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wellbert

I wouldn't. I mean, if she cooks and cleans and takes care of stuff for me, then I could deal with it. I'd probably get plenty cheating on her anyway. So. no big.

SVCat

No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT

Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.


Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin

Do you have any idea how much sex they have at the retirement home? It's like a co-ed college dorm except the people are old and the pills they pop are viagra and not ex

Information I could have gone my entire life without.

I'm picturing ball sacks swinging wayyyyyyyyy lowwwwww...dentures flying...BOOM!

scs143

I wouldn't. I mean, if she cooks and cleans and takes care of stuff for me, then I could deal with it. I'd probably get plenty cheating on her anyway. So. no big.

I love honesty.

brunette_gurl_66

Wait. I thought you were dating some guy with kids. So how are you overlooked? Maybe post some more cryptic threads and we can figure out your drama.

lol

BeeElMarvin

A girl can be the most awesome chick ever but when a guy finds out she doesn't have sex he overlooks her. Am I the only one who gets overlooked?

not even a handy????

Camandes

In my opinion, you shouldn't expect a guy to suddenly have the same beliefs as you. If he doesn't want to wait he doesn't. If you do however find someone that shares the same beliefs as you then that's great. Most people nowadays don't have these beliefs and not many are willing to wait. I suppose that's what you have to expect.

SassyAshleigh

I'm 27 and I used to have "relations" (at work so trying to not give IT too much to talk about). I got back into church and until I get into another committed relationship, I do not plan on having "relations" again. AND if I get into the committed relationship, then I may just wait until marriage. It's the point that the RIGHT guy will RESPECT this. As you can tell, some of these guys don't respect that decision... and that's ok.... they just aren't for you. I wrote this, this morning:



"Just listened to the radio and heard a woman call in and explain on a segment that she went a year of dating without receiving or sending texts with potential people she dated. I love this concept! It is so easy for people to be lazy in dating.

Ladies and gentlemen, we get what we expect for ourselves. If you want higher caliber of people to date, THEN EXPECT MORE! You DESERVE the best! You ARE the best you! Even with your weight loss, and where you are RIGHT NOW, makes you the BEST YOU! The RIGHT person will see that!

If you want phone calls instead of texts, then demand it! If you want someone who opens doors for you, then demand it! If you want actual courting and not just flings, then demand it! If you are looking for the RIGHT person, and not just A person, then expect more from potential datees, and enjoy the ride;... but cut the ride short, if it's not what you want. Everyone has a different path... this is my path at this time. I demand more! I deserve more! "

You're not going to be the neighborhood cat lady. Don't let people get you down. At the end of the day, you have to live with yourself and no one else. Do what is right for you!

LittleMiss_WillLoseIt

No sex? Lolwut. Yea I understand no sex 1st date or 1st couple etc but if you flat out told me never or not until married etc. NEXT

Might as well spend my free time playing bingo down at the retirement home.


Im not hating or your decision to abstain just sayin

Do you have any idea how much sex they have at the retirement home? It's like a co-ed college dorm except the people are old and the pills they pop are viagra and not ex

Information I could have gone my entire life without.

I'm picture ball sacks swinging wayyyyyyyyy lowwwwww...dentures flying...BOOM!

Hahahaha & eewwww mental picture!!!! Lol

_JR_

Gotta love the hypocrisy of some women on MFP, who expect the guy to sacrifice his criteria in a mate, but she doesn't have to. Really?

It's simple. You don't want sex, and 99.9% of men do. You ARE going to get passed up A LOT. It's a simple case of "supply and demand". You supply only a little, therefor, there will be little demand.

You women who give guys crap because they are being honest about their intentions need to stop watching the House Wives of New Jersey. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

Ms_Steel

Oh, look. It's you again. :yawn:

Winner winner winner

SRSLY! a million times SRSLY

zoeluiisa

Do you mean not having sex on the first date, or not having sex till marriage, or not having sex ever?

fbmandy55

Oh, look. It's you again. :yawn:

yoovie

Not at all. I have a HUGE reputation for being the one that will NEVER put out when it comes to my scene here. Everyone has very high praise for me, but when someone hits on me, they'll laugh and slap the guy on the shoulder and wish him luck.

I dont mind having a spotless reputation though. It would kill me if I ever heard someone talk about how I always jumped from guy to guy to guy just because I was legitimately open to dating and finding a good man in full view of the people I know.

smtillman2

Maybe he's angry that you post provocative pictures of yourself on line but you don't want to share with him. :happy:

MisterGoodBar

Gotta love the hypocrisy of some women on MFP, who expect the guy to sacrifice his criteria in a mate, but she doesn't have to. Really?

It's simple. You don't want sex, and 99.9% of men do. You ARE going to get passed up A LOT. It's a simple case of "supply and demand". You supply only a little, therefor, there will be little demand.

You women who give guys crap because they are being honest about their intentions need to stop watching the House Wives of New Jersey. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

hahaha have to agree with this fully. completely selfish tones from so many od the ladies in this thread.

as men we can respect the decision that you make but if we dont fall in line with then ladies call us jerks and say we're unworthy or we're not good enough for "her". guys are practical. dont insult us to make yourselves feel better. we dont call you a prude if you dont fall in line w/ our beliefs, we just find someone who does and enjoy our time with that person.

guardian419

I was a slut when I was younger, but wasn't against long term relationships.... Funny thing about me was that I would never date a girl I could sleep with on the first date.

jackpotclown

well.......if ya put out you wouldn't have this kind of problem.........\m/

DetroitDarin

For the record.

If a woman plays her cards just right, I might be convinced to put-out on the first date.

SmexAppeal

You do what you feel you need to do. I, for one have the sex drive of a male... so I like to make with the sexy time. BUT... that doesn't mean I'm going to put out on the 1st, 2nd, 3rd date, yadda yadda yadda. It's about that feeling. You know when the time is right, and you let it just happen. And you protect yourself of course!!!
If a guy wants the *****, and you don't want to give it to him... then yeah, he's gonna move on. And let him, because you aren't ready.

yoovie

Not at all. I have a HUGE reputation for being the one that will NEVER put out when it comes to my scene here. Everyone has very high praise for me, but when someone hits on me, they'll laugh and slap the guy on the shoulder and wish him luck.

I dont mind having a spotless reputation though. It would kill me if I ever heard someone talk about how I always jumped from guy to guy to guy just because I was legitimately open to dating and finding a good man in full view of the people I know.

I should clarify that Im speaking about dating inside of my friends circle. The guy Im dating? I'd have sex with him until he begged me repeatedly to stop and I actually believed he meant it. you couldnt tear me off him with the jaws of life.