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      Sweet! I'm going to print this out, frame it, and hang it on the wall next to my college degree.
      *unzips*
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      Truth. There's only one way to get what you want. Anyone who suggests that you lower your standards is simply seeking company in their misery.

      AGREE!!!!!
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      My guy waited for me :heart:
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      I think that it's great that you wait to be married! I'm like that to! My soon to be husband knows it's a good thing!
      Proverb 18:22 He who finds a good wife who nurtures his soul finds a good thing and favor in the eyes of the Lord! I AM THAT GOOD THING! :D
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      I'd be okay with that 20 years ago. Now I'm pushing 40 and don't have time to wait around to see if the woman would like making-the-sexy with me.

      If things fit (no pun intended) just let things go as fast as they go (no pun intended). None of this "I'm saving myself' stuff...great in highschool. Not good at this stage.

      Yep, even more imperitive after 40...
    • Posts: 5,214 Member
      Why do you care if you're being overlooked by men who don't share your core values?
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      I'd be okay with that 20 years ago. Now I'm pushing 40 and don't have time to wait around to see if the woman would like making-the-sexy with me.

      If things fit (no pun intended) just let things go as fast as they go (no pun intended). None of this "I'm saving myself' stuff...great in highschool. Not good at this stage.

      Could not disagree with this more.How dare you infer that morality is for high schoolers only? Having morals does not have an "expiration date". High standards do not suddenly become less acceptable after high school.

      Boy am I glad I'm already married so I don't have to weed out the men who act like farm animals, and only want women for one thing.
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      You're not being overlooked. You're being rejected as a potential partner because your core values differ from those of the guy in question. He was saving you both a lot of time and frustration. You are now both free to pursue relationships with other people whose values are in sync with your own.

      THIS.
      1000 times over.
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      PLEASE.

      Purdy Plz.
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      Sorry to hear that you get overlooked because of that. I say good for you - stick to your convictions!

      i agree stick to convictions i let mine down and only to find out the guy only wanted a one night fling i dont want that i want the real deal like u do long term
    • Posts: 1,103 Member
      Why don't you have sex? The problem isn't that guys can't wait until you are in a committed relationship. The issue is if you got married, would it be bad or boring sex? Once a month? Never allowed to see you naked? Too risky. I could wait for a month or three but after that, its time to put out or find someone new.

      I'm so glad there are enough skanky women out there for people like you. I, however, waited until I found a real man, with strong enough convictions and enough respect for me to keep it in his pants until we were married.
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      Could not disagree with this more.How dare you infer that morality is for high schoolers only? Having morals does not have an "expiration date". High standards do not suddenly become less acceptable after high school.

      Boy am I glad I'm already married so I don't have to weed out the men who act like farm animals, and only want women for one thing.

      How dare you assume a false moral high ground.

      I'm saying your defining of morals based on your paradigm is great - it's FINE. Has nothing to do what with morality really is because morality is defined by how folks see themselves in relation to their beliefs and perhaps their God.

      I'm saying sex outside of marriage is nobody's business - between the couple. But for my future beloved; she and I will either struggle to resist for whatever reason, OR we'll consumate the relationship in a way true to our feelings.

      I'm saying for somebody who is a grown adult - between consenting adults - 'waiting for something' - a ritual? a legal document? whatever it is - that's silly from my perspective.

      Morality is this: Let each find their path. I'm too old to play the waiting game SIMPLY for the sake of the game.

      edit - re-read your post.

      YOU my dear get an A+ at SELECTIVE READING. Ready my reply and try to figure out if I want a woman 'for just one thing'. If you are confused try www.hop.com
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      I'm so glad there are enough skanky women out there for people like you. I, however, waited until I found a real man, with strong enough convictions and enough respect for me to keep it in his pants until we were married.

      Honey are you religious? If so, you're being a real prick to people with whom you disagree. Terrible TERRIBLE arrogance (which is the opposite of LOVE). If you don't agree with folks try to use your people skills...talk to people and encourage them in love - not with your incessant berated.

      You sound like one of the pharisee - "Keepers of the Law' whom Christ hated.
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      Hey! :huh: My man is a real man...so much so that he got me in bed a full 2 years before we married! :devil:

      And I only get skanky when he waggles his eyebrows at me. :tongue:
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      Depends on the guy, I suppose. I was with someone before I met my wife, but she was waiting for marriage. I was happy to wait for her. :wink:
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      I'd be okay with that 20 years ago. Now I'm pushing 40 and don't have time to wait around to see if the woman would like making-the-sexy with me.

      If things fit (no pun intended) just let things go as fast as they go (no pun intended). None of this "I'm saving myself' stuff...great in highschool. Not good at this stage.

      ^^same in the 30s.
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      I'm so glad there are enough skanky women out there for people like you. I, however, waited until I found a real man, with strong enough convictions and enough respect for me to keep it in his pants until we were married.

      Aren't you that same idiot that posted a pic in another thread of a burned-to-death dog, with laughter?
    • Posts: 5,922 Member
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      Could not disagree with this more.How dare you infer that morality is for high schoolers only? Having morals does not have an "expiration date". High standards do not suddenly become less acceptable after high school.

      Boy am I glad I'm already married so I don't have to weed out the men who act like farm animals, and only want women for one thing.
      It's not 'one thing', it's one of a number of things that some people highly value in a relationship. How is it immoral to enjoy sex - something that humans have been doing for thousands of years and that has been a part of the natural order of nature since before man ever conceived the notion of marriage?
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      It's not 'one thing', it's one of a number of things that some people highly value in a relationship. How is it immoral to enjoy sex - something that humans have been doing for thousands of years and that has been a part of the natural order of nature since before man ever conceived the notion of marriage?

      Brother, don't try logic. She's hysterical.
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      I'm so glad there are enough skanky women out there for people like you. I, however, waited until I found a real man, with strong enough convictions and enough respect for me to keep it in his pants until we were married.

      I've enjoyed PLENTY of real men before I was married. Skanks of the world unite.

      ETA -- I left all of them. None of them got bored with sex with me.
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      Brother, don't try logic. She's hysterical.

      She preaches from her high moral horse, but her profile quote states "10 pounds to MILF status". :noway:
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      Maybe us guys should start sanctioning affection, spending quality time, security, emotional support, financial support and everything else you demand of a "real man" until marriage. Afterall, if you really love and respect us you can wait right :laugh:
    • Posts: 3,119 Member
      Maybe us guys should start sanctioning affection, spending quality time, security, emotional support, financial support and everything else you demand of a "real man" until marriage. Afterall, if you really love and respect us you can wait right :laugh:

      ^ WINNING!
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      She preaches from her high moral horse, but her profile quote states "10 pounds to MILF status". :noway:

      Oh hi. You must be new to MFP. :laugh:
    • Posts: 34,971 Member
      Wow..Troll Topic ftw..lmao!
    • Posts: 1,015 Member
      I'm 38 and have never had sex once. I have men flock to me. I don't know what you are doing wrong OP.
    • Posts: 1,650 Member
      the way the world is now, id say yes. sad but true.
    • Posts: 1,911 Member
      I'm 38 and have never had sex once. I have men flock to me. I don't know what you are doing wrong OP.

      well, she's contemplating dating a guy who has full custody and the ex is a methhead.. sooo... no telling
    • Posts: 1,015 Member
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      well, she's contemplating dating a guy who has full custody and the ex is a methhead.. sooo... no telling

      I change my mind. She knows what she is doing.
    • Posts: 1,015 Member
      That was fun pretending for a second there I am a virgin. :laugh: :tongue: (but it ended up being more boring than fun so I'M BACK!!!!!!!)
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