Ladies, how long do you make him wait?

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juliecat1

3 date rule. Duh.

bluegrasschica

Probably like 5. :laugh:

4x4play

Do people still date?? I'm confused!

IamSheaMc

When an exclusive relationship has been established. No tapping before committment!

Sissy4EverX3

Not necessarily. I met a guy back in February. Took him home with me that night, but NOTHING HAPPENED. We stuck together like glue the next day and *that* night was when the world rocked. We were together 3 months, until I got tired of being treated like his servant and walked away without so much as a "See Ya, Kiss my *kitten*".. which sucks, because I was out $500.. but well worth it.


...damn this made me sound like I'm an easy tramp. :grumble: Point is, I let him tap it when I feel comfortable with the connection.. or I make the first move.

YaBoiMUGS

3 date rule. Duh.

A lot of women follow this. Luckily for me, tonight is date #3

yoovie

tbh, depends on how bad I want him, how much chemistry is there immediately and how good the timing is. Ive made a guy wait 3 months and there was another guy who I kissed for the first time and then shortly afterwards... slept with for the first time - cause, well, there was just no stopping it.

PrncessBre

When an exclusive relationship has been established. No tapping before committment!

Exactly this!!!!

jkandktmom

I have a 5 date rule!

littlepinkhearts

case by case basis

Jbjessi

I make my husband wait all of 5 minutes. lol. but thats just me

YaBoiMUGS

tbh, depends on how bad I want him, how much chemistry is there immediately and how good the timing is. Ive made a guy wait 3 months and there was another guy who I kissed for the first time and then shortly afterwards... slept with for the first time - cause, well, there was just no stopping it.

:noway: 3 months?!?!

HellsKells

case by case basis

This for me too. I don't have a "rule" per se.

shaynak112

A couple dates? But that was only cuz I was getting out of a relationship at that time.
It depends on the guy, the situation, etc.

yoovie

no tapping before commitment?

there's no way I would commit to a man without knowing his tappin skills....well.

akaOtherWise

3 date rule. Duh.

A lot of women follow this. Luckily for me, tonight is date #3

Good luck, op!

HellsKells

no tapping before commitment?

there's no way I would commit to a man without knowing his tappin skills....well.

amen :laugh:

76tech

Man, if she doesn't let me smash that before the third date, I'm outta there. I mean, I'm sort of old fashioned, so there's got to be a classy meal and clean(ish) sheets before I bring her home and get a good drilling in, but a guy's got to do what a guy's got to do.

*snort*

ok. sarcasm off. what was the question again?

SammyW89

I slept with the last guy i dated on the first date and we're still together 2+ yrs later...

It felt right at the time, i don't think it matters about time its about whether it feels right or not...


ps.we were friends before the alcohol fuelled night that changed everything

lavieboheme1229

My boyfriend and I waited 8 months... still together and incredibly happy 5.5 years later.

First and only.

Steve_Runs

i'm a rule breaker!

freezee2010

3-6 months

JDMPWR

The last guy I went out with let me tap it that night.......Dam was it worth it.

Twilightsunflower

i never made them wait....


my hub made me wait till we got married though

oregonzoo

My fiance and I it was 5 months we were "dating" online before we met. So 5 months.

sevsmom

My Husband waited 8 months and 23 days. . . and one ceremony with ring!

It was excruciating, but worth it!!!

Wouldn't have had it any other way.

Candi8099

i'm a rule breaker!

^THIS^

I'm engaged to my one night stand! He had to go & mess things up by proposing on our 3 year anniversary this year!!

YaBoiMUGS

I'm sorry, but where are you finding these guys who wait for months?

Yeah, I know the cliche, a good guy is one who is willing to wait, but a real man is good enough to get in there a lot quicker.

KickassAugust

Man, if she doesn't let me smash that before the third date, I'm outta there. I mean, I'm sort of old fashioned, so there's got to be a classy meal and clean(ish) sheets before I bring her home and get a good drilling in, but a guy's got to do what a guy's got to do.

*snort*

ok. sarcasm off. what was the question again?

:mad: I'm so offended by this.. :explode:


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lindsy721

For my husband, it cost 16 diamonds and the rest of his life. :-D
(there are 3 diamonds in my engagement ring and 13 small diamonds in the wedding band)

We saved sex for marriage We started dating when we were freshmen in college (I was 18), got married the summer we graduated (age 22). And have been happily married for 5 years, with many more to come :-D And as much unlimited, on-demand sex as he (or I!!) wants :-D

I'm with you, sevsmom!! Excruciating, but worth waiting for!!