MFP Celebrity

MsQt

Ok, I am guilty :indifferent: and I stand by my comment!

rpphillip

you sound upset , did you get deleted?

I am not upset at all. Just answering a MFP question?

OK sorry! I haven't deleted any one yet, I try to be picky about who i let on my list, because I like to have people of all ages that I can relate to and who will be encouraged by me and retrurn that encouragement. that is why I am here. otherwise I don't think I would even spend time with it at all. whats the point?

verptwerp

Uh...

...in for eventual explanation.



(Nah, just kidding, I really don't need more explanation...I'm just in for the inevitable drama this is going to cause...and I loves me some MFP forum drama.)

:laugh: because there hasn't been enough drama today, right ? :laugh:

_HeathBar_

It's ok OP, I can relate.

Quasita

My question is... Wouldn't the person that keeps people on their list solely for the numbers be the person that strives for attention on here?

Seems to me that you're calling yourself out, which is just plain silly, guhlfren.

I delete inactive members, people that constantly rave about Jesus, etc etc... If we're not friends, you're not going to be on my friends list.

Not worth getting so butthurt over, if you ask me.

Quasita

Sounds like to me you are judging people....IJS

Sometime people really don’t realize how ugly they are acting to the people that look to them as a great inspiration.

Mayhaps they should, instead of getting hurt over it, realize that they need to have either better dedication, or find the kind of support they need? I don't think deleting someone is being "ugly". Being an outright bizzitch is being ugly. I think it's better to delete in silence than give in to the temptation of judging and griping *ahem*

kyliecakes0405

Phew....

I can relate to this post a little. Honestly speaking, I was offended by some members that deleted me while I was working throughout my busy season and though I was very active everyday at one point, I just couldn't fit it into my schedule. I gave up FB because it offered me nothing and this site gives me results. I fell off the wagon because I lead a stressful lifestyle for 4 months out of the year and have yet to find the balance. I was hurt the day I realized I was just too busy to pay the site a visit and I lost my 200+ day streak. But I'm happy to be back and going strong for almost 30 days now and I can't wait to see how far I have come this Thursday on my big 30 day weigh-in.

Let me go and thank my 34 friends that weathered the storm with me

Good day to everyone!

BeautyisBeingU

Everyone have a safe evening! Fitness time for me. :happy:

sizzle92

Am I the only one who wouldn't notice if someone deleted me?

rjt1000

Am I the only one who wouldn't notice if someone deleted me?

nope. I wouldn't notice for weeks. I think I have around 30 friends on MFP now. Couldn't tell you for sure without looking, though.

ImSoPerfectlyFlawed

I understand what you're saying, OP. Think of this as a course. If someone won't study, do homework, and drops the class after 3 weeks, the rest of the class will move on without that student.

Now, say that student is your friend. Your friend really wants an A, but won't do the work. Complains about getting bad grades, while you're busting your hump. How much time and energy do you devote to supporting this friend?

I have and will cut REAL LIFE friends and relatives who do not log on. I will encourage them as long as they are willing to show up. That's all. Just log in and SHOW UP. I will help/encourage/whatever. I don't need to see your diary. I don't need your jokes on the forums. I will still be your friend in every other aspect of life.

But if you drop out of class, I will still graduate on time without you.

I like this

fatchiick

Some of these post are Super Inappropriate.

Some are Hilarious. Most of them of pics or mention of Dr. Pepper lmao...

I have no clue what this thread is about and I'm a master mumble poster lol. Seems to be about leaving coming back finding out you were deleted and telling the person who deleted you, you're not an MFP celebutart lol

I have no clue who any of these people are, om on a phone so everyone pretty much is a jumble lol...I rarely go through all my friends to see what they are up to, if there is an interesting comment one of them made on the feed, ill comment... does mfp send u a message saying this person hasn't logged in? how does one know? I find it odd and stalkerish to care enough tp delete anyone for not logging in or commenting on your page, my friends are seconadary a bonus to using mfp I don't regulate them lmao ..

tyoung8

Uh...

...in for eventual explanation.



(Nah, just kidding, I really don't need more explanation...I'm just in for the inevitable drama this is going to cause...and I loves me some MFP forum drama.)

hahahahha:laugh: :happy: :drinker:

westdove

wha?

ROFL!!!!

westdove

O'tay. I relate and understand the original post. I only delete folks who have not logged in about 3 months. I wish them luck and hope they come back.
The Celebrity part, yes, there are many people, especially those who have lost a TON of pounds, do sorta "forget". There is only one successful person who I initially looked up to, that I removed, because she got so cocky in her limited post, never posted anything encouraging, had a closed diary and often uses this site to sell her old clothing (maybe be some TOS concerns in there somewhere).
Otherwise, I love my list, I love to be supporting to others who want it. I just wish this site would be more like FB so I could interact a bit more

Drizap

Am I the only one who wouldn't notice if someone deleted me?

Drizap

I wouldn't notice.

Pebble321

You said "to each his own"... exactly, why not let each person make their own decison about what is right for them?

If someone wants to delete me from their friend list that is absolutely fine. I'm not going to lose sleep over what an internet stranger has done... and honestly I probably wouldn't know.

I've deleted people before and I'm sure I've been deleted - to me that's not about judging, its' about keeping my friend list manageable and up to date. I've seen lots of people who have been away who come back and post "looking for new friends".

I'm not quite sure about your "MFP celebrity" point - I've been here for a long time now and I've seen many people who have lost lots of weight and done all kinds of great things post again and again in a kind and supportive and helpful manner.

It's not an issue unless you choose to make it one.

DrJackson6

Too funny!

realme56

Am I the only one who wouldn't notice if someone deleted me?

Some I might notice, others not. The OP is totally private so no idea where she is coming from. If someone comes back they can look me up and come back but I would delete anyone eating poorly, not signing in for a month or so. I would message someone I was close to.

I never started on this site to have a ton of cyber friends but I ended up with a few and that's the way I like it, a few. My diary is public good and bad so that if someone can get something interesting from it they are welcomed to it. Everyone should manage their friend list as they desire.

newfette81

I deleted my first person today. eating 500 calories a day for a few weeks so you can binge on your birthday and then only increase it to 1000 is not ok with me. I believe you are given a certain number of calories so you can eat them! I can't in good faith support someone who is doing something I don't believe in (

SurfinBird1981

Is there an English version?

:laugh:

Beautycurvepose

Lol I didnt even read any of the comments the picture keep me going hahaha too funny!

Rosco63

Rotfl

The dog, the dog!

moreno89

To each is its own but I don’t delete people. Who am I to require my MFP’s to inform me of there where about. The problem is that these people may want to come back but my feel prideful or shameful for giving up. Now one day they decide to stop hiding and face their fears and come back. But only to find out that the people that they once looked up had decided to leave them behind. Every reason they had given themselves not come back their MFP proves the right. A pal is someone who motivates not only when one is doing well but being there through bad. Who’s to say that there not still working out?

One thing that I noticed about the site is all these people wanting to be some kind of MFP Celebrity. Remember when you first started your journey, it wasn’t easy and you didn’t get there over night. You even quit a couple time and started back up again. But now that you have reached your goal you have placed yourself on a higher pedestal and forgotten where you came from. I have even seen people delete people for not being social but was actively working out. These are some sad people. I guest this is their way of making them feel like somebody.

If you looking at my pics and status help you to keep things going then status watch. A lot you weren’t sociable people until you became comfortable with the new skin your in. Who are you to judge?

wha?

that's hella funny

moreno89

**** all i know is when i get to my GW there's gonna be post galore on my profile,success stories,motivation and support,facebook,ect...i'm gonna be a weight loss celebrity every where i go lol i worked hard for it!!

moreno89

It's ok OP, I can relate.

haha hilarious this site can be intersting

Melonhead

I've only got 300 calories left today. Not enough to get drunk with....even then I don't think it would make more sense. I did read it backwards and the message was "i'ma troll, I'm a troll"

_hi_hat3r_

Lol @ mob mentality. Bunch of fkn followers.

Fit_Canuck