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  • vcferlita1
    vcferlita1 Posts: 61
    You look great in the first pic
  • Gemalar
    Gemalar Posts: 301 Member
    You look fab in 1st and 3rd pic, but far too skinny in the 2nd one! If your bf cant love you as you are get him dropped, it would be different if he was saying that because your weight was a health issue but it clearly isnt!

    The only person who needs to be happy with your weight is you!
  • shquig
    shquig Posts: 68 Member
    I think you look fine in the first pic and the last. I think you look way too thin in the middle pic.

    Truth be told, I think the only weight you need to drop is however many pounds your boyfriend weighs and get a new guy that appreciates you for you!! You're beautiful and don't change for a guy, EVER! You should do what you're comfortable with, not anyone else.
  • schondell
    schondell Posts: 556 Member
    I think you look okay in all the photos! You seem to be a healthy weight in ALL photos (even in the 120s) because you look to be a teenager so being smaller is normal.

    Personally I think the bathing suits you chose are unflattering on your frame, you have the PERFECT body for bandeaus, try them out it could really make all the difference
  • victoria4321
    victoria4321 Posts: 1,719 Member
    I think you look okay in all the photos! You seem to be a healthy weight in ALL photos (even in the 120s) because you look to be a teenager so being smaller is normal.

    Personally I think the bathing suits you chose are unflattering on your frame, you have the PERFECT body for bandeaus, try them out it could really make all the difference

    I agree with this as well. You look fine in all the pictures but the bathing suits aren't the right cuts.
  • csplatt
    csplatt Posts: 1,205 Member
    Honestly, i think you are too bony in the middle picture. I like the last one.
  • mandy0688
    mandy0688 Posts: 335 Member
    All pics you beautiful except too damn thin in the middle pic. Honestly get a new boyfriend, he is a **** for saying your fat. He needs to love you for who you are. There is no point in getting too damn skinny for some boyfriend who calls you fat. I am fat. I am over 200 lbs. You would look fine at 150. You look sick and unhealthy in that second pic. You wanted honestly, child you got honesty. Your boyfriend is a complete *kitten* and you deserve better.
  • ChristyRunStarr
    ChristyRunStarr Posts: 1,600 Member
    i think you should feel comfortable in your own skin. i agree you looked much too thin in the middle picture. if your boyfriend was telling you to drop some weight my opinion is you should drop HIM. I'd bet you'd feel much lighter after that! you looked young and beautiful in the first picture.


    Agreee...plus, if you drop him, it'll be the easiest weight lost! Seriously though, do what makes you happy. Everyone thinks they look different than how everyone else sees them. What if you toned up a bit more instead of losing weight? That might help how you see yourself
  • chubbygirl253
    chubbygirl253 Posts: 1,309 Member
    i think you should feel comfortable in your own skin. i agree you looked much too thin in the middle picture. if your boyfriend was telling you to drop some weight my opinion is you should drop HIM. I'd bet you'd feel much lighter after that! you looked young and beautiful in the first picture.

    THIS!
  • KatLifter
    KatLifter Posts: 1,314 Member
    In the middle pic you look gaunt. You need to build up some muscle.

    I agree. The middle photo looks like you have been ill. Have you tried some strength training? Muscle is beautiful!

    I completely agree, I was thinking the same thing!
  • Angie_1991
    Angie_1991 Posts: 447 Member
    my honest opinion is you looked the best in the first picture............
  • laserhen
    laserhen Posts: 7 Member
    Wow I'm surprised people are still posting on this! But just as an update if anyone was curious....I'm back to about 140, but more toned now. I think I'm on the right track to feeling good about myself.
    And yes, I did lose about 200 lbs because I dumped the guy :)

    Excellent work :D

    edited to add - I liked the first picture the best. Would be great to see a comparison shot of 140-before vs. 140 now. I bet you look even hotter. Your ex is a douche.
  • sassylarita
    sassylarita Posts: 4
    How much does your boyfriend weigh? That is how much you need to lose, i.e., lose him! You are a beautiful girl in all three pictures. For what it is worth, I think you are too thin in the second picture, but you know what makes you feel the best!

    Take it from an old lady who has an ex-husband who constantly berated me for my weight when I was 5'7, 135 pounds, your boyfriend is the one with the problem, not you!!! :)
  • telam1186
    telam1186 Posts: 14
    The boyfriend needs to keep his mouth shut. You looked wonderful in your first picture, too thin in the second picture and better than the second in the third. You don't seem very happy, though, in either. You're a beautiful girl. Don't allow anyone but yourself be responsible for your happiness. Body image isn't everything.
  • missodu
    missodu Posts: 234 Member
    I think you look the healthiest in the first pic. The middle pic, no. You look emaciated and 120 is too low for a woman with your height. drop over a hundred pounds quickly...DUMP THE BOYFRIEND!
  • freddykid
    freddykid Posts: 265 Member
    The first and the last pics of you look the best in. Constructive criticism would be to add some strength training. You do not need to lose any weight where you are.
  • tekwriter
    tekwriter Posts: 923 Member
    I think you look best in the first pic also. Strength training is good a a weight you don't have to work at so hard to maintain. I would dump the boyfriend also.
  • alaskaang
    alaskaang Posts: 493 Member
    Wow I'm surprised people are still posting on this! But just as an update if anyone was curious....I'm back to about 140, but more toned now. I think I'm on the right track to feeling good about myself.
    And yes, I did lose about 200 lbs because I dumped the guy :)

    Good for you!
  • jennahv93
    jennahv93 Posts: 6
    oh my goodness! GET A NEW BOYFRIEND. You are beautiful in all pictures but definitely the 1st one you look the best. The second picture you look unhealthily skinny. Be confident in who you are and don't let your boyfriend tell you your not perfect just the way you are!
  • jennahv93
    jennahv93 Posts: 6
    whoops posted that comment too late lol. but congrats! Find someone who thinks your beautiful for the way you are!!
  • CherokeeBabe
    CherokeeBabe Posts: 1,704 Member
    Wow I'm surprised people are still posting on this! But just as an update if anyone was curious....I'm back to about 140, but more toned now. I think I'm on the right track to feeling good about myself.
    And yes, I did lose about 200 lbs because I dumped the guy :)


    YESSSSSSSSSSSSSS!!!
  • TammyLynne71
    TammyLynne71 Posts: 184 Member
    I personally don't care for number 2. A quick weightloss would be losing that boyfriend. Will he ever be happy with your weight loss?
  • Easywider
    Easywider Posts: 434 Member
    You're a thin little girl...You shouldn't burden yourself with this weight watching nonsense. Enjoy your life!

    If I had to give an opinion on your physique...I'd say that your frame lacks lean mass...That's about it.
  • LorinaLynn
    LorinaLynn Posts: 13,247 Member
    Wow I'm surprised people are still posting on this! But just as an update if anyone was curious....I'm back to about 140, but more toned now. I think I'm on the right track to feeling good about myself.
    And yes, I did lose about 200 lbs because I dumped the guy :)

    Excellent.

    And you look so pretty, healthy and HAPPY in your profile pic now. :flowerforyou:
  • Intrinsicality
    Intrinsicality Posts: 3
    I think you're lovely (irrespective of whichever pic) - and I also think a hundred people will have a hundred different opinions.

    It's what you said got you confused with your eating habits to start with, ie the free opinions of your rather douchy boyfriend and other people telling you , you're too fat or too skinny ; So forget about 'popular opinion' and focus on yourself and what results make you happy. And then find a way to do it the 'right' way without encouraging an ED. (No judgement here). There's a healthy way to be skinny too, believe it or not.

    Clearly you have confidence, critical thinking abilities, the will to get things done, meet goals and get results- otherwise you won't be on here questioning.

    So give yourself more credit about knowing what is good and right for yourself.

    Focus on doing something that will be a balance between what you want , that is relatively attainable for you and a routine that doesn't stress you and your body out too much, then give yourself time and just be positive. Be more forgiving even - if you need to be.

    So to hell with what we and the others think.

    And take care of yourself and regard your own opinion above others (within good reason (or not)) always.

    No one deserves to be your radar, except for yourself.

    My two cents.

    Sincerely.
  • 30Purple
    30Purple Posts: 252 Member
    In the first pic, you look gorgeous and healthy, the second pic you look sick and the third you look too skinny. Go back to 140 girl, you're tall and you look sexy at that weight!
  • Barbellerella
    Barbellerella Posts: 1,838 Member
    Lift weights and bulk FTW. Start by eating a few hundred cals over TDEE.
  • sundayl369
    sundayl369 Posts: 5
    Top and bottom picture you look amazing, I don't see anything wrong with those 2, the middle picture however you look unhappy and thin. If you get back to your former picture 2 state, do some resistance training, that will tone you up alot.


    Most guys prefer their girlfriends to be slightly chubby than ultra slim, but thats just my opinion. You want to hug them tightly :D if your skinny then they will be afraid you'll be crushed hahaha (atleast I am I when hug my skinny friends)
  • Ge0rgiana
    Ge0rgiana Posts: 1,649 Member
    Girl, you need a sammich. And a new boyfriend.
  • Fitby31
    Fitby31 Posts: 95 Member
    In my honest opinion, the first pic of you is my favourite. You look healthy and its a fine weight for your height. I think you look a bit too thin in the middle pic. If youre happy with yourself now like in the last pic then its also a healthier looking weight. You said it was your boyfriend and others who put the idea of losing weight in your head. Were you happy the way you were before? Has this been a healthy weight loss/lifestyle change for you?
    Ultimately its what youre happiest with, once youre getting the right nutriition and feeling good and energetic etc :)

    ^this^

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