Ex-Boyfriend's Little Brother....

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  • postrockandcats
    postrockandcats Posts: 1,145 Member
    Step away from the situation. I had a friend who did this and there was so much crap that stemmed from it. There was a LOT of drama and a lot of hurt. Just... walk away.
  • NoAdditives
    NoAdditives Posts: 4,251 Member
    Generally speaking, if you feel uncomfortable enough about something that you have to ask, "is this bad?", it's bad.
  • Laura_Suzie
    Laura_Suzie Posts: 1,288 Member
    Never date an ex's brother. Don't be a Paris Hilton!
  • lexidell46
    lexidell46 Posts: 143
    Don't do it. that is ethnically wrong. In my day one never went out with family exes or friends exes.
  • missbp
    missbp Posts: 601 Member
    Don't. Do. It.

    THIS!!!!
  • lexidell46
    lexidell46 Posts: 143
    Jerry Springer time. LOL
  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    In the words of some other more eloquent poster than myself...

    Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl you triflin'!
  • Becoming_A_Butterfly
    Becoming_A_Butterfly Posts: 2,534 Member
    If you are asking the question, then you already know it will cause problems. But if you just don't tell his brother, does that really make it okay? That is a juvenile stance to take.
  • SVCat
    SVCat Posts: 1,483 Member
    If lil' brother already had you on his lap and you already kissed him, just go on and get it out of the way. Sounds like the whole situation is already dysfunctional anyhow.

    Whatever you do, make sure you do a new thread and tell us how it works out for you...k? K.
  • LilMissSunshine_
    LilMissSunshine_ Posts: 520
    ewe.
  • _the_feniks_
    _the_feniks_ Posts: 3,412 Member
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  • tismyhardbody
    tismyhardbody Posts: 100 Member
    Id bang him
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    They probably both won't be that hurt because they'll just come to the conclusion that you're easy anyway. I bet he already told his brother about it and I'm sure he said something along the lines of "yeah bro go for it, just make sure to wrap it up with her...never know with that one"

    This.
  • ArroganceInStep
    ArroganceInStep Posts: 6,239 Member
    They probably both won't be that hurt because they'll just come to the conclusion that you're easy anyway. I bet he already told his brother about it and I'm sure he said something along the lines of "yeah bro go for it, just make sure to wrap it up with her...never know with that one"

    FR sent
  • ilovemybuggy
    ilovemybuggy Posts: 1,584 Member
    eew
  • Sharyn913
    Sharyn913 Posts: 777 Member
    Hey at least afterwords they can compare notes!
  • EastCoast_Girl
    EastCoast_Girl Posts: 67
    wow....................
  • california_peach
    california_peach Posts: 1,809 Member
    This is why I've taught my two sons the phrase: bros before hoes. Family is forever, and you ought not to be messing with that.
  • Jebbster007
    Jebbster007 Posts: 265 Member
    If Mike got married....and Lance had a very long heart to heart with Mike, and EVERYONE and I mean everyone pertinent to the situation was in the loop, and Mike truly, honestly didn't care, maybe it would be ok for something to happen. And even in that situation it's only a maybe. But if you're just looking for a roll in the hay. A little affair. A little funsy. Please don't do it. You can do irreparable damage to family members. Look, I definitely love my brother, but even now we still fight occasionally. The last thing in the world you want is for someone to say, (in a fit of anger), oh by the way, I banged your ex-girlfriend. You've now turned family holidays for the next 10 years into something to be dreaded. Don't do it, it's not worth it.
  • dreamin_skinny702
    dreamin_skinny702 Posts: 1
    My usual advice is this:


    If you have to ask, you already know the answer.

    agreed
  • goldair23
    goldair23 Posts: 160
    That's SO mean to your ex. There are like a trillion guys in the world. Don't go for your ex's brother! I thought that was more common sense haha x
  • brevislux
    brevislux Posts: 1,093 Member
    That's gross. No.
  • SeaRunner26
    SeaRunner26 Posts: 5,143 Member
    Not a good idea. Especially since you said you're not looking for anything serious. You might have a nice time, but you could seriously damage the two brothers' relationship. Be responsible and walk away.
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    JERRY, JERRY, JERRY, JERRY
  • pixtotts
    pixtotts Posts: 552 Member
    iv been in a similar situation... only older brother, who id never met as the ex's brother but met him in a bar, still couldnt decide if it was weird or not when we figured it out though...
  • eylia
    eylia Posts: 200 Member
    This happened between my two uncles when they were young; it was never the same afterwards, these days they don't actually speak at all (different reasons, but it was already cold). It sounds similar really, the older brother was quieter, more book-smart, the younger a popular, easy going sort who got the girl.

    Friends are bad enough, for a bit of fun it's definitely not worth it in my opinion. And if it WERE something you wanted to seriously commit to, I agree with earlier posters that say you should talk to your ex about it first..
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    iv been in a similar situation... only older brother, who id never met as the ex's brother but met him in a bar, still couldnt decide if it was weird or not when we figured it out though...


    JERRY< JERRY< JERRY<JERRY
  • dcurzon
    dcurzon Posts: 653 Member
    enjoy yourself ;o)
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    wow!!!...you have to ask this here when the answer is obvious
  • Ed98043
    Ed98043 Posts: 1,333 Member
    That's just skanky. Don't cause friction between brothers like that, especially since it just for "fun". Plenty of cute guys out there to have fun with.

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