I think girls who don't accept guy friends on MFP...

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  • aproc
    aproc Posts: 1,033 Member
    I like accepting some because with my goals of building muscle, typically the guys can be more motivating because most of them are weight lifting. Not saying anything against girls. I have a lot of girls on my friends list who are amazing and lift heavy, but I also find it easier friending a guy because I'm generally doing the same stuff. I've never been able to find a girl to work out with in the gym but I've had plenty of guy gym buddies and it motivates me more keeping up with them. :P
    I have declined a few though. haha. Maybe type messages with your requests?
  • mostein
    mostein Posts: 200 Member
    If you tell them you breath hard and heavy when you look at their pictures usually they have a change of heart.

    So that's how you get them, you are smart!
  • callmeBAM
    callmeBAM Posts: 445 Member
    The guy who started this thread posted this yesterday about me:

    "Dude has some HOTT chick friends.

    I have already FR'd them all, and sent them warning disclaimers......

    Thanks brother.....and happy hunting!

    Muahhhhhhhaaahahahahahahahhah!"

    Evidence here: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/614309-mfp-s-meanest?page=7

    How weird do you have to be to FR a dude, just to creep on his friends list and then unfriend him? Stalker much?
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    I think it's odd, but ia personal choice. Recently, a woman used a very sexually provocative title, something like, "Want a little tush," and then after getting people to click on the link, inside the thread she very self-righteously said she didn't want any men as friends. I have no idea what was going on there.

    LOL it's all about context.

    She might have just been focusing on how she wants her tush to be littler... not offering you a little tush... ya know? ;)
  • RunnerBlonde808
    RunnerBlonde808 Posts: 257 Member
    hmmmm,,,,I guess since I don't really post much on the boards I'm not even putting myself out there to be friend requested...or I guess it could be because I'm just not that cute.

    Who knows!
  • Nic620
    Nic620 Posts: 553 Member
    No boys allowed!
  • MystiqueASAP
    MystiqueASAP Posts: 747
    If you tell them you breath hard and heavy when you look at their pictures usually they have a change of heart.

    Works for me. :smile:
  • steamyhott
    steamyhott Posts: 71 Member
    If you tell them you breath hard and heavy when you look at their pictures usually they have a change of heart.


    HaHa good one!!!!!!
  • aj_31
    aj_31 Posts: 994 Member
    The guy who started this thread posted this yesterday about me:

    "Dude has some HOTT chick friends.

    I have already FR'd them all, and sent them warning disclaimers......

    Thanks brother.....and happy hunting!

    Muahhhhhhhaaahahahahahahahhah!"

    Evidence here: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/614309-mfp-s-meanest?page=7

    How weird do you have to be to FR a dude, just to creep on his friends list and then unfriend him? Stalker much?

    LMAO!
  • itgeekwoman
    itgeekwoman Posts: 804 Member
    Guys are straightforward and honest in many cases just can't be bothered with the fluffy compliments and stuff. If you look good they'll tell you and if it's not working for them, they'll ignore you.

    I must be a creeper though as I invite guys as friends on my list. Balances out the hormones from all the women. Plus I lift and like the feedback.
  • mamato3babies
    mamato3babies Posts: 73 Member
    I always feel like I am sending the FR too! No one wants to be my friend either..... I guess I'm ugly too! Whatever, if they can't be my friend at my worst, then they don't deserve to be my friend at my best (when I get there).
  • Embera
    Embera Posts: 289 Member
    i dont add guys cuz my bf will get jelous pluss i dont think they have the same issues as women
  • felice03
    felice03 Posts: 2,644 Member
    Well, I did warn my entire friends list about your creepin *kitten*.

    go away.
  • vivekg
    vivekg Posts: 35
    I think those hot girls should take it as a compliment because arent we all in a way trying to lose the weight to become hot versions of ourselves in the future. So if we're all gonna be hot then, I think a guy is adding u now cause uve either gotten to ur hotness or getting close to it. But of course once uve added them, there should be some sort of a personality exchange otherwise "Hello Creeper and Goodbye Creeper!!"
  • steamyhott
    steamyhott Posts: 71 Member
    Well, I did warn my entire friends list about your creepin *kitten*.

    :laugh:
  • VoodooLuLu
    VoodooLuLu Posts: 636 Member
    i must be the creepy one seeing i dont get any ...
  • f1ctional
    f1ctional Posts: 235
    I add anyone who seems active online and supportive on this site etc. Some just look damn good though. I'm a man, and won't fricken deny that. I chalk that up to just being human nature. Its mostly all for the support though. Most of us are here for a reason. I have already been deleted by a few, but those are the ones who's heads are too big for MFP, or the internet in general.

    I guess no matter where you go there are some creepers, stalkers, and trolls that are on every other social network on the planet.
  • RollerDevil
    RollerDevil Posts: 31
    If that makes you feel better, I never accepted anyone...

    Never got a request, either :laugh:
  • MileyClimb
    MileyClimb Posts: 414 Member
    I have a few guy friends but then I am a single gal so don't have the insecure bf to worry about. I do like ones around my age between late 20's to earlier 40's. if a guy old enough to be my dad wanted to friend me I would think that would be kinda creepy.
  • NNAhuja
    NNAhuja Posts: 669 Member
    Who knows why some girls do that do that!
    I accept guys because they are asking to be my friend not my next boyfriend! lol
    Some of the girls on here make me glad I don't have a bf. I'm not a huge fan of guys being super jealous/posessive.
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    Well, I did warn my entire friends list about your creepin *kitten*.

    I see your lips moving, but i don't hear anything coming out......
  • DB_1106
    DB_1106 Posts: 154 Member
    My friends list is composed about 90% women, 10% men. I never noticed it until now. I'm not a creeper!!!
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    The guy who started this thread posted this yesterday about me:

    "Dude has some HOTT chick friends.

    I have already FR'd them all, and sent them warning disclaimers......

    Thanks brother.....and happy hunting!

    Muahhhhhhhaaahahahahahahahhah!"

    Evidence here: http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/614309-mfp-s-meanest?page=7

    How weird do you have to be to FR a dude, just to creep on his friends list and then unfriend him? Stalker much?

    I was really just trying to get someone to recommend me for Pinterest. However, my blood test came back too low on on estrogen, and I was declined. Thanks anyway brah!
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    I only have 1 guy on my friends list & that's because he does the program I'm doing. I don't typically except guys. It's because I get emotional a lot of this journey & sometimes personal. I feel comfy with the girls I have. I feel like their goals are closer to my own.
    About creepy messages, I'm 24 and I had this 40 something year old man send me a msg & tell me I was smokin hott. O__o if ur old enough to b my daddy, I don't want compliments like tht. It makes me feel violated. & i'm not even hot, I'm still chubby ugh. I dont wanna attract old guys lol
  • Lil_MiSsSunshiNe
    Lil_MiSsSunshiNe Posts: 167
    .......are typically involved in relationships with possessive people, this is the net not real life I mean come on already \m/


    That is not correct at all. Some women just do not feel as tho interacting with a bunch of males online is a good habit to take up. Just because this is 2012 doesn't mean some girls can't hold standards for themselves and draw lines. Judging someones relationship soley based on the fact that they do not accept male friends is obsurd.
  • ItsMeRebekah
    ItsMeRebekah Posts: 909 Member
    I only have 1 guy on my friends list & that's because he does the program I'm doing. I don't typically except guys. It's because I get emotional a lot of this journey & sometimes personal. I feel comfy with the girls I have. I feel like their goals are closer to my own.
    About creepy messages, I'm 24 and I had this 40 something year old man send me a msg & tell me I was smokin hott. O__o if ur old enough to b my daddy, I don't want compliments like tht. It makes me feel violated. & i'm not even hot, I'm still chubby ugh. I dont wanna attract old guys lol

    just wanted to add to that you could really be missing out on not wanting to attract an "old" guy.. they can be super hot and blow your mind girl!! hahah that is all
  • stephyy4632
    stephyy4632 Posts: 947 Member
    if they don`t leave a note with the request I don`t except them but if they leave a message then I normaly do :)
  • Georgiamolliexx
    Georgiamolliexx Posts: 27 Member
    I don't see the difference in adding guys or girls we are all here for the same reason to lose wieght and get healthy.
    I accept guy requests.....guess that means I'm with you girls and not hot either!! Haha :smile:
  • BecciJG
    BecciJG Posts: 55 Member
    I don't see the difference in adding guys or girls we are all here for the same reason to lose wieght and get healthy.
    I accept guy requests.....guess that means I'm with you girls and not hot either!! Haha :smile:

    Same!
  • DB_1106
    DB_1106 Posts: 154 Member
    There are some creepy people on here from what I have observed in these forums.

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