Random stuff that stops me getting fat... and makes you fat
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I get what you're trying to prove, but mostly you come off as a stereotypical jerk.
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Some of this advice is solid, but more of it elicits a big 'meh' from me. I've been successful, and my list would be really different than the OP's.0
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Piging out once a week as a treat - you will fail (calories)
Fast food makes you want more food (sugar)
You don't need to cut down on fast food (Burgers, Pizzas, fried food) you should NEVER eat them - people did just fine for millions of years without burgers
Thats right - look at fast food ads on the TV like they are asking you to lick the urinal at your local bar
Since the 70s people are fatter - back in those days you couldn't buy much fast food or food outside working hours - think about it!
When you see bad food, don't crave think to how sick and fatty you will feel after you have eaten it - I love battered fish and chips - never eat it because I think how greased up I will feel after
It is NOTexpensive to eat healthy
Muscle is more imortant than cardio - muscle eats fat for breakfast
You are not happy fat
Your metabolism is no slower than the next guys or gals
You never need to eat chocolate or crisps, etc.
Healthy people don't eat much (compared to you)
Fat people encourage people to be fat. Correct weight people are good to be around
Feel free to add......
Eating bad one day? Not gonna derail everything you did the other six. I promise.
Fast food? Nothing in it makes you crave more. There is no secret chemical to make us addicted. We want more sometimes because it tastes good. And it is ok to eat food we like to eat. Really really.
The only unhealthy food is one eaten in excess. Like something? Love something? Eat it. Just not as much as you used to.
Do I need to eat chocolate or chips? Nope. But I do. And I can.
Cardio? Yeah. Getting your heart and lungs and circulatory system healthy sucks. Good call.
Metabolism? Yup. They are all different. Sorry.
And you're right. Hanging around overweight people? Lame.
Healthy people don't eat much? Well, I'd say the healthiest people often eat more - it's a result of having to refuel after all that stupid cardio they do.
Sugar? Long as you don't have a medical reason to stay away or limit ... it isn't the devil. I don't even track it. I promise, sugar is fine. (So is sodium, by the way.)
HIGH FIVE. :flowerforyou:
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It also doesn't come as a surprise that it is often the larger person (judging from profile statistics) who doesn't like this kind of post. .
You took the time to look at who didnt like your jerkey tone, to see if they were large or not? Lame-o.0 -
The way I look at it - there are two sides to every argument, most will try to believe the one they have no control over. I can't change my lazy lifestyle that society has burdened me with. My portions are to big I can cut down... I don't want to believe that one
Not sure I get where you're coming from here. People need to control their energy balance. Whether or not that means increasing activity or reducing intake, both are cumulatively effecting them getting and staying fat. Both need to change.0 -
I don't think the whole lack of activity at the workplace is the reason for weight gain for everyone. In my case, it's actually been the exact opposite. Through college I was a waitress, constantly running around and on my feet, but because I was so exhausted from work (not to mention it was constantly aggravating a weight-lifting injury to my hip and not allowing it to heal), I never worked out. I just didn't have the energy at the end of the day. Sure, I was active at work, but my heartrate wasn't up enough to contribute to exercise. Added to the exhaustion was the fact that I was so hungry after work from running around all day, so I ate more.
Now I work in an office and I have the energy to work out 30 min-1 hour and sometimes more every day. I'm sedentary at work so I don't get as hungry and therefore don't eat as much. The new job doesn't aggravate my hip and yoga and pilates has downright healed it, so I can run and work my lower body again.
I think that's honestly the case with everything. Weight loss differs from person to person.0 -
So at first, I frankly was ticked off about this post and was tempted to reply in a pretty nasty way. the original poster really came off as a jerk in my opinion and I see from some of the comments, I was not alone in feeling this way.
Discretion got the better of me and I let it slide. Now that the thread has been revived, I thought I'd take the time to reply in a more thoughtful way to every point made by the OP:If you record calories you have to record everything including drinks... everything!You can't cheat calories - just the way you can't cheat your bank balance, consume to much you will end up brokePortion control - You are probably eating too much... way too much - get some scales and weigh things. You know when you finish your cereal and theres a bit left over at the end .. that's a full portion.Diets are designed not to be sustainable - this keeps the company in business. You have to make lifetime changesAll fad diets are calorie control and don't fix your eating issuesIf you are losing weight on a fad diet - it is working for you because it is controling your calories- there isn't some macro magic bulletYou can eat too little - It's a hard one to take in - but a biggie ... but dont use it as an excuse to eat too much.Piging out once a week as a treat - you will fail (calories)
My final word on this subject is actually the advice of one of the fittest people I know: One of my friends is a regular marathon and triathlon competitor that 6 years ago used to be 50 pounds overweight. He said having cheat meals once in a while helped him stay sane and without it, he never would have lost the weight to begin with. Since he's not only my friend, but my mentor and weight loss coach, I believe I'll follow his advice.Fast food makes you want more food (sugar)
You don't need to cut down on fast food (Burgers, Pizzas, fried food) you should NEVER eat them - people did just fine for millions of years without burgers
Thats right - look at fast food ads on the TV like they are asking you to lick the urinal at your local bar
This seems counter-intuitive to me on a couple of points. Don't get me wrong, I'm not advocating fast food, it generally has too many calories to fit in a weight loss plan. What confuses me is that the stuff I used to get at the fast food joints was not sugar laden, but fat laden. So if it's the sugar, you'd think all I need to do is avoid fruits and I'd be set, because they are generally tons higher in sugar than say, a hamburger. Also, as I mentioned before, eliminating certain categories of food never worked for me before and in my book avoiding food "A" in favor of food "B" is the definition of a "fad diet". You know, that thing that you raved before was so bad for us? Simply put, I subscribe to the "everything in moderation" idea. I don't think anything is inherently bad for me, but some things have to be a "once in a blue moon" thing, instead of an every day thing.Since the 70s people are fatter - back in those days you couldn't buy much fast food or food outside working hours - think about it!When you see bad food, don't crave think to how sick and fatty you will feel after you have eaten it - I love battered fish and chips - never eat it because I think how greased up I will feel afterIt is NOTexpensive to eat healthyMake food yourself from base ingriedients. Ready meals .. I refer you back to how to think about fast foodMuscle is more imortant than cardio - muscle eats fat for breakfastYou are not happy fatYour metabolism is no slower than the next guys or galsYou never need to eat chocolate or crisps, etc.There isn't a ripped muscly person underneath all your fat - muscle takes years to build, toned people aint lucky - they work their *kitten*' offLikewise if you are female do not be afraid of weight training - you are not going to turn into a hulk overnightIf you are still a bit saggy you aint lost enoughBMI is rubbish for many justifiable technical reasons - but in your case it's probably spot onSex is awesome when you aint fat.Healthy people don't eat much (compared to you)3 or 4 hours exercise a week makes a massive difference - Anyone can spare 3 or 4 hours a weekFat people encourage people to be fat. Correct weight people are good to be aroundFood does not make you happy or cure all your problems. Stop whining, we all have problems, sort out your problems directly - not with foodIf you have a positive relationship with food and work on it a lot you aren't obsessed - trust me to be fat, that is obsession
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It's quite interesting that of the negative posts, around half are just arbitrarily calling the OP a jerk for his tone (which I think ultimately reflects on those commenters for reading it that way. It was just a list and so not fluffed out with pretty words to make the sensitive amongst us feel better).
The other half seemed to disagree because they had misinterpreted the OP's point or were taking certain things totally literally.
Just to make a few points that seem to have been repeatedly misunderstood: (I am aware the OP has addressed some of these)
The section regarding diets - diet should refer to the whole gambit of what one eats. However, nowadays it refers to a set of rules given that you have to stick by. Calorie counting is not a 'diet'. It is a method for making you aware of what you eat and to enable you to make your own informed choices.
Anything that poses itself as a diet where you cut this out or cut that out, do this, do that...it is a calorie controlled diet in disguise. eg. Atkins has you cut out carbs. Well most food that has a high proportion of calories compared to how full it will make you tend to be high in carbs (pizza, burgers, doughnuts, etc).
"Fast food makes you want more (sugar)" - that is not that sugar makes you want more - it is that fast food makes you crave sugar.
Pigging out once a week refers to the point that if you are having to force yourself so hard not to eat, that you need that release to eat loads, then your mindset still needs some work and you will struggle until you sort that. Also, I think it is in the sense that people (I know people like this) tend to believe they have eaten well all week and so can have that curry with starter and sides and a few beers and pudding on the weekend. Not realising that not only have they just negated and deficit, but they have actually swung the balance the other way.
I think people are reading too much into the line about people doing fine without burgers for millions of years; saying that burgers can be healthy. Well this is true - but if you have to argue the minutiae of a point then your argument is lacking. 'Burgers' is meant to represent junk food in general.
Some people commenting that the OP is being too harsh if they deny themselves the fish and chips that they crave - totally missing the point. The point is that the OP doesn't think how nice they taste, but instead the fact that afterwards his mouth will feel full of grease. Therefore there is no denial, it is just food he doesn't want.
Healthy food - people countering with the prices of organic food. Organic isn't the only way to go healthy (in fact there are arguments that organic might actually be less healthy but that is for another time). I buy massive 200g chicken breasts for £1.10 each from my local farm shop. They aren't pumped with water or anything else and they work out at about 3 times the value of my local supermarket. Shop around people. I love the post about growing your own veg - I know you can't get cheaper than free!
Lumping arguments about weights/cardio/metabolism into one... Metabolisms are virtually the same person to person. Some people have illness, we all know this, but most people don't. Sure they are different person to person - but not by the sort of degree that people like to pretend. As you get more muscle, your body needs more energy to keep going, therefore you have to eat more. These are the things that change your metabolism in the 99%, not unlucky genes. Doing cardio is great for improving your cardio and no doubting it helps towards fat loss, but weights is much better for fat loss and also body shaping. No doubt that some people won't want the body that weights will give them, and that's fine, but I think people aren't aware of what lifting heavy weights is capable of in terms or body re-composition and shaping.
"If you are still a bit saggy you aint lost enough" - This is one of the unfortunate side effects of having been fat. Your skin is now stretched and therefore looser, so it takes less weight of fat to drag it down and make it look droopy. This means that you will have to be at a lower fat %age than that of someone who has never been fat in order to get rid of that saggy skin. But rest assured that it will go away, it just takes time and hard work.
BMI gets a hard rap. Now we all know that it is crap. There are people who are clearly in shape that are classified as unhealthy by BMI standards and it doesn't test general health. However, for most of the population it is correct. The point is - if you are the sort of person that is an anomaly then you probably don't need to be worrying about BMI. Unless you are physically fit BMI is probably a good reference.
Everyone has a story about their skinny friend who eats whatever they wants and never gains a pound. Well the fact is they don't eat as much as you think. I know this because I used to be that skinny guy. Everyone remembered the times I had a cheeseburger and chips as a starter to my 12" pizza. No one knew about the evenings I would go without a meal or even the entire weekends with only a couple of slices of toast. When I started logging years ago - guess what, sub 2000 cals a day average.
One last thing - I'm pretty sure when he said "feel free to add" he was referring to points to the list, not fishing for friend requests .0 -
I agree with most of these.
However, muscle doesn't burn that many calories at rest, and cardio burns far more calories than strength training or a muscled person resting.
Also, metabolisms have a significant and thus far unaccounted for variance. Organs account for most of RMR, and non-organ lean mass and fat mass account for another small chunk, but there is a good bit of variance remaining that isn't explained yet.
This is why you are on my friends list0 -
It's quite interesting that of the negative posts, around half are just arbitrarily calling the OP a jerk for his tone (which I think ultimately reflects on those commenters for reading it that way. It was just a list and so not fluffed out with pretty words to make the sensitive amongst us feel better).
The other half seemed to disagree because they had misinterpreted the OP's point or were taking certain things totally literally.
Just to make a few points that seem to have been repeatedly misunderstood: (I am aware the OP has addressed some of these)
The section regarding diets - diet should refer to the whole gambit of what one eats. However, nowadays it refers to a set of rules given that you have to stick by. Calorie counting is not a 'diet'. It is a method for making you aware of what you eat and to enable you to make your own informed choices.
Anything that poses itself as a diet where you cut this out or cut that out, do this, do that...it is a calorie controlled diet in disguise. eg. Atkins has you cut out carbs. Well most food that has a high proportion of calories compared to how full it will make you tend to be high in carbs (pizza, burgers, doughnuts, etc).
"Fast food makes you want more (sugar)" - that is not that sugar makes you want more - it is that fast food makes you crave sugar.
Pigging out once a week refers to the point that if you are having to force yourself so hard not to eat, that you need that release to eat loads, then your mindset still needs some work and you will struggle until you sort that. Also, I think it is in the sense that people (I know people like this) tend to believe they have eaten well all week and so can have that curry with starter and sides and a few beers and pudding on the weekend. Not realising that not only have they just negated and deficit, but they have actually swung the balance the other way.
I think people are reading too much into the line about people doing fine without burgers for millions of years; saying that burgers can be healthy. Well this is true - but if you have to argue the minutiae of a point then your argument is lacking. 'Burgers' is meant to represent junk food in general.
Some people commenting that the OP is being too harsh if they deny themselves the fish and chips that they crave - totally missing the point. The point is that the OP doesn't think how nice they taste, but instead the fact that afterwards his mouth will feel full of grease. Therefore there is no denial, it is just food he doesn't want.
Healthy food - people countering with the prices of organic food. Organic isn't the only way to go healthy (in fact there are arguments that organic might actually be less healthy but that is for another time). I buy massive 200g chicken breasts for £1.10 each from my local farm shop. They aren't pumped with water or anything else and they work out at about 3 times the value of my local supermarket. Shop around people. I love the post about growing your own veg - I know you can't get cheaper than free!
Lumping arguments about weights/cardio/metabolism into one... Metabolisms are virtually the same person to person. Some people have illness, we all know this, but most people don't. Sure they are different person to person - but not by the sort of degree that people like to pretend. As you get more muscle, your body needs more energy to keep going, therefore you have to eat more. These are the things that change your metabolism in the 99%, not unlucky genes. Doing cardio is great for improving your cardio and no doubting it helps towards fat loss, but weights is much better for fat loss and also body shaping. No doubt that some people won't want the body that weights will give them, and that's fine, but I think people aren't aware of what lifting heavy weights is capable of in terms or body re-composition and shaping.
"If you are still a bit saggy you aint lost enough" - This is one of the unfortunate side effects of having been fat. Your skin is now stretched and therefore looser, so it takes less weight of fat to drag it down and make it look droopy. This means that you will have to be at a lower fat %age than that of someone who has never been fat in order to get rid of that saggy skin. But rest assured that it will go away, it just takes time and hard work.
BMI gets a hard rap. Now we all know that it is crap. There are people who are clearly in shape that are classified as unhealthy by BMI standards and it doesn't test general health. However, for most of the population it is correct. The point is - if you are the sort of person that is an anomaly then you probably don't need to be worrying about BMI. Unless you are physically fit BMI is probably a good reference.
Everyone has a story about their skinny friend who eats whatever they wants and never gains a pound. Well the fact is they don't eat as much as you think. I know this because I used to be that skinny guy. Everyone remembered the times I had a cheeseburger and chips as a starter to my 12" pizza. No one knew about the evenings I would go without a meal or even the entire weekends with only a couple of slices of toast. When I started logging years ago - guess what, sub 2000 cals a day average.
One last thing - I'm pretty sure when he said "feel free to add" he was referring to points to the list, not fishing for friend requests .
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I agree with all except that I don't need chocolate. I am woman, chocolate is necessity! lol
Bull. S**t.
Please dont lump all women into the sad 'oh my god Im a woman, I MUST have chocolate, chocolate was DESIGNED for woman, we bleed from our vaginas, we NEEEEEEED it.
Chocolate is not a necessity. I sound like a total cowbag, but so be it. Hate the 'woman must have chocolate' attitude.0 -
I think the point about fat people making their friends fatter is a very valid one. There have been several studies showing this exact phenomenon.
Likewise, how many times do we all get told "Go, on, treat yourself, you deserve it." Most people hear this all the time. I hear it said nearly every day. And it's nearly always from larger people. My thin friends don't go round pushing cake on each other. In fact most of us don't eat cake at all. I think a huge amount of weight issues and debt issues for that matter, are as a result of this very prevalent attitude of feeling like you deserve a treat, and then another the next day...and another etc. I absolutely resent that sentiment. You deserve to be healthy.0 -
I agree with all except that I don't need chocolate. I am woman, chocolate is necessity! lol
Bull. S**t.
Please dont lump all women into the sad 'oh my god Im a woman, I MUST have chocolate, chocolate was DESIGNED for woman, we bleed from our vaginas, we NEEEEEEED it.
Chocolate is not a necessity. I sound like a total cowbag, but so be it. Hate the 'woman must have chocolate' attitude.
ME TOO! I don't like chocolate, I didn't eat it for 2 years once, not intentionally, I just wasn't interested. My husband eats 4 times as much of it as I do. In fact, all the men in my family eat far more chocolate than any of the women.0 -
Some of your post is common sense, others you just come off as a complete *kitten*.
Cheating once and a while isn't bad. But it seems as if you're perfect, so you probably never go over.
I have switched to mostly cardio, with some weight training and you know what, I am seeing someone with muscles underneath all of my weight. Guess all those years of sports did help something. Cardio is just as, if not more, important.
^^To add to this, when all the face eating zombies attack, I'll be a couple miles ahead of you. You will be their breakfast^^
Sometimes I don't have time to make all of my meals, although most of the time I do, but hey,. I still do fine! =-D
My metabolism is different than that 120lb girl that sits next to me at work. I really doubt that she burns as much as me just living. It takes a lot to keep this 6'2" 195lb train running.
You never need to eat chips, chocolate, etc. No, nor do you need to go on vacations, that's time you could be making more money instead. You take a little time off from life too, so it's not different if you think about it.
Sex is awesome when you aint fat. ...? I bet fat people enjoy it too.
Healthy people don't eat much (compared to you)...You are quick to generalize a group of readers. Poor writing style, not that you seem to care. ^_^
I'll stop there. =D0 -
Good read for a Monday morning - Thanks!0
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Great post
Thanks!
There's a poster above who has made some of the mistakes I've mentioned though.
Should have a read through my above post dude...0 -
Actually MOST people do have the same metabolisms. I think we could probably frame this one as the all time number one excuse !?
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Agree and Disagree. Here is where I disagree: There are medical conditions that slow the metabolism. I was a thin person my whole life and really did not work out that much. Suddenly there was a point I started putting on weight without any changes in my life style. I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism. Here is where I do agree: Looking back now I can see that I used that diagnosis as my excuse. I did not work out. I did not eat right because in my head I had an excuse to be fat. (This is just me not talking about anyone else with this problem) When the light bulb finally came on I realized that I had been using it as an excuse. Did that make my slower metabolism go away? No. But it did mean that I had to watch every ounce of food I put into my mouth and it did mean that I have to work out harder and longer than people that do not have my problem. When I accepted that. When I came to terms with that. I began to lose weight. I don't think you are a jerk. I think sometimes when you have lost weight you just want to shout to the world that there is no easy fix. It's hard work.
Since I started losing weight I have found that people ask me a lot. "How did you do it?" You can see it in their face that they are waiting for me to tell them the "Secret". When I say "Watch what I eat and work out hard 6 days a week". You see their face change instantly. People don't want to hear the truth. There is no magic. It's hard work.0 -
Actually MOST people do have the same metabolisms. I think we could probably frame this one as the all time number one excuse !?
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Agree and Disagree. Here is where I disagree: There are medical conditions that slow the metabolism. I was a thin person my whole life and really did not work out that much. Suddenly there was a point I started putting on weight without any changes in my life style. I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism. Here is where I do agree: Looking back now I can see that I used that diagnosis as my excuse. I did not work out. I did not eat right because in my head I had an excuse to be fat. (This is just me not talking about anyone else with this problem) When the light bulb finally came on I realized that I had been using it as an excuse. Did that make my slower metabolism go away? No. But it did mean that I had to watch every ounce of food I put into my mouth and it did mean that I have to work out harder and longer than people that do not have my problem. When I accepted that. When I came to terms with that. I began to lose weight. I don't think you are a jerk. I think sometimes when you have lost weight you just want to shout to the world that there is no easy fix. It's hard work.
Since I started losing weight I have found that people ask me a lot. "How did you do it?" You can see it in their face that they are waiting for me to tell them the "Secret". When I say "Watch what I eat and work out hard 6 days a week". You see their face change instantly. People don't want to hear the truth. There is no magic. It's hard work.
I think that is the point of the comment though - there are people who genuinely have conditions but that gets brought up time and time again when the reality is, most people don't have problems, and most people's metabolisms are comparable.
Of course at 6ft and pushing 200lbs, mine will be different to a 5ft 110lb girl, but they are still comparable based on size/weight/composition/gender.
Oh and there is evidence to suggest that those with naturally higher metabolisms comes down to things like they fidget more, therefore they are more active.0 -
Actually MOST people do have the same metabolisms. I think we could probably frame this one as the all time number one excuse !?
^^^
Agree and Disagree. Here is where I disagree: There are medical conditions that slow the metabolism. I was a thin person my whole life and really did not work out that much. Suddenly there was a point I started putting on weight without any changes in my life style. I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism. Here is where I do agree: Looking back now I can see that I used that diagnosis as my excuse. I did not work out. I did not eat right because in my head I had an excuse to be fat. (This is just me not talking about anyone else with this problem) When the light bulb finally came on I realized that I had been using it as an excuse. Did that make my slower metabolism go away? No. But it did mean that I had to watch every ounce of food I put into my mouth and it did mean that I have to work out harder and longer than people that do not have my problem. When I accepted that. When I came to terms with that. I began to lose weight. I don't think you are a jerk. I think sometimes when you have lost weight you just want to shout to the world that there is no easy fix. It's hard work.
Since I started losing weight I have found that people ask me a lot. "How did you do it?" You can see it in their face that they are waiting for me to tell them the "Secret". When I say "Watch what I eat and work out hard 6 days a week". You see their face change instantly. People don't want to hear the truth. There is no magic. It's hard work.
I think that is the point of the comment though - there are people who genuinely have conditions but that gets brought up time and time again when the reality is, most people don't have problems, and most people's metabolisms are comparable.
Of course at 6ft and pushing 200lbs, mine will be different to a 5ft 110lb girl, but they are still comparable based on size/weight/composition/gender.
Oh and there is evidence to suggest that those with naturally higher metabolisms comes down to things like they fidget more, therefore they are more active.
I think we agree. I was just saying that my condition means I have to fidgit more. LOL!0 -
Actually MOST people do have the same metabolisms. I think we could probably frame this one as the all time number one excuse !?
^^^
Agree and Disagree. Here is where I disagree: There are medical conditions that slow the metabolism. I was a thin person my whole life and really did not work out that much. Suddenly there was a point I started putting on weight without any changes in my life style. I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism. Here is where I do agree: Looking back now I can see that I used that diagnosis as my excuse. I did not work out. I did not eat right because in my head I had an excuse to be fat. (This is just me not talking about anyone else with this problem) When the light bulb finally came on I realized that I had been using it as an excuse. Did that make my slower metabolism go away? No. But it did mean that I had to watch every ounce of food I put into my mouth and it did mean that I have to work out harder and longer than people that do not have my problem. When I accepted that. When I came to terms with that. I began to lose weight. I don't think you are a jerk. I think sometimes when you have lost weight you just want to shout to the world that there is no easy fix. It's hard work.
Since I started losing weight I have found that people ask me a lot. "How did you do it?" You can see it in their face that they are waiting for me to tell them the "Secret". When I say "Watch what I eat and work out hard 6 days a week". You see their face change instantly. People don't want to hear the truth. There is no magic. It's hard work.
I think that is the point of the comment though - there are people who genuinely have conditions but that gets brought up time and time again when the reality is, most people don't have problems, and most people's metabolisms are comparable.
Of course at 6ft and pushing 200lbs, mine will be different to a 5ft 110lb girl, but they are still comparable based on size/weight/composition/gender.
Oh and there is evidence to suggest that those with naturally higher metabolisms comes down to things like they fidget more, therefore they are more active.
I think we agree. I was just saying that my condition means I have to fidgit more. LOL!
Lol i think so too.
just put some music on and your legs will go mental lol0 -
Actually MOST people do have the same metabolisms. I think we could probably frame this one as the all time number one excuse !?
^^^
Agree and Disagree. Here is where I disagree: There are medical conditions that slow the metabolism. I was a thin person my whole life and really did not work out that much. Suddenly there was a point I started putting on weight without any changes in my life style. I was diagnosed with hypothyroidism. Here is where I do agree: Looking back now I can see that I used that diagnosis as my excuse. I did not work out. I did not eat right because in my head I had an excuse to be fat. (This is just me not talking about anyone else with this problem) When the light bulb finally came on I realized that I had been using it as an excuse. Did that make my slower metabolism go away? No. But it did mean that I had to watch every ounce of food I put into my mouth and it did mean that I have to work out harder and longer than people that do not have my problem. When I accepted that. When I came to terms with that. I began to lose weight. I don't think you are a jerk. I think sometimes when you have lost weight you just want to shout to the world that there is no easy fix. It's hard work.
Since I started losing weight I have found that people ask me a lot. "How did you do it?" You can see it in their face that they are waiting for me to tell them the "Secret". When I say "Watch what I eat and work out hard 6 days a week". You see their face change instantly. People don't want to hear the truth. There is no magic. It's hard work.
I think that is the point of the comment though - there are people who genuinely have conditions but that gets brought up time and time again when the reality is, most people don't have problems, and most people's metabolisms are comparable.
Of course at 6ft and pushing 200lbs, mine will be different to a 5ft 110lb girl, but they are still comparable based on size/weight/composition/gender.
Oh and there is evidence to suggest that those with naturally higher metabolisms comes down to things like they fidget more, therefore they are more active.
I think we agree. I was just saying that my condition means I have to fidgit more. LOL!
Lol i think so too.
just put some music on and your legs will go mental lol
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Love this post. It's a little splash of water in the face to many individuals whom lie to themselves every day and I can understand why they look the way they do!0
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Very true about how much people eat. People always tell me I eat almost nothing. I eat exactly the amount humans are meant to eat.
Great line, and so true....also good 4 u OP
????????????Healthy people don't eat much (compared to you)
3 or 4 hours exercise a week makes a massive difference - Anyone can spare 3 or 4 hours a week
Fat people encourage people to be fat. Correct weight people are good to be around ????????????
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Fat people encourage people to be fat. Correct weight people are good to be around
I dont agree with this comment - my friends are still the same people whether they are over weight or not - people with caring fun personalities are good to be around, I dont judge others worthiness to be around me on their size.0 -
Sometimes getting off your *kitten* is the hardest thing to do. Take a walk outside, do some jumping jacks, dance to some music in your kitchen, just do something physical every hour. And don't forget to get your real workout in.
I used to do my workouts in the evening but I'd find excuses for being too tired so I started waking up at 5am and going first thing in the morning... haven't missed a workout yet!
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I absolutely love this!! Fantastic!!!0
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