GIRLS i have always wondered.......

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  • ohmyshysamantha
    ohmyshysamantha Posts: 138 Member
    If I'm dressed in a way that emphasizes my chest or body in general I dont care if someones starring at me, I sometimes find it flattering. But as I am president of the itty bitty titty committee i dont get starred at as often as most do so it really doesnt bug me at all.
  • jjh1024
    jjh1024 Posts: 36
    Maybe, when its my husband. But when its a random guy or your, say, boss, its creepy. Seriously, do you go around openly staring at womens' cleavage? Or do you feel that most women would rather be addressed to their face?

    Only if I am wearing dark sunglasses and straining my eyeballs to the left or right. Or at a strip club.

    Seriously, though, I believe there are a lot of women who intentionally dress in a manner to cause people to stare at their cleavage. I know everyone gets riled up and says things about women's rights and being able to dress however they like but that is just reality. When I wear a wife beater in public or go shirtless to get the mail I know damn well I am HOPING to get some stares myself!

    More power to them.

    The 5 minute drooling stare is creepy, though, I'll admit that. I cut mine off at 4:59.

    [Edited for spelling, a hot chick with a big rack walked by while typing. Sorry.]

    At least you are honest and funny as hell while doing : )
  • PANZERIA
    PANZERIA Posts: 471 Member
    WOMEN can wear whatever they want, whenever they want. Slut shaming is a huge part of our society, and it's just pathetic that calling ladies with chests 'sluts' or 'just wanting attention' is completely justified, according to some of you. Men can walk around without shirts, but you don't see women saying "Geeze, dude, why do you do that? That's offensive!"

    My breasts go wherever I want them to go, and if you're so focused on sex that all you see if a pair of tits, then that's your problem and not mine. I'm not wearing it to please you - I wear clothing because it's comfortable or it looks good. Women with large breasts wearing anything except a turtleneck will always have cleavage.

    Just because you're so focused on sex that you're making a woman a sexual object doesn't mean that she's 'asking' to be objectified. Learn to be respectful of women. Take a quick glance - no one cares. Don't friggin stare.
  • oyvonnee
    oyvonnee Posts: 116 Member
    Silly wabbits. Men like breasts. Women have them. Show them and men will stare. Such a simple thing. If you get offended by the staring, then hide the silly things and shut uppppppppp! Show enough of them, and even women will stare at you. Now you have both genders paying attention to you. But wasn't that the plan after all? :laugh:
  • jjh1024
    jjh1024 Posts: 36
    If I put it out there, I have no business getting mad if you look...


    Totally agree!!!
  • Nataliaho
    Nataliaho Posts: 878 Member
    GUYS i have always wondered....

    why you seem so fine with being porrtayed (and portraying yourselves) as if you have absolutely ZERO self control. I am not saying you do, in fact I think thats an offensive and unaccurate stereotype of men... but you seem totally fine with it... I think that is strange! Is it the male equivalent of women dumbing themselves down and playing up to the barbie sterotype? Genuinely interested?
  • beka3
    beka3 Posts: 30
    what i find weird too is why do females like to flaunt there stuff in a bikini but once u see them in there underware they go right off? its the same thing just different material lol
  • Carlyannabelle
    Carlyannabelle Posts: 621 Member
    Because we want you to look, not stare...yes there is a difference!! :o)
  • If I'm putting them out there, I fully expect people to look. Matter of fact, I get a little bummed out if I don't catch people looking. I like the attention.
  • Brandicaloriecountess
    Brandicaloriecountess Posts: 2,126 Member
    I admit, attractive man noticing, is good. Old, or creepy not so good.
  • jonwv
    jonwv Posts: 362 Member
    i have to say from a guys point of view like stated before, we are guys...we are going to look we cant help it. married single, whatever the case if its showing we look. I would never stare because that is just weird...lol
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    Never gets mad, I put them out there...so "Look away- Look away"
  • If you could find cleavage on me, please feel free to look.

    Signed,
    Long time member of the itty bitty titty committee

    Sometimes I wish I could be a member of that group...or at least in the "halfway" position committee!
  • jonwv
    jonwv Posts: 362 Member
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    Never gets mad, I put them out there...so "Look away- Look away"

    Look away as in, dont look..lol lol j/k
  • JessigirlJb
    JessigirlJb Posts: 656
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    Never gets mad, I put them out there...so "Look away- Look away"
    This^^ just don't be surprised if my jealous husband knocks your *kitten* out. Hahaha