Dating site or Fitness site?

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  • calvert6183
    calvert6183 Posts: 539 Member
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    Thank goodness no one wants to see me nude. lol
  • Verity1111
    Verity1111 Posts: 3,309 Member
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    The nature of the site and its' focus - improving our bodies, confidence etc - leads to people becoming quite involved, personal and even intimate in some cases. It's not a bad thing in my opinion that the community is so open, relaxed and honest.

    However, asking for nudes is Category A: Weird.
    Yep. Different if it is by accident because of a connection, as opposed to just writing random people asking for nudes.
  • Verity1111
    Verity1111 Posts: 3,309 Member
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    not to be rude...but most of your pics involve a lack of clothing...ever think that you could be sending guys the wrong message. Think like a dude for a second....and realize that while you are probably intending to show progress/etc... all they see is 'scantily clad girl'

    Wait, so you're telling me that men belonging to a FITNESS site can't possibly see a women on the same FITNESS site in WORKOUT clothes and think anything aside from "SHE SHOULD SHOW ME HER BOOBS, LET ME ASK!".

    Please. Just because she has a nice body and is showing it in pretty modest workout clothes doesn't mean she's sending ANY message aside from "I take care of and am proud of my body". Think like a man my rear-- maybe think like a total creep.

    so are you saying that men on a fitness site think differently than other guys? are they a special new breed? I'm sorry, but the majority of guys I know (no offense guys) see a girl in a bra and think "oooh boobs"

    I have no problem with progress pictures...and the message that you're indicating is what I'm seeing.... So before you chastize me anymore, realize that I was simply presenting a different perspective.
    We obviously hang around a different breed of men because the guys I know don't do that..That is also like saying if women see a man with his shirt off they all think "Oh a man with his shirt off". Sorry, but I don't, ever. I'm married and I only see my husband that way and vice verca. My husband is more strict about that than I am and worries that I may look at someone else sexually, which is against our beliefs and feelings. My two closest male friends fell for someone and both came to me and said they totally understand what I mean now because they don't even think of looking around and are only attracted to their girl. Etc. Not every person on this earth is a *kitten*, in their body or mind..to look at someone and see nothing but sexual images. There is a lot more to people.
  • Verity1111
    Verity1111 Posts: 3,309 Member
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    Thank goodness no one wants to see me nude. lol
    lol! That possibly made my day.
  • Verity1111
    Verity1111 Posts: 3,309 Member
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    Desperate, lonely people seeking here what they can't get in real life.
    Pity them and move on.
    And if some creep is asking for nudes, report him and make sure to shame him publicly on your news feed.
    Yep.
  • Verity1111
    Verity1111 Posts: 3,309 Member
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    not to be rude...but most of your pics involve a lack of clothing...ever think that you could be sending guys the wrong message. Think like a dude for a second....and realize that while you are probably intending to show progress/etc... all they see is 'scantily clad girl'

    This is a good point. I'm also not sure who is asking her for nudies, since, I am active in the forums, and my profile pic shows me with a *stripper pole* and the only request for a photo I've ever gotten from a guy asked if I could post a pic of me doing the "human flag" (which can be done completely clothed and is a classic show of strength).
    It is probably the shape she is in....not the position she's in or the clothes or the lack of a pole....
  • Kitten2629
    Kitten2629 Posts: 1,358 Member
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    I personally could care less what photos people post.. how they chose to post..or what they chose to post on. Basically their photo's, or post do not deter me from what I am here to accomplish. I view everything as all in good fun. I do not stalk, or read more into what they are posting. While in the forums I hardly even pay attention to what peoples pictures are..
  • WickedBean
    WickedBean Posts: 244 Member
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    I do not and will never see how someone in a bra and panties is more offensive than someone in bikini. T-shirts & shorts and spandex do show results, but they do not allow you to show people your actual progress shedding belly fat - its hard to see shape changes etc in clothes...

    I really think people get way to but hurt over these things - seriously way way too butt hurt.

    infact the other day I posted a picture of my butt, as my profile picture and it was removed - I did not receive a warning or anything but it was removed... I was wearing the bottoms to my bathing suit... a bathing suit that I could not wear 2 months ago.. and I was damn proud of the progress I had made. but someone in the forums obviously got upset and reported the picture. I think that being as we are all adults and there are no blatant porn shots it really shouldn't matter how we choose to show our progress.
  • Kitten2629
    Kitten2629 Posts: 1,358 Member
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    I do not and will never see how someone in a bra and panties is more offensive than someone in bikini. T-shirts & shorts and spandex do show results, but they do not allow you to show people your actual progress shedding belly fat - its hard to see shape changes etc in clothes...

    I really think people get way to but hurt over these things - seriously way way too butt hurt.

    infact the other day I posted a picture of my butt, as my profile picture and it was removed - I did not receive a warning or anything but it was removed... I was wearing the bottoms to my bathing suit... a bathing suit that I could not wear 2 months ago.. and I was damn proud of the progress I had made. but someone in the forums obviously got upset and reported the picture. I think that being as we are all adults and there are no blatant porn shots it really shouldn't matter how we choose to show our progress.

    It shouldn't matter. People have to much time on their hands.. Pictures are just a small little thing next to the post. Post are usually twice as big as the picture.. Be proud of what you accomplished!
  • Ant_the_old_keith_lemon
    Ant_the_old_keith_lemon Posts: 272 Member
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    My best mate and his wife to be met on a retro car forum, much like this. lived 500 miles apart, now together - plan fo wedding in progress.

    so it can be what ever you want it to be, if its a personality thing where two people get on it could well be a dating site....

    i think we all should burn the "in your face pervs" like they used to do witches... hang about now witches are socially acceptable - emo, alt, piercied etc etc....

    ignore the bad and embrace the good.

    how about a name a shame thread for pervs? lmao
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
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    IN for shenanigans.
  • Melissa22G
    Melissa22G Posts: 847 Member
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    IN for shenanigans.

    Wanna date?
  • _crafty_
    _crafty_ Posts: 1,682 Member
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    IN for shenanigans.

    Wanna date?

    sammich?
  • jackpotclown
    jackpotclown Posts: 3,291 Member
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    10/10 WB \m/
  • ryry_
    ryry_ Posts: 4,966 Member
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    This site generally comes across as a fitness site or an intro to bdsm site

    I'm pretty sure if you try to go to myfetishpal.com you get re routed here
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
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    IN for shenanigans.

    hail to the grave digger
  • Mia_RagazzaTosta
    Mia_RagazzaTosta Posts: 4,885 Member
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    Ohai!
  • silvergurl518
    silvergurl518 Posts: 4,123 Member
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    IN for shenanigans.

    hail to the grave digger

    boil and boil, toil and trouble. it's halloween week ;)
  • BrotherBill913
    BrotherBill913 Posts: 661 Member
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    I hadn't been on here a while but last I checked, this was My Fitness Pal, not Plenty of Fish. So why are guys asking me for nudies and girls posting their boobs as their profile pix?? lol

    And just where would one find these " boobie pix" In the name of science, of course :smile: ::glasses:
  • heylookitsval
    heylookitsval Posts: 1,141 Member
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    My name is Valerie...I like long walks on the beach, protein, going to the gym, and holding hands under the stars...

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