I think girls who don't accept guy friends on MFP...

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  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,275 Member
    .......are typically involved in relationships with possessive people, this is the net not real life I mean come on already \m/

    It has NOTHING to do with being in relationship with possessive people. It is our preference and out of RESPECT for our men...
    I honestly have NOTHING in common with a male that is trying to lose weight, and although i would appreciate his support and encouragement i rather get it from a female going the the same struggles i am.

    Thank you. Well said.

    .....fascinating that you find it in yourself to speak for everyone....typically means more often than not, and I have enough examples from my friends (or those lost) to support my opinion \m/ So in YOUR case, it has NOTHING TO DO.....:drinker:
  • mostein
    mostein Posts: 200 Member
    If you tell them you breath hard and heavy when you look at their pictures usually they have a change of heart.

    So that's how you get them, you are smart!

    If i got a FR like that I'd accept for sure. :laugh:
    Funny though...stop putting up "real" pics of me and the requests stop coming in...put up the hot sweaty ab pic--the floodgates open!

    I hear yah, I don't get any requests with my animal pics lol
  • aoikirin
    aoikirin Posts: 143
    I think it is weird that people on here seem to assume that everyone is heterosexual. The 1950's are long gone.

    There are plenty of gay guys on here who have absolutely no interest sexually in any of the women here. By the same token, just because someone is gay doesn't mean he "wants" every man on earth. People do have standards and types.

    The same goes for lesbians too. They are on here as well, and plenty of them are hot and would not be sexually interested in any of the men here. That doesn't mean they wouldn't make fantastic friends, and again it doesn't mean that every lesbian is after every woman on this site. People have types. Gay people are not lecherous fiends constantly in search of the nearest same sex person to pursue.
  • SueSlick
    SueSlick Posts: 268 Member
    .......are typically involved in relationships with possessive people, this is the net not real life I mean come on already \m/


    ^ this or they are insecure
  • cameralinds
    cameralinds Posts: 239
    I love a good sarcastic man. Couldn't get through life without them.

    The feminist within wouldn't take a man limiting my access to sarcasm. Nope.
    :)
  • CallieM15
    CallieM15 Posts: 910 Member
    I decline a lot of men. But I also decline whiney females. Ive gotten such WEIRD messages from guys lol.
  • j4nash
    j4nash Posts: 1,719 Member
    to each their own.

    i do think it's odd when a woman rejects because of a s/o though.
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    I accept guy requests, but delete if they are pervs. I mean real pervs, not sarcastic ones.
  • khagador
    khagador Posts: 175 Member
    are really HOT! Course, I can't really know for sure, cause they don't wanna be friends..... :explode:

    I accept everyone. However, I don't get many friend requests from guys... or girls.
  • gaiareeves
    gaiareeves Posts: 292 Member
    I don't decline people unless they start sending weird messages.

    It seems no matter where you go on the internet, if you're female, you get weirdos.

    It'd tattoo 'big fat queer' to my forehead if I thought it'd make a difference, but I doubt it would.
  • BriskisGrl
    BriskisGrl Posts: 461
    To each their own. I understand both sides. If my husband had an issue poof they would be gone., yet the same token I'm here not only to support him but myself. I need to learn to be more comfortable with WHO I am.. How I look.. work on making myself feel better. :D Something that he is in full support of.
  • itgeekwoman
    itgeekwoman Posts: 804 Member
    i dont add guys cuz my bf will get jelous pluss i dont think they have the same issues as women

    I add guys and I don't care if my husband gets jealous. Heck I show my husband pics of the guys I look at. I want his abs to look like the pics I show. I often invite my trainer and his girlfriend out so that my husband gets the idea of what I like physically.

    It worked. He's joined the gym and understands that I like healthy looking men. Whatever it takes to make the marriage work right?
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    Men can lose weight easily so they don't understand. I think I only have like 3 male friends.
  • BriskisGrl
    BriskisGrl Posts: 461
    I'm afraid to send out friend request to the ladies on here, because I just assume that they are getting lots of creepy request from guys like the OP. So yeah I have like 7 friends, but always room for lots more!

    OP=fabulous, not creepy.

    i second that!

    Thank you both. Y'all are the best. Wanna try a threesome tonite??? :devil:

    only if there is bacon.

    darnit Jules stop forgetting the eggs. It's gotta be like that one bikini!
  • michellekicks
    michellekicks Posts: 3,624 Member
    I accept guy requests, but delete if they are pervs. I mean real pervs, not sarcastic ones.

    ^This. Reasonable.
  • Brandicaloriecountess
    Brandicaloriecountess Posts: 2,126 Member
    I have men, but the majority of my friends are women.
  • cmthorsness
    cmthorsness Posts: 83 Member
    Who friggen cares what you have between your legs? Male or female makes no difference to me. They all can be deleted with one click..
  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
    Balls
  • Iwannabeskinny00
    Iwannabeskinny00 Posts: 2
    I agree that gender shouldnt make a difference in the majority of things in life but here some girls wanna have just girls cuz they put pics of their bodies before and after and dont want guys seeing them in underwear/little clothing. I dont find anything wrong with that.
  • ThaRealNicki
    ThaRealNicki Posts: 322 Member
    My guy usually doesnt care if I accept a request from a guy but its my personal choice to mostly not accept them because of the personal chick stuff I talk about and honestly Ive always been uncomfortable with things like this anyways (being friends with guys on the internet)

    IDK why wish I did but either way I do require msgs with requests AND NEVER EVER GET THEM! Annoying
  • walkner88
    walkner88 Posts: 165
    I think I only have two fellow guys on my friends list. The women on here are way more dedicated to logging in and actually asking questions and complementing when you've worked hard. They are the ones who make this into a community instead of a bunch of guys in a pissing contest about muscle size.
  • Jain
    Jain Posts: 861 Member
    I'd love the chance to refuse a guy's request. Sob. I guess my avi is just not sexy.:grumble:

    Note to self. Must take cleavage shot soon.:laugh:
  • ShareeMorty
    ShareeMorty Posts: 324 Member
    I have a good mix of guys and girls on my list, the guys are great and supportive and haven't been creepy (yet!). I think guys have just as much to offer on our journeys to be healthier as girls. I would cull anyone off my list who creeped me out or was just plain unsupportive.

    <<< this is the only pic I have posted so far (cos I have yet to work out how), hasn't stopped anyone FR me LOL. Must be my cute face :bigsmile:
  • abasmom
    abasmom Posts: 49
    I dont accept friend requests from men because I am on here to lose weight and men and women lose weight differently and usually work out differently so I want friends who I can relate to...its not personal :wink:
  • SexyCook
    SexyCook Posts: 2,249 Member
    :indifferent: Not All them.......
  • typicalmeghan
    typicalmeghan Posts: 10
    No message, no friend. Its creepy to get a request with no message. I also only add people that arent too much older than me. If you're wayyyyyyyy older why do you want to be my friend? haha
  • Krizzo87
    Krizzo87 Posts: 14,186 Member
    I accept any requests, male or female...then again, I'm not hot by any means.. :ohwell:
  • fatgirlslove
    fatgirlslove Posts: 614 Member
    lol I accept boys ...not all willy nilly though ^_^
  • tipyourbartender
    tipyourbartender Posts: 35 Member
    I wouldn't worry about one or two females denying a friend request with the abundant amount of women on here who constantly throw themselves at the males on this site lol :tongue:
  • strawberrie_milk
    strawberrie_milk Posts: 381 Member
    Does that mean I'm ugly :(

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