The difference between "flirting" and "being creepy"

MeliciousGibson
MeliciousGibson Posts: 248 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
As I threatened in another thread - here it is!

Where do you feel the line is between a "Flirt" and a "Creeper"?

I'm going to sit back and watch the fun!
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  • TitanGM
    TitanGM Posts: 1,161 Member
    Flirt -> I never though we share so much similarities ;)

    Creepy -> If you was an ice cream, I'd eat you all!! o_o
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    That's for me to know and you to find out :wink:

    ...see what I did there :happy:

    Wait, so should I send you my junk or not? :bigsmile:
  • Meg_78
    Meg_78 Posts: 998 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    LOL sad, but probably right unfortunatly! ;)
  • IamRoJ
    IamRoJ Posts: 530 Member
    Shoot....was hoping to learn how to be creepy here. I'm gonna start a new thread.
  • MeliciousGibson
    MeliciousGibson Posts: 248 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I disagree - I have flirted with not-hot guys and still had a lot of fun with it!
  • lickmybaconcakes
    lickmybaconcakes Posts: 1,063 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I think this is the truth.
  • SofaKingRad
    SofaKingRad Posts: 1,592 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.
  • CountryBoy65
    CountryBoy65 Posts: 908 Member
    I think it has a lot to do with the relationship that is already established. I have friends that I flirt with hard....and they are good with it...but if they did not know me.....had I tried the same thing when we had only been friends a few days.....it would have been creepy.....

    Establishing rapport and trust first is important, IMHO.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I think this is the truth.

    Probably. I can't get away with it like baconcakes.
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I disagree - I have flirted with not-hot guys and still had a lot of fun with it!

    Damn it! Now I'm going to have look at my FL differently. :frown:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    If it makes me smile... flirting.

    If it makes me cringe... creeping.

    I can't really break it down any better than that. Sorry.
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I disagree. It's all about the way you say (type) things. Humor is key, without humor, things can sound creepy.
  • Sugar_Junkie
    Sugar_Junkie Posts: 366 Member
    friend request accepted:

    creeper: hey your really pretty, I am a sucker for blonde hair and blue eyes-- and where are you located exactly???


    instant friend removal!!
  • myofibril
    myofibril Posts: 4,500 Member

    Where do you feel the line is between a "Flirt" and a "Creeper"?

    Knowing what your victim will react well to....

    Errrr, that's not what I meant. Really. I mean being sensitive to what the recipient of your affection likes and their individual needs.

    What's that? In the air? Is that the Goodyear Blimp *points and then runs away when you're not looking.*
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    Flirting - Telling her she's gorgeous.

    Creep - Telling her she's gorgeous with your junk in your hand.
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    I think it has a lot to do with the relationship that is already established. I have friends that I flirt with hard....and they are good with it...but if they did not know me.....had I tried the same thing when we had only been friends a few days.....it would have been creepy.....

    Establishing rapport and trust first is important, IMHO.

    ^ This too.
  • JoyousRen
    JoyousRen Posts: 3,823 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I think this is the truth.

    I disagree, It's in the approach. I've had hot guys creep me the f**K out and not hot guys make me want to flirt back.
  • _binary_jester_
    _binary_jester_ Posts: 2,132 Member
    For me...HI! is regarded as creepy
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    WRONG! Carl... you're always so spot on!

    Hot guys can be the creepiest... IMO.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    For me...HI! is regarded as creepy
    If by creepy, you mean "now I want to lick the clown," then you are correct.
  • _HeathBar_
    _HeathBar_ Posts: 902 Member
    If you are ugly and/or a d-bag it's creepy.

    If you are hot and/or have a cool personality then let the flirting commence.
  • PghBAMF
    PghBAMF Posts: 22
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    WRONG! Carl... you're always so spot on!

    Hot guys can be the creepiest... IMO.

    anything past a 8.5 can turn creepy fast. right?
  • chocl8girl
    chocl8girl Posts: 1,968 Member
    Flirting - Telling her she's gorgeous.

    Creep - Telling her she's gorgeous with your junk in your hand.


    Pictures or it never happened.

    :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I'm a flirty hot creepy guy that doesn't use punctuation....that said if she's looking at my junk it's flirting
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    From my experience around other women, this is the major factor--if she's into you, it's flirting, if she's not, it's creepy. I'm not saying it's universal, but...
  • Carl01
    Carl01 Posts: 9,307 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    WRONG! Carl... you're always so spot on!

    Hot guys can be the creepiest... IMO.

    Just going with the odds in many cases.
    It does work both ways too.
  • kandyjo
    kandyjo Posts: 4,493 Member
    hard to say.... It's more of a "gut feeling" I get with someone as to whether I find them "creepy" or not...

    There has been something recently brought to my attention about MFP and relationships (from PM's, to texting to actually meeting someone in person) that have made me sit back and go, "WHOA"!!!!!! There are some extremely WHACKED people out there...
  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    I think this is the truth.

    Same thing when a woman is flirting with a man.
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    Flirting- Hey you are pretty awesome, can we be friends?

    Creeper- I like the way you look in those pants, wonder if you look any better out of them...will you add me?

    :huh:
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