Personality or Looks

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  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    Personality matters foremost... but there is a sort of threshold for looks... I need to be attracted to them, just as I wouldn't want them to not be attracted to me
  • Awkward30
    Awkward30 Posts: 1,927 Member
    Let me keep it real....Looks. The less I know about you, the better. Who goes to a bar and says, "damn, look at her/him. I bet he/she can strike the *kitten* out of a conversation."

    Having said that, you clearly can't have a relationship without both. I'm just not looking for a relationship now, so I'm not big on personality now.

    Damn, check out the sense of humor on THAT one
  • atxdee
    atxdee Posts: 613 Member
    It's funny because almost everyone says personality. But when you meet someone for the first time of the opposite sex ,it is rare they will ask you out on a date based on your personality. So I think looks beats personality. BUT having said that, if you have no personality behind those looks, you would probably end up getting dumped at some point, unless the person is totally superficial. But then again most of us are, and lets not lie and say we are not. At least at first anyway.
  • DaniKenmir
    DaniKenmir Posts: 387 Member
    Oh god personality, my bf is attractive but that's not at all why I like him, though he's incredibly vain and openly admits it.
  • Ashleyr_85
    Ashleyr_85 Posts: 36
    Looks is all good but if you cannot stand the person you are with than whats the point. I think personality it what I look for in person. If you can make me laugh you are ahead of the game :wink:
  • tlsegar
    tlsegar Posts: 185 Member
    Looks can be made or broken by personality. Take my former neighbor for example. She isn't much to look at, but when her eyes meet mine and the sound of her voice resonates in my ears, I get that 'feeling' deep in my stomach. You know the one I'm speaking of. My stomach starts to contract and convulse then involuntarily purges its contents violently all over the floor. She is a troglodyte inside and out.

    LMAO!
  • MyPaperBleedsInk
    MyPaperBleedsInk Posts: 240 Member
    Well, looks are the first thing I'm going to notice... but it's all about personality and attitude. Basically, if you're ugly on the inside.... it's hard to get past that.
  • PhotogNerd
    PhotogNerd Posts: 420 Member
    Personality no doubt!

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