The difference between "flirting" and "being creepy"

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  • Just_Dot
    Just_Dot Posts: 2,283 Member
    You have amazing eyes...

    Vs

    You have amazing eyes...I wonder how they'd look in the glass case next to my bed.
  • small_ninja
    small_ninja Posts: 365 Member
    Flirting - when they're reciprocating or open to it

    Creepy - when they're not; if you know way too much about them, follow them around, or keep trying it on with them despite getting the feeling that they're probably not that keen then you're being creepy.

    So by that analysis, yes, looks will probably come into it a little bit, but a stellar personality and sense of humour could redeem you.
  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
    I think we need a creep the above poster thread.
  • RunnerBlonde808
    RunnerBlonde808 Posts: 257 Member
    You have amazing eyes...

    Vs

    You have amazing eyes...I wonder how they'd look in the glass case next to my bed.

    That's more than creepy. That's a bit scary! lol.
  • Typhanee83
    Typhanee83 Posts: 309 Member
    My husband is a total creeper. In a flirty kind of way. He sneaks up behind me in the store and smells me.

    AW! So sweet!
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    u sure have a purty mouth....do u floss?

    LOL.. should I be looking this up in the Urban Dictionary or are you just being sweet? :wink:
  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    Flirting: Id like to screw you
    Creepy: id like to Skewer you
  • iam_thatdude
    iam_thatdude Posts: 1,266 Member
    u sure have a purty mouth....do u floss?

    LOL.. should I be looking this up in the Urban Dictionary or are you just being sweet? :wink:

    no im just doing the tango so I can tell you about my mouth wash
  • surromom2010
    surromom2010 Posts: 457 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    It probably makes me a total geek to say this but everytime I see your parrot pic and read your posts I think of the episode of full metal alchemist where the "sun god" tried to bring a human back to life with a bunch of bird souls. You're right, it's creepy haha. Please tell me someone else knows what I'm talking about =)
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    I think we need a creep the above poster thread.

    Please start one. :)
  • Buca412
    Buca412 Posts: 301 Member
    This should settle the argument...creepy. :tongue:
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  • hanahlai
    hanahlai Posts: 281 Member
    Making unsolicited sexual comments about you affecting the way they "feel"....Especially, if you are not even in a relationship with that person it gets creepy.
  • hoskibn
    hoskibn Posts: 86
    Flirting - I heard a song the other day that reminded me of you...

    Creeping - that song is Closer by NIN
  • Pollywog39
    Pollywog39 Posts: 1,730 Member


    The whole MFP, "hey, want me to send you pics of my ****" Thing is just so old - more power to ya if you enjoy it!! But to me, I really don't want to see 47 different angles of your ****... ENOUGH ALREADY!!!! And if you receive NO COMMENT back on your pic... take that as a hint that WE'RE NOT IMPRESSED...
    Ok, thank you... end of rant :laugh:

    IF a pr!ckPic was sent to me (which hasn't happened.....yet).......just remember - a person can copy that pic and POST IT ON FACEBOOK.................yah................

    As for the difference? If it's FUN and you're enjoying it, and it feels right.....then it's flirting.
    If your skin crawls and you just want to back away.......it's creepy.
  • Danielle_2013
    Danielle_2013 Posts: 806 Member
    no im just doing the tango so I can tell you about my mouth wash

    You dirty, dirty old man... :tongue:
  • surromom2010
    surromom2010 Posts: 457 Member
    Flirting - Telling her she's gorgeous.

    Creep - Telling her she's gorgeous with your junk in your hand.

    ^^^^^^ THIS!

    Day, complete.
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    Flirting - I heard a song the other day that reminded me of you...

    Creeping - that song is Closer by NIN


    :laugh: I like that song
  • Nikki_42
    Nikki_42 Posts: 298 Member
    Flirt- I like what you have on.

    Creepy-I liked what you had on last night when I looked in your window.
  • sportsforfun
    sportsforfun Posts: 353
    Flirting:Seeing a girl and going to talk to her

    Creepy: Seeing a girl and just staring at her all night.
  • surromom2010
    surromom2010 Posts: 457 Member
    Flirting - I heard a song the other day that reminded me of you...

    Creeping - that song is Closer by NIN

    OOOR depending on age, I love little girls by Oingo Boingo, it's only funny if pedobear is dancing in the background.
    Yes it's my ringtone,
    But I'm a chick so it's ok to be creepy.
  • jdploki70
    jdploki70 Posts: 343
    Flirty: Woman hitting on me

    Creepy: Man hitting on me

    Just saying
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Now you guys are just being silly. Laterz while I go creep someone.
  • nas24
    nas24 Posts: 880 Member
    I think like beauty, its in the eye of the beholder.
  • fightingtheteens
    fightingtheteens Posts: 18
    hahaha!
  • StarvingDiva
    StarvingDiva Posts: 1,107 Member
    Flirting is when someone looks you in the eye and smiles or says something complimentary.

    Creepy is having your boss who is 30 years older than you tell you he's going to hit on you when his wife goes out of town because you're hot.

    If it makes you throw up in your mouth, it's creepy.

    Ummm and in this case completely and utterly illegal.
  • cohophysh
    cohophysh Posts: 288
    hahaha!

    Nice shirt but have to disagree....shoot 47/2 +7 =30.5....yup I'm creepy cause you are to young to flirt with...damn.
  • catherine4211
    catherine4211 Posts: 944 Member
    I think it has a lot to do with the relationship that is already established. I have friends that I flirt with hard....and they are good with it...but if they did not know me.....had I tried the same thing when we had only been friends a few days.....it would have been creepy.....

    Establishing rapport and trust first is important, IMHO.

    This is so true. I flirt will all the men (all married -boo) I work with hardcore. We had a new guy come into our department and I keep my mouth shut with him. I don't know him yet. All the others I have worked with for 7+ years.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
    Youre creepy if you're not comfortable flirting and have no confidence to back up what you're doing.

    ALso if you're doing this and you are older than my dad AND dont know me.

    Or if you are wearing jean cutoffs, plastic glasses and a wife beater.

    Mostly, if Im not attracted to you, and Im not putting off any signals that im attracted to you and want to flirt back and forth, and you still keep doing it anyway, then your flirting becomes creepy.
  • hoskibn
    hoskibn Posts: 86

    Or if you are wearing jean cutoffs, plastic glasses and a wife beater.

    stomps off to change....
  • Jersey_Devil
    Jersey_Devil Posts: 4,142 Member
    I think like beauty, its in the eye of the beholder.

    or beauty's in the eye of the beer holder.
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