Ex-Boyfriend's Little Brother....

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  • onedayillbeamilf
    onedayillbeamilf Posts: 966 Member
    I say if you're a lucky enough girl to have people you're attracted to reciprocate, then take advantage of it and go for it. Some of us don't ever have that opportunity.
  • apedeb09
    apedeb09 Posts: 805 Member
    I once dated a guy for a few months and when him and I broke him, I ended up dating his older brother for awhile.. Lets just say that the guy I originally dated never truly got over it. Supposedly he still blames his big brother for "stealing me away from him".. So, I guess my point is.. if you don't care about your ex at all, then go for it.. but it will probably cause problems between those two. Might not be the best idea, but ultimately it is up to you.
  • Ocarina
    Ocarina Posts: 1,550 Member
    :sick: Talk about passing yourself around.

    You are better then that.
  • DieVixen
    DieVixen Posts: 790 Member
    go for it
  • MaryJane_8810002
    MaryJane_8810002 Posts: 2,082 Member
    Peter rabbit would be wise to stay out of the McGregor garden.
  • jammet80
    jammet80 Posts: 96 Member
    Unfortunately, I think brothers of an ex are off limits :(
  • corgihugger
    corgihugger Posts: 41
    I could tell you not to....

    But I can't change how you feel, no one can. The heart wants what the heart wants.
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  • smae1980
    smae1980 Posts: 794 Member
    If you ever cared about either one of these guys you would leave them the heck alone. You are only going to cause trouble.

    Completely agree. Its the WRONG thing to do.
  • smae1980
    smae1980 Posts: 794 Member
    If you ever cared about either one of these guys you would leave them the heck alone. You are only going to cause trouble.

    Completely agree. Its the WRONG thing to do.

    YES!!
  • Chapter3point6
    Chapter3point6 Posts: 1,233
    I could tell you not to....

    But I can't change how you feel, no one can. The heart wants what the heart wants.

    Huh? :noway: Did you actually read the OP? The heart doesn't want anything. She thinks he is cute and wants to have fun.

    I think it is wrong to do even if her heart was telling her yes. To do it just for fun is totally F'd up. Could divide a family for a roll in the hay.
  • SurfinBird1981
    SurfinBird1981 Posts: 517 Member
    Do whatever you think is best.
  • Ready2Rock206
    Ready2Rock206 Posts: 9,487 Member
    Oh my - you must love DRAMA!! I'd stay far away from that mess.
  • Zombriana
    Zombriana Posts: 764 Member
    If I were in your shoes, I'd do it. But that's just me.
  • starrrjo
    starrrjo Posts: 101 Member
    Not only are u set to hurt both brothers but more than likely yourself.
    I know full well if a guy tried to come between me and my sister, he would be kicked to the kirb and fast. Blood is thicker than water and if push came to shove, Lance will chose his brother.

    Im sure Lance is as uncertain about the situation as you are so perhaps come to a mutual agreement with him to make sure he knows that you and him could never go through with anything. And perhaps at the moment you are mistaking lust with something else, just because he's showing you a bit of attention, doesnt mean he wants you in that way...He is male afterall.
  • mrs_chivonne
    mrs_chivonne Posts: 49 Member
    Really? If this is what you call having fun, then you obviously need a new hobby! Maybe all you need is just a hug:flowerforyou:
  • blackgirlfit
    blackgirlfit Posts: 120 Member
    thats on some hoe tendencies to say the least...

    2 friends are bad... 2 BROTHERS????

    girl dont do it!
  • Endershadow
    Endershadow Posts: 52 Member
    Are they Eskimo too?
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    But, why?? There are so many other men in the world. Show some respect for your ex and yourself.
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    I have 2 little boys, close in age. I'm training right now, for when this moment happens to them.
  • MustBeTheRows
    MustBeTheRows Posts: 377 Member
    Maybe you could hook up with the dad too.
  • mminor77
    mminor77 Posts: 313
    never get between 2 brothers.

    ^^^^THIS!!! Don't tear up a family that's just a sh!tty thing to do. Go find someone else to have your 'fun' with. :grumble:
  • Contrarian
    Contrarian Posts: 8,138 Member
    Can't you just **** his best friend or something?
  • AmyFett
    AmyFett Posts: 1,607 Member
    If you don't want to date him, don't do it. You'd be messing with the both of them. If you had strong feelings for him and saw a future, I'd say go for it. Never know until you try.
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    Do it. And then you can go on Jerry Springer afterwards!

    Two birds with one stone! :drinker:
  • UsedToBeHusky
    UsedToBeHusky Posts: 15,228 Member
    I agree that if you have feelings for him, then you should go for it, but sit down and talk to Mike about it first.

    If it's just for fun, then you are just asking for trouble, and this would deeply diminish the value of your character.

    However, to be honest, I would not be surprised if someone hadn't noticed you getting all snuggly with Lance and spilled the beans to Mike already.
  • victoria4321
    victoria4321 Posts: 1,719 Member
    They probably both won't be that hurt because they'll just come to the conclusion that you're easy anyway. I bet he already told his brother about it and I'm sure he said something along the lines of "yeah bro go for it, just make sure to wrap it up with her...never know with that one"
  • IamRoJ
    IamRoJ Posts: 530 Member
    Oh my - you must love DRAMA!! I'd stay far away from that mess.

    Drama? No...couldn't be...she's on MFP. No drama here. :laugh:
  • baddbob
    baddbob Posts: 133 Member
    Nothing good could ever come out of that. Unless you enjoy playing games with people.
  • shellebelle87
    shellebelle87 Posts: 291 Member
    They probably both won't be that hurt because they'll just come to the conclusion that you're easy anyway. I bet he already told his brother about it and I'm sure he said something along the lines of "yeah bro go for it, just make sure to wrap it up with her...never know with that one"

    Hahah ouch.

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