Relationship advice

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  • daniellegastineau
    daniellegastineau Posts: 8
    Im gonna go with...

    KICK HIM TO THE CURB! THAT BOY IS NOT GOING TO COMMIT!

    So sorry girl! That sucks :(
  • Pfeiffer24
    Pfeiffer24 Posts: 106 Member
    I dont know if u will read this but just think of it this way... would u treat(nag) at a stranger the way u treat your bf?... we get so comfortable that we forget how to interact with each other....
  • charelg
    charelg Posts: 599 Member
    Lol, I agree, no relationship advice on m f p! Fitness advice, maybe...
  • _Bob_
    _Bob_ Posts: 1,487 Member
    not sure if my advise is the best. I was married 3 moths after meeting my wife. been married for 12 years. I would never move in with someone i wouldn't marry
  • Jani2416
    Jani2416 Posts: 275 Member
    Tough one. I've been there, but I was the one that was not rushing to get married. We finally did it when our son was almost 4. The only advice I can give is make sure you guys are on the same page because it can cause issues later down the road. Best of luck :)
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    I have been married 13 years, and we lived together a year first. I was just as ornery then, as I am now =) He loves me regardless. You are super cute, and of course you aren't perfect, no one is!! You should stop wasting any more years with him, and find someone who you love that wants to marry you, personality flaws and all. JMO ;)
  • gonnabethinandfit
    gonnabethinandfit Posts: 38 Member
    I don't know much about relationships but it sounds to me like you should wait for somebody who would still walk down the aisle with you no matter your mood.. somebody who accepts you 100%. Just my two cents.
  • charelg
    charelg Posts: 599 Member
    I pretty much agree to the last two posts, but idk if I'd rush down the aisle with me issues..but I definitely am reaching my end....
  • EDesq
    EDesq Posts: 1,527 Member
    I have been with the same guy for almost four years, and living together for one. I am ready to get married and have a child ( I'm divorced with a five yr old)...he knows how I feel, but says he doesnt want a time clock, and until I'm nicer there's no way hes rushing down the aisle. I understand but I don't want to be spinning my wheels forever. And I hardly think four years is rushing..when is it time for an ultimatum, or is that a bad idea?? Thoughts, appreciated :)


    For Get About it! He has already said "You are NOT Nice!" You are ok to Live with right now, but do "I" want to commit to this woman for My whole life? NOPE! Look, You are who You are, if he does not think you are "nice" or whatever...if you can't change for him and you are not married, HE KNOWS you are NOT changing.

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