The difference between "flirting" and "being creepy"

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  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    I love parrots. As long as they don't stand next to you and hump their perch the way my mother's parrot does. That's creepy!
  • Sidesteal
    Sidesteal Posts: 5,510 Member
    Flirting - Telling her she's gorgeous.

    Creep - Telling her she's gorgeous with your junk in your hand.

    ^ Win.

    LOL
  • angryguy77
    angryguy77 Posts: 836 Member
    Flirting- Hey you are pretty awesome, can we be friends?

    Creeper- I like the way you look in those pants, wonder if you look any better out of them...will you add me?

    :huh:

    Well...do you?


    Do I win?
  • StarvingDiva
    StarvingDiva Posts: 1,107 Member
    You have a beautiful smile

    I want to lick your box (YES SOME GUY ACTUALLY SAID THIS TO ME)
  • adet983
    adet983 Posts: 138
    flirting: saw ur post in a thread ur really funny



    creepy: nice tits wanna sext!
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  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Pretty much this
  • Il_DaniD_lI
    Il_DaniD_lI Posts: 1,593 Member
    hard to say.... It's more of a "gut feeling" I get with someone as to whether I find them "creepy" or not...

    yes, most women have a built in creep-o-meter. we just know.
  • becoming_a_new_me
    becoming_a_new_me Posts: 1,860 Member
    Pic of the top head - flirting
    pic of the bottom head - creepy

    Telling me I have a nice smile - flirting
    Telline me what you want to put in my mouth - creepy

    The list goes on....and yes, I have gotten these messages on MFP
  • adet983
    adet983 Posts: 138
    You have a beautiful smile

    I want to lick your box (YES SOME GUY ACTUALLY SAID THIS TO ME)




    that was between me and you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Bluescat1
    Bluescat1 Posts: 207 Member
    Let's ask Chris Hanson from Dateline.
  • torygirl79
    torygirl79 Posts: 307 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    So true!
  • maab_connor
    maab_connor Posts: 3,927 Member
    i think it's in the eyes. is he picturing me in his bed? or my head on his wall?
  • reaolliemama
    reaolliemama Posts: 483 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    It's because parrots go around with their pecker showing all the time :wink:
  • Scott613
    Scott613 Posts: 2,317 Member
    I like the dirty,filthy,nasty girls. I don't mean the ones that don't shower or shave. I mean the ones that like to get down and nasty at the gym. You know the one you see stacking on weights for her compound movements who's not afraid of the Olympic bar. The girl who's wiping sweat off with the back of her hand. I'll flirt with that all day.
  • sisierra
    sisierra Posts: 659 Member
    I think it has a lot to do with the relationship that is already established. I have friends that I flirt with hard....and they are good with it...but if they did not know me.....had I tried the same thing when we had only been friends a few days.....it would have been creepy.....

    Establishing rapport and trust first is important, IMHO.

    Exactly, you have to make sure they're comfortable and trust you first, then it's a lot more likely that they'll get into the van without a fight...i mean, what? yea, rapport. important *shifty eyes*
  • Beautiful_Ideal
    Beautiful_Ideal Posts: 69 Member
    If the conversation starts with you looking anywhere but my face...creepy.
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    It's because parrots go around with their pecker showing all the time :wink:


    :laugh:
  • stetienne
    stetienne Posts: 560 Member
    You have a beautiful smile

    I want to lick your box (YES SOME GUY ACTUALLY SAID THIS TO ME)

    Yeah but what if he put one of those cute little smilies after it?
  • bigdawg025
    bigdawg025 Posts: 774 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Gotta go with Carl on this one...
  • BigDaddyBRC
    BigDaddyBRC Posts: 2,395 Member
    You're asking about interpretation...I think it comes down to your attitude at the moment and the size of the junk sent.
  • sktllmdrhmz
    sktllmdrhmz Posts: 1,799 Member
    Gah, I am learning NOTHING from this thread. *kicks dirt*
  • Oliviamarie05
    Oliviamarie05 Posts: 528 Member
    Pic of the top head - flirting
    pic of the bottom head - creepy

    Telling me I have a nice smile - flirting
    Telline me what you want to put in my mouth - creepy

    The list goes on....and yes, I have gotten these messages on MFP

    Really? wow, I've never had msgs like that or even HEARD of that happening. I'm sorry on behalf of the world. :noway:
  • mommy2AR
    mommy2AR Posts: 2,796 Member
    Gah, I am learning NOTHING from this thread. *kicks dirt*

    *hands you paper and pen* Take notes :ohwell:
  • Daisy_Cutter
    Daisy_Cutter Posts: 774
    Gah, I am learning NOTHING from this thread. *kicks dirt*

    Are you trying to learn creepy skills???
  • MeliciousGibson
    MeliciousGibson Posts: 248 Member
    I think it has a lot to do with the relationship that is already established. I have friends that I flirt with hard....and they are good with it...but if they did not know me.....had I tried the same thing when we had only been friends a few days.....it would have been creepy.....

    Establishing rapport and trust first is important, IMHO.

    Exactly, you have to make sure they're comfortable and trust you first, then it's a lot more likely that they'll get into the van without a fight...i mean, what? yea, rapport. important *shifty eyes*

    Look, had I known how much FUN we were going to have together I wouldn't have struggled. I calmed down after I regained consciousness and you explained to me how we were MEANT to be together. I mean, when you explained that you loved me so much that if YOU couldn't have me NOBODY could, I *GOT IT*, honey!
  • JoyousRen
    JoyousRen Posts: 3,823 Member
    i think it's in the eyes. is he picturing me in his bed? or my head on his wall?
    :laugh: SO this!
  • roachhaley
    roachhaley Posts: 978 Member
    Unsolicited messages saying things like "ur hot" or "do u have boob pix" is creepy. A compliment from someone I already know is not creepy.
  • mlewon
    mlewon Posts: 343 Member
    If you are a HOT guy it is flirting.

    If not then it will likely be regarded as creepy.

    Truth. This is why I'm a creep. Girls don't like parrots. They tend to stick with their own species.

    hahahaha:laugh:
  • mississippi_queen
    mississippi_queen Posts: 474 Member
    If it makes me smile... flirting.

    If it makes me cringe... creeping.

    I can't really break it down any better than that. Sorry.

    ^ this...... and please, please, please....... don't friend me just because you say "you're pic is hot"