The difference between "flirting" and "being creepy"

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  • Bluescat1
    Bluescat1 Posts: 207 Member
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    Let's ask Chris Hanson from Dateline.
  • torygirl79
    torygirl79 Posts: 307 Member
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    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    So true!
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
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    i think it's in the eyes. is he picturing me in his bed? or my head on his wall?
  • reaolliemama
    reaolliemama Posts: 489 Member
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    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    It's because parrots go around with their pecker showing all the time :wink:
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
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    I like the dirty,filthy,nasty girls. I don't mean the ones that don't shower or shave. I mean the ones that like to get down and nasty at the gym. You know the one you see stacking on weights for her compound movements who's not afraid of the Olympic bar. The girl who's wiping sweat off with the back of her hand. I'll flirt with that all day.
  • sisierra
    sisierra Posts: 707 Member
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    I think it has a lot to do with the relationship that is already established. I have friends that I flirt with hard....and they are good with it...but if they did not know me.....had I tried the same thing when we had only been friends a few days.....it would have been creepy.....

    Establishing rapport and trust first is important, IMHO.

    Exactly, you have to make sure they're comfortable and trust you first, then it's a lot more likely that they'll get into the van without a fight...i mean, what? yea, rapport. important *shifty eyes*
  • Beautiful_Ideal
    Beautiful_Ideal Posts: 69 Member
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    If the conversation starts with you looking anywhere but my face...creepy.
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,802 Member
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    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    It's because parrots go around with their pecker showing all the time :wink:


    :laugh:
  • stetienne
    stetienne Posts: 560 Member
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    You have a beautiful smile

    I want to lick your box (YES SOME GUY ACTUALLY SAID THIS TO ME)

    Yeah but what if he put one of those cute little smilies after it?
  • bigdawg025
    bigdawg025 Posts: 774 Member
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    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Gotta go with Carl on this one...
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
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    You're asking about interpretation...I think it comes down to your attitude at the moment and the size of the junk sent.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 2,073 Member
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    Gah, I am learning NOTHING from this thread. *kicks dirt*
  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
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    Pic of the top head - flirting
    pic of the bottom head - creepy

    Telling me I have a nice smile - flirting
    Telline me what you want to put in my mouth - creepy

    The list goes on....and yes, I have gotten these messages on MFP

    Really? wow, I've never had msgs like that or even HEARD of that happening. I'm sorry on behalf of the world. :noway:
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,802 Member
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    Gah, I am learning NOTHING from this thread. *kicks dirt*

    *hands you paper and pen* Take notes :ohwell:
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
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    Gah, I am learning NOTHING from this thread. *kicks dirt*

    Are you trying to learn creepy skills???
  • MeliciousGibson
    MeliciousGibson Posts: 300
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    I think it has a lot to do with the relationship that is already established. I have friends that I flirt with hard....and they are good with it...but if they did not know me.....had I tried the same thing when we had only been friends a few days.....it would have been creepy.....

    Establishing rapport and trust first is important, IMHO.

    Exactly, you have to make sure they're comfortable and trust you first, then it's a lot more likely that they'll get into the van without a fight...i mean, what? yea, rapport. important *shifty eyes*

    Look, had I known how much FUN we were going to have together I wouldn't have struggled. I calmed down after I regained consciousness and you explained to me how we were MEANT to be together. I mean, when you explained that you loved me so much that if YOU couldn't have me NOBODY could, I *GOT IT*, honey!
  • JoyousRen
    JoyousRen Posts: 3,823 Member
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    i think it's in the eyes. is he picturing me in his bed? or my head on his wall?
    :laugh: SO this!
  • roachhaley
    roachhaley Posts: 978 Member
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    Unsolicited messages saying things like "ur hot" or "do u have boob pix" is creepy. A compliment from someone I already know is not creepy.
  • mlewon
    mlewon Posts: 343 Member
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    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    hahahaha:laugh:
  • mississippi_queen
    mississippi_queen Posts: 483 Member
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    If it makes me smile... flirting.

    If it makes me cringe... creeping.

    I can't really break it down any better than that. Sorry.

    ^ this...... and please, please, please....... don't friend me just because you say "you're pic is hot"

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