choices to stay in a toxic and voitile relationship that is up to her.. but you can not be a part of it. as such you dont want to be involved in it. .you dont want to see him and you dont want to hear about him. You are more than willing to contiue being her sister and friend and you love her.. but if she wants to have him as part of her life.. you will not take part in that area of her life..

    I think that is the best thing to do before it gets worse and you get hurt more for her choices....


    ps.. i think you do need to have a talk with your sister... i would never stand for any one speaking this way about my family.. i would have killed my boyfriend if i were her


    That is some great advise. Thank you.

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