Ladies, how long do you make him wait?
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Depends how horny I am, and how hot he is. Just saying. I try 3 dates if I am interested in dating the guy, but if by the end of the first date I know its not going any farther but he is still hot I will go for it. This makes me sound trampy, but its just how I am.0
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Do people still date?? I'm confused!
swear I was thinking the same thing...
My answer is...until I'm ready. However long or short that may be...0 -
My husband had to wait 2 years!
...but we were 15 when we started dating. :laugh:0 -
On average, how many dates before you let him tap that?
Marriage. Haha0 -
I "taped" my now husband after a week... in a truck... in a school parking lot.:laugh:
Mmm, so classy.0 -
My hubs n I knew each other for like 2 weeks, started dating right after the drunken deed. Lol0
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Weird. I'm married to a man who I "let tap that" prior to dating.
I don't really want to get to know someone who can't lay the pipe. Plus, people aren't very -real- when they're focused on the bits they can't have.
I agree with this!0 -
For my husband, it cost 16 diamonds and the rest of his life. :-D
(there are 3 diamonds in my engagement ring and 13 small diamonds in the wedding band)
We saved sex for marriage
We started dating when we were freshmen in college (I was 18), got married the summer we graduated (age 22). And have been happily married for 5 years, with many more to come :-D And as much unlimited, on-demand sex as he (or I!!) wants :-D
I'm with you, sevsmom!! Excruciating, but worth waiting for!!
Mine too girl! Ya'll are right - it is worth the wait. My husband always says 'Married sex is AWESOME!' I wouldn't have had it any other way!
The problem with "married sex is awesome" is that you have no idea what other sex is like. You could think sex is awesome with your first partner, only to realize that other people make it MUCH, MUCH better.
I'm thankfully I'm spending the rest of my life with my current partner who is amazing on every level, and not the first few who were horrible in bed.
On the other hand, if they were both virgins and had never experienced other partners, they won't know what other sex is like anyway. Therefore, they can be perfectly content with their married sex because they are not comparing their partner's abilities to that of others.0 -
Till we are officially dating.
With my fiance, about 2 months.0 -
How long do I make him wait? Until marriage.
If you have a different way good for you but to me sex is only part of a relationship and definitely not the most important part.0 -
Ive been married 5 years...I still haven't let him :noway:0
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Yeah pretty much this!Go with the flow... See where that takes you0 -
IT DEPENDS HOW DRUNK I AM :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
JUST KIDDING I LET GUYS ALL KNOW DONT RUN GAME DONT TRY ALL THAT CRAP BECAUSE A GIRL KNOWS IF SHE WANTS TO SKREW A GUY THE FIRST 5 SECONDS SHES IN FRONT OF THEM LOL IF SHE DIDNT WANT TO GET TAPPED SHE WOULD NEVER GO ON A DATE WITH U LOL0 -
For my husband, it cost 16 diamonds and the rest of his life. :-D
(there are 3 diamonds in my engagement ring and 13 small diamonds in the wedding band)
We saved sex for marriage We started dating when we were freshmen in college (I was 18), got married the summer we graduated (age 22). And have been happily married for 5 years, with many more to come :-D And as much unlimited, on-demand sex as he (or I!!) wants :-D
I'm with you, sevsmom!! Excruciating, but worth waiting for!!
Mine too girl! Ya'll are right - it is worth the wait. My husband always says 'Married sex is AWESOME!' I wouldn't have had it any other way!
The problem with "married sex is awesome" is that you have no idea what other sex is like. You could think sex is awesome with your first partner, only to realize that other people make it MUCH, MUCH better.
I'm thankfully I'm spending the rest of my life with my current partner who is amazing on every level, and not the first few who were horrible in bed.
On the other hand, if they were both virgins and had never experienced other partners, they won't know what other sex is like anyway. Therefore, they can be perfectly content with their married sex because they are not comparing their partner's abilities to that of others.
True, but I would think in some cases.. the sex probably fizzles out. Then they turn into a couple who does it on anniversaries only. :laugh:
I'm curious, to the women who have been married for 10+ years and waited until marriage. How often do you have sex or when was the last time?0 -
My boyfriend and I waited 8 months... still together and incredibly happy 5.5 years later.
First and only.
same here, been with hubby since i was 17 so first and only!0 -
ummm....there's no magic number. It all depends on the specific guy. When you feel the time is right., you go for it! It took my current BF 17 days, LOL. And now we've been dating a little over a year. That might sound skanky but keep in mind we'd been friends for 4+ years before we started dating.0
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Met my husband online in July 2006, He asked me to marry him on the phone in April 2007 (we lived 10 hours one way from eachother), we met for the first time in person in July 2007, and married November 2007. We waited til we after we got married to have sex cause that's what I believe in and I am old fashioned anyways! He has been the the first and that's why it was special. I've been married for almost 5 years
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At least a month, and only if we're dating.
I don't have sex with guys who I just go on a few dates with.0 -
It's not a him, but- the first time she slept over haha So, 2 weeks into dating. And here we are, 2 year anniversary approaching!
When I'm comfortable would be the real answer, though. I don't think you lack self respect if you hit it on the first date :ohwell: I think what you're comfortable with and what precautions you're taking is what should go into that decision!0 -
tbh, depends on how bad I want him, how much chemistry is there immediately and how good the timing is. Ive made a guy wait 3 months and there was another guy who I kissed for the first time and then shortly afterwards... slept with for the first time - cause, well, there was just no stopping it.
:noway: 3 months?!?!
Haha you think 3 months is bad.. I made one guy i was committed to wait 5. As soon as he got it he went somewhere else. The guy I'm with we ended up doing it that night, and 4 1/2 years later...we're still together.0 -
Took a year with my dude. Poor guy. haha.0
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I didn't really go on dates with my husband, but we waited a lil more than two months0
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Congratulations!
There is a LOT to be said for that approach. :happy:0 -
My now husband waited a year.
We were both fairly freshly divorced when we met, and neither of us wanted to make that kind of mistake again. So, we built a strong foundation as friends first for a year, lived together for a year, then we were engaged for a year. We married 3 years and one week from our first date. We've been married for more than 11 years now, and I could not imagine life without him. We raised our 6 kids together as one family, now our last one in is her second year of college (she was 6 when we met).
Now, my husband says he never had waited before, but he knew from the first time he ever saw me with my kids that I was going to be his wife one day. Who wouldn't marry a man that says something like that???0 -
The no sex before marriage thing has always been a bit of a mystery to me. Basically I've never met a person in real life who believes that except when I visit the US.
That being there's not much of a dating culture here. The longest I've waited was about a month but with my fiance it was one of those things that's here to last so we did it the day after (then spent the whole weekend together cuddling over movies).0 -
his girlfriend Palmela must be putting in work! :indifferent:Ive been married 5 years...I still haven't let him :noway:
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For my husband, it cost 16 diamonds and the rest of his life. :-D
(there are 3 diamonds in my engagement ring and 13 small diamonds in the wedding band)
We saved sex for marriage We started dating when we were freshmen in college (I was 18), got married the summer we graduated (age 22). And have been happily married for 5 years, with many more to come :-D And as much unlimited, on-demand sex as he (or I!!) wants :-D
I'm with you, sevsmom!! Excruciating, but worth waiting for!!
Mine too girl! Ya'll are right - it is worth the wait. My husband always says 'Married sex is AWESOME!' I wouldn't have had it any other way!
The problem with "married sex is awesome" is that you have no idea what other sex is like. You could think sex is awesome with your first partner, only to realize that other people make it MUCH, MUCH better.
I'm thankfully I'm spending the rest of my life with my current partner who is amazing on every level, and not the first few who were horrible in bed.
On the other hand, if they were both virgins and had never experienced other partners, they won't know what other sex is like anyway. Therefore, they can be perfectly content with their married sex because they are not comparing their partner's abilities to that of others.
True, but I would think in some cases.. the sex probably fizzles out. Then they turn into a couple who does it on anniversaries only. :laugh:
I'm curious, to the women who have been married for 10+ years and waited until marriage. How often do you have sex or when was the last time?
LOL...I think for some people whether they had awesome sex before or waited after "i do", a lot of things fizzle out once kids come into the picture. I can't imagine couples have anniversary sex though...that would be horrible I would think.0 -
Whether you wait one night or 3 months to sleep with him, if he's gonna give you herpes and a baby - it has nothing to do with how long you wait.
I dislike that *self edits* there is a sect of girls that always say that girls who dont wait for months are the cause of std's and single parenthood.
How about this - not everyone is just like you.... and that's ok 0 -
Buncha *kitten* up in here0
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Seriously??? The real man is willing to wait. Its not a contest, IMO.I'm sorry, but where are you finding these guys who wait for months?
Yeah, I know the cliche, a good guy is one who is willing to wait, but a real man is good enough to get in there a lot quicker.0
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