What do you think about Interracial relationships?

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  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    No, that is not what I am saying. Your right, you do not have a choice of your color. But I'm just giving you a for instance. Everyone attacks everyone else's opinions. What ever. LoL. I'm a racist kkk member... your the ignorant ones. Screw you and your interracial relationships. Blacks should only date blacks..stick to your own color! Go fourth White people and reign all the land!

    (And if you seriously take this serious...your dumb as ****!)

    So you're saying you didn't compare a murdering sex offender to men of a different race? You didn't type that post?
  • tdaddybarlow
    tdaddybarlow Posts: 673 Member
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    Also, children born to interracial couples tend to be really, really ridiculously good looking.

    See my profile for an example
  • thistimeismytime
    thistimeismytime Posts: 711 Member
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    No, that is not what I am saying. Your right, you do not have a choice of your color. But I'm just giving you a for instance. Everyone attacks everyone else's opinions. What ever. LoL. I'm a racist kkk member... your the ignorant ones. Screw you and your interracial relationships. Blacks should only date blacks..stick to your own color! Go fourth White people and reign all the land!

    (And if you seriously take this serious...your dumb as ****!)

    You are one classy lady.
  • stillthesamegirl
    stillthesamegirl Posts: 112 Member
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    No, that is not what I am saying. Your right, you do not have a choice of your color. But I'm just giving you a for instance. Everyone attacks everyone else's opinions. What ever. LoL. I'm a racist kkk member... your the ignorant ones. Screw you and your interracial relationships. Blacks should only date blacks..stick to your own color! Go fourth White people and reign all the land!

    (And if you seriously take this serious...your dumb as ****!)


    First and foremost, my concern for my child would be that the person he/she is dating is a GOOD person who treats them well. If they are, then everything else doesn't matter.
  • stillthesamegirl
    stillthesamegirl Posts: 112 Member
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    Having dated two supposedly "good" black guys and being treated terribly, cheated on, and beat, (was also raped by a black man) I can attest that I would never date another black man again. I don't care if it sounds racist or if I am racist. Even the most respected CO officers at the jail brag about white women being their trophy. I don't care if I catch a whole rash of s#!t for it either. Everyone here is titled to their opinion and the bandwagon all agrees its so "beautiful" and "great" and I could care less to join that bandwagon. I am sticking to my views and opinion and there's nothing wrong with it.



    So you just perpetuate a stereotype.

    So you think White men won't beat you or cheat you.

    That has ABSOLUTELY NOTHING TO DO WITH RACE, but the TYPE and QUALITY of the man you choose to be with.

    I was raped by 2 guys, one white and the other hispanic. That never skewed my mind to say I wouldn't date a particular man due to those reasons above.

    There is something wrong with being racist. It is ignorant and disgusting. If you feel like now, then you were always racist, it is just coming out now.

    SMH

    Yeah, I can tell you that there are *kitten* in every race. Can I say that all white guys are lazy moochers who will eventually cheat on you with a younger version of yourself?

    Wow.. Clearly you are choosing the wrong men period.. You cannot judge an entire race based on some of your personal experiences. If people did that with white people, the whole world would hate white people.. SO ridiculous to say something like that.. ... Dating anyone there will be good and bad relationships...

    I don't know if that was directed towards me, but I was being sarcastic. I love white guys even though the ones I've dated turned out to be *kitten*.


    OH NO! Sorry It wasn't directed towards you.. It was directed to the post you were commenting on.
  • Chapter3point6
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    I don't know if that was directed towards me, but I was being sarcastic. I love white guys even though the ones I've dated turned out to be *kitten*.

    Probably a Pittsburgh thing. :tongue:
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
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    So your telling me that if your son/daughter came home with a murderer/sex offender you would welcome him with open arms.

    And please do not assume I am stating that white people are the higher race, this is not what I am insinuating. If it is something you are not use to, its going to take some time to adjust. That is all.


    Read the whole damned thing. Don't focus on what you want to focus on!
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    So your telling me that if your son/daughter came home with a murderer/sex offender you would welcome him with open arms.

    And please do not assume I am stating that white people are the higher race, this is not what I am insinuating. If it is something you are not use to, its going to take some time to adjust. That is all.


    Read the whole damned thing. Don't focus on what you want to focus on!

    You're just digging a deeper hole. Give it up. What you said is very clear and it's disgusting.

    I would never get used to my child dating a murdering sex offender. Not in a million years.
  • Foxypoo61287
    Foxypoo61287 Posts: 638 Member
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    So your telling me that if your son/daughter came home with a murderer/sex offender you would welcome him with open arms.

    And please do not assume I am stating that white people are the higher race, this is not what I am insinuating. If it is something you are not use to, its going to take some time to adjust. That is all.


    Read the whole damned thing. Don't focus on what you want to focus on!

    You're just digging a deeper hole. Give it up. What you said is very clear and it's disgusting.

    I would never get used to my child dating a murdering sex offender. Not in a million years.

    Why not? What if that person treated your child like gold? Would you disown them?
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    So your telling me that if your son/daughter came home with a murderer/sex offender you would welcome him with open arms.

    And please do not assume I am stating that white people are the higher race, this is not what I am insinuating. If it is something you are not use to, its going to take some time to adjust. That is all.


    Read the whole damned thing. Don't focus on what you want to focus on!

    You're just digging a deeper hole. Give it up. What you said is very clear and it's disgusting.

    I would never get used to my child dating a murdering sex offender. Not in a million years.

    Why not? What if that person treated your child like gold? Would you disown them?

    I can't think of an instance where I would disown my child. There is no reality where a murdering sex offender is a good person for anyone to be in a relationship with and I would want to protect my child from that. A black man with an education, a good job and who treats her well is not the same by any stretch.

    And you just proved what everyone thought you said. A black man who has all good traits and treats your child like gold is akin to a murdering sex offender. That is the analogy you made. It is ridiculous and hateful. You are a hateful human being and you keep showing it over and over with your posts.
  • ChgingMe
    ChgingMe Posts: 539 Member
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    I am going to dip my toe into this. I know I will probably get shunned, but so be it.

    I do not have an issue with interracial relationships. What ever makes you happy. But I am a hypocrite when it comes down to 1 thing. At this point in time ( My daughter is 2) I would not approve of her dating someone that their race was something other than white. I know I am a bad person. I just would be very disappointed in my daughter. I will not tell her as she is growing up that it is wrong, or that I would be mad at her. If someone makes her happy, that is fine, it would just take time for me to adjust to it. I was raised in a house that I was NEVER to bring a boyfriend who was anything other than white home. My parent's are NOT racist. They have black friends, but they were raised that way as well.

    This is just my 2 cents.

    Let's say your daughter is being pursued by two men:

    One has no education, a dead-end job and while he's a nice enough person, he drinks a little too much.

    The other is Harvard-educated, makes a six-figure income and treats your daughter like gold.

    Guy #1 is white. Guy #2 is black.

    Which do you hope she chooses?

    I'm sure its the black guy. It will be like the OJ Simpson case. Everyone knew he was beating Nicole. But it was apparently okay because he had money and was supporting the family. Then when he killed her they all suddenly had issue with the abuse. Releasing the pics of Nicole battered and bruised. Money will help some overlook many things. Race being one of them. Abuse being another

    Let me also claify. I believe that they were ok with the abuse because they knew about it and continued to take his money and allow him to be apart of their family

    Where in my example did I say the guy beat anyone? It says, "treats her like gold." Do you beat your gold?

    I'm using OJ as an example of how wealth helps people overlook many things. You said he was wealthy. OJ was wealthy and because of it Nicoles family over looked many things. If the choice for this woman was a poor white guy or a wealthy black one she would most likely put aside her racism for the money like OJ's family put aside the abuse for the money. Nothing more.

    I think you COMPLETELY missed the point of my post.

    HA. wouldn't be the first time Ive done that. :huh:
  • rml_16
    rml_16 Posts: 16,414 Member
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    HA. wouldn't be the first time Ive done that. :huh:

    Yeah, if the black man in my example beat her, it would negate the point I was trying to make, which was that this woman probably prefers a loser creep to a great man just because of skin color.

    I think that's probably the case, considering her subsequent posts.
  • MissTattoo
    MissTattoo Posts: 1,203 Member
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    I don't know if that was directed towards me, but I was being sarcastic. I love white guys even though the ones I've dated turned out to be *kitten*.

    Probably a Pittsburgh thing. :tongue:

    Could be. ^_^
  • thistimeismytime
    thistimeismytime Posts: 711 Member
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    So your telling me that if your son/daughter came home with a murderer/sex offender you would welcome him with open arms.

    And please do not assume I am stating that white people are the higher race, this is not what I am insinuating. If it is something you are not use to, its going to take some time to adjust. That is all.


    Read the whole damned thing. Don't focus on what you want to focus on!

    You're just digging a deeper hole. Give it up. What you said is very clear and it's disgusting.

    I would never get used to my child dating a murdering sex offender. Not in a million years.

    Why not? What if that person treated your child like gold? Would you disown them?

    There is NOTHING my child could do to make me "disown" them--nothing, nothing, nothing. My children are MINE, and they will be mine forever. Nothing could ever change that. Even if they disown ME, nothing could lessen my love for them. It is rock solid to the core.

    You've made your views very obvious. We all see who and what you are. It's crystal clear.
  • slkehl
    slkehl Posts: 3,801 Member
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    Also, children born to interracial couples tend to be really, really ridiculously good looking.

    See my profile for an example

    What a cutie pie!
  • korsicash
    korsicash Posts: 770 Member
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    You love who you love and be happy with it. Screw the rest of the world and be content in the life the two of you make together. Now if in a few years (15) when my son is all grown and a handsome European hottie wants to whisk me away from my real life drab I will allow and love the cultural and racial difference!
  • rachelfaith92
    rachelfaith92 Posts: 202 Member
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    I'm sorry, but the majority of african american women who are husbandless and their children without fathers proves a point. Not to mention the amount of african americans on food stamps, welfare, and in jails. African American women deserve a lot better than they get. There are **** bags in every race, but because I've been through something traumatic and seen first hand how the majority of them are, I'm at fault? There are a few black men that aren't pieces of ****, but they are few and far between, at least from what I have seen. The "trashier" side of my family are all under 20 years old and have baby daddies that don't do **** for their child, and focus on the whole "im finna do me!" lifestyle. So african american women have to be tough and strong to deal with the immature crap that the majority of their males are or associated with. I would NEVER date another black man, and that's my personal opinion and feelings. How can you be wrong about your opinion or feelings? That's like forcing someone to get on a horse after they had their neck broken on a previous experiences and have a fear of horses. So again tell me how I am wrong for feeling a certain way? If you are happy with your interracial marriage or relationship good for you. It's not my cup of tea so don't be hateful towards me.
  • DanceForever904
    DanceForever904 Posts: 611 Member
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    Theres absolutly nothing wrong with it... im mixed with white and indian and my fiance is black...
  • HiKaren
    HiKaren Posts: 1,306 Member
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    Also, children born to interracial couples tend to be really, really ridiculously good looking.

    See my profile for an example

    Agreed! :wink:
  • snoopytwins
    snoopytwins Posts: 1,759 Member
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    I'm sorry, but the majority of african american women who are husbandless and their children without fathers proves a point. Not to mention the amount of african americans on food stamps, welfare, and in jails. African American women deserve a lot better than they get. There are **** bags in every race, but because I've been through something traumatic and seen first hand how the majority of them are, I'm at fault? There are a few black men that aren't pieces of ****, but they are few and far between, at least from what I have seen. The "trashier" side of my family are all under 20 years old and have baby daddies that don't do **** for their child, and focus on the whole "im finna do me!" lifestyle. So african american women have to be tough and strong to deal with the immature crap that the majority of their males are or associated with. I would NEVER date another black man, and that's my personal opinion and feelings. How can you be wrong about your opinion or feelings? That's like forcing someone to get on a horse after they had their neck broken on a previous experiences and have a fear of horses. So again tell me how I am wrong for feeling a certain way? If you are happy with your interracial marriage or relationship good for you. It's not my cup of tea so don't be hateful towards me.

    I could care less who or what you want to date or never date.

    What's offensive is your generalization of people.