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To each their own. You just need to find someone who is either also interested in waiting, has similar convictions or a low sex drive. He's out there. In fact.. can I introduce you to my ex?
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lol, and become the neighborhood cat lady.....Sorry to hear that you get overlooked because of that. I say good for you - stick to your convictions!
^^^ That's actually pretty funny ...0 -
I would never overlook you.
That being said...Oh look! What is that on the ground!?
Will you bend over and pick that up.:blushing: :flowerforyou:
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Seriously, I waited like ages, (he wanted to) got engaged, got married, have to say compared to other boyfriends it's absolutely awful, always has been. But in the mean time we became really good friends, but I have to say I grit my teeth for the ''you know what'' and for the last 6 years we've not done it at all. I mean it was really awful, I felt like a prostitute, once it was over, he would roll over and go to sleep, no cuddling, nothing.
Test drive your man first, would be my advice.
W.....O.....W :noway:0 -
stick to your beliefs.the right man will come along!0
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I dated a girl once and we took it very slow... we didn't get at it until after dinner. She wasn't worth the wait! :laugh:0
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My first thought...Wait. I thought you were dating some guy with kids. So how are you overlooked? Maybe post some more cryptic threads and we can figure out your drama.0 -
My theory has always been that I'm not willing to pay the cost of a wedding to have sex.0
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you're only 22.
if a guy doesn't like you because you don't put out, then fck him.
but you might want to change your profile pic if you're saying you don't want that kind of attention.
just sayin.
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Your prob. not the only person... you might have to get use to it
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Ok...I just turned 12 for a minute because you said making-the-sexy and I laughed and laughed.I'd be okay with that 20 years ago. Now I'm pushing 40 and don't have time to wait around to see if the woman would like making-the-sexy with me.
If things fit (no pun intended) just let things go as fast as they go (no pun intended). None of this "I'm saving myself' stuff...great in highschool. Not good at this stage.
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Seriously, I waited like ages, (he wanted to) got engaged, got married, have to say compared to other boyfriends it's absolutely awful, always has been. But in the mean time we became really good friends, but I have to say I grit my teeth for the ''you know what'' and for the last 6 years we've not done it at all. I mean it was really awful, I felt like a prostitute, once it was over, he would roll over and go to sleep, no cuddling, nothing.
That's sad! Sorry to hear that!!0 -
If you're being overlooked by "guys" who don't like that you aren't having sex then they weren't worth your time anyways...someday a man will come along who respects you and values you for who you are and cherishes that you aren't sleeping around! You're so worth the wait so don't sweat it!!0
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Test drive your man first, would be my advice.
:laugh: :laugh: love it!
If you don't test drive...six years later you'll be on Maury Povich's show "I just found out my husband is gay!"0 -
I'd be okay with that 20 years ago. Now I'm pushing 40 and don't have time to wait around to see if the woman would like making-the-sexy with me.
If things fit (no pun intended) just let things go as fast as they go (no pun intended). None of this "I'm saving myself' stuff...great in highschool. Not good at this stage.
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Most awesome girl ever.....does not have sex.....
Does not compute.0 -
If sex isn't a priority for you but is for him, it means you aren't compatible. If the guy is over looking for this, it means you guys have different values, and that means it's kind of ok that you overlook each other.0
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Sorry to hear that you get overlooked because of that. I say good for you - stick to your convictions!
This! If he overlooks you, it's his loss.0 -
A girl can be the most awesome chick ever but when a guy finds out she doesn't have sex he overlooks her. Am I the only one who gets overlooked?
Are you talking about after a date, week, month, year, decade?
These are all very different and most people would argue sex is an important part of a relationship. If they aren't getting it from you at some point might as well leave and get it somewhere else.....Better than getting it behind your back right?0 -
Like you just don't have sex at all, ever? Or are you waiting for marriage?0
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Good girls go to heaven. Bad girls go everywhere. Mae West.
Ya know I think she is right. JMHO0 -
No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT
Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.
Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin
Do you have any idea how much sex they have at the retirement home? It's like a co-ed college dorm except the people are old and the pills they pop are viagra and not ex0 -
If you don't want to have sex... Don't. Period. Don't do it for a guy or for anyone else but yourself.
That being said, maybe don't date the exes of meth heads either... they aren't used to good ol wholesome girls and might just be wanting to get a piece now that mommas in rehab :bigsmile: Just sayin'.0 -
No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT
Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.
Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin
Do you have any idea how much sex they have at the retirement home? It's like a co-ed college dorm except the people are old and the pills they pop are viagra and not ex
Have you been doing volunteer work?0 -
No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT
Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.
Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin
Do you have any idea how much sex they have at the retirement home? It's like a co-ed college dorm except the people are old and the pills they pop are viagra and not ex
Have you been doing volunteer work?
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I think it actually has more with the intent of both people. If you are dating with the intent to start a committed, monogamous relationship, then it’s ok to wait.
The last girl I had feelings for, we both wanted to take things slow and we did. We fooled around pretty heavy, and even got naked, there just wasn’t any home runs. The self-control added to a lot of the attraction in my opinion. For me, I’m looking for that type of relationship and don’t mind waiting…for a while. That’s not to say I would be up for waiting for marriage…but I would definitely be up for waiting until we can both honestly look one another in the eyes and tell each other we love each other and mean it whole-heartedly. I’ve had my wild crazy fun, and I’m glad to have made it thru them and still be disease free….I’m actually at the point now where I’d rather wait, get to know someone, and ask them to share blood test results…because when you know your partner is clean, you can really get freaky and have some awesome peace of mind. Because guess what folks, it’s not like when you go fishing, you can’t just throw it back once you catch it!
Now, on the flip side, both men and women date with no intention of having a commitment, so they are the ones that likely want to hop in the sack soon.
Just remember, eating and exercise isn't the only health you folks need to look out for....be safe in the sack too!
Hey Modsquad8... you get an A+ in my book!!!0 -
No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT
Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.
Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin
Do you have any idea how much sex they have at the retirement home? It's like a co-ed college dorm except the people are old and the pills they pop are viagra and not ex
Have you been doing volunteer work?
Want to see the videos?
No, I get my own in-person session on hump days.0 -
if a guy doesn't like you because you don't put out, then fck him.
I'm kind of getting mixed signals here.0 -
Information I could have gone my entire life without.No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT
Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.
Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin
Do you have any idea how much sex they have at the retirement home? It's like a co-ed college dorm except the people are old and the pills they pop are viagra and not ex0 -
These are great threads to find out who is willing to put out.
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