The difference between "flirting" and "being creepy"

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  • NCTravellingGirl
    NCTravellingGirl Posts: 717 Member
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    Creepy really is a feeling most women just get... I can't even tell you what makes someone that way all the time but here are a few thoughts...

    Guys who invade the personal space I need are instantly creepy.
    Guys who work with me and reach up to adjust my bra strap from showing... OMG creepy and you're fired (yes, this happened)...
    Guys who don't back off when it's clear I don't care to talk to you... creepy!

    OK, so maybe it is more obvious than I thought!

    I will admit on the female side that I have done a few things that are actually creepy but hope I'm reformed... I'm sure it was creepy when I used to do a ton of research online on a crush and know WAY more about him than I had a reason to... or that I had to carefully ensure I didn't share anything that would make it that obvious that I'd done my research, haha!
  • snoopytwins
    snoopytwins Posts: 1,759 Member
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    The line between flirting and "being creepy" is crossed if you hear banjos and he tells you that you have a "purdy mouth." If that happens...run. :noway:
  • JessieArt
    JessieArt Posts: 275 Member
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    Flirting is when someone looks you in the eye and smiles or says something complimentary.

    Creepy is having your boss who is 30 years older than you tell you he's going to hit on you when his wife goes out of town because you're hot.

    If it makes you throw up in your mouth, it's creepy.

    Ummm and in this case completely and utterly illegal.

    And that is why I reported him. Of course, he got written up but kept his job. I quit and was walked out with two weeks pay. Not fair but at least I don't have to look at him ever again.
  • shellebelle87
    shellebelle87 Posts: 291 Member
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    hahaha!

    Nice shirt but have to disagree....shoot 47/2 +7 =30.5....yup I'm creepy cause you are to young to flirt with...damn.

    Why divide by 2 and add 7?
  • cannonsky
    cannonsky Posts: 850 Member
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    It all depends on where his hands are..
  • next_bold_move
    next_bold_move Posts: 15 Member
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    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Not so much.
  • JoyceJoanne
    JoyceJoanne Posts: 760 Member
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    I've had fly by compliments... it depends.

    Is it:
    A) "I saw you on a friend's page, your legs are awesome- those boots!! Oh and that *kitten*- I was like WHOA!"
    or
    B) "I saw you on a friend's page, you look amazing. Terrific job on the loss."
    or
    C) "WOW, you are STUNNING"
    or
    D) "Those boots!! WOW! Just WOW!"

    A and D -Creepster
    B and C- Kinda made my day

    Yes these are actual PMs that I have received.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 2,073 Member
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    hahaha!

    Nice shirt but have to disagree....shoot 47/2 +7 =30.5....yup I'm creepy cause you are to young to flirt with...damn.

    Why divide by 2 and add 7?

    'Cause that's the rule!
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 2,073 Member
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    It all depends on where his hands are..

    But what if he doesn't say? Is there a preferred position that you assume?

    And is it bad that I ALWAYS read you name as something Russian or whatever? like "Cannonski?"
  • Edwin_S
    Edwin_S Posts: 440 Member
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    Get off, I'm taking notes!!!
  • DaughterOfTheMostHighKing
    DaughterOfTheMostHighKing Posts: 1,436 Member
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    Get off, I'm taking notes!!!

    soooooo what is it? lol!!!!

    BTW I love you new photo. ;D
  • Edwin_S
    Edwin_S Posts: 440 Member
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    This is how i flirt...is it working?

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  • jayjrf
    jayjrf Posts: 25
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    First time you meet a chick...

    "Hi *insert her name* ! I like that you go to bed at 10 each night..."
  • SSGirlLV
    SSGirlLV Posts: 38 Member
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    Sad but true, Hot guy= Flirting. Not hot guy= Creepy... Hate to say that but that is how I feel...
  • Edwin_S
    Edwin_S Posts: 440 Member
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    Is this flirting or creepy if you send it to a girl?

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  • cannonsky
    cannonsky Posts: 850 Member
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    It all depends on where his hands are..

    But what if he doesn't say? Is there a preferred position that you assume?

    And is it bad that I ALWAYS read you name as something Russian or whatever? like "Cannonski?"

    I guess that depends on how often you see my name... creeper. haha.. but I am 1/4 slovak.. so it's acceptable..

    I just meant.. if his hands on near his naughty bits.... it's not flirting anymore
  • ladyace15
    ladyace15 Posts: 88 Member
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    Flirt: You are beautiful and your smile is amazing!

    Creeper: I like your smile lil momma, so I'm saying, what's up tonight?

    OR

    I can give you something to really smile about!

    Me: I can give you five seconds to get the h3ck out my face! SMH:laugh:
  • gogojodee
    gogojodee Posts: 1,261 Member
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    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Sad but true, haha.
  • jfa002
    jfa002 Posts: 54 Member
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    This is how i flirt...is it working?

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    This is TOO FRICKEN FUNNY!!!
    MHMHMHAHAHA!!! LMFAO
    STOP THE LOOP IT'S TOO DAMN FUNNY!!!!
    IS THIS CONSIDERED A SPORTING INJURY!!!???

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