Being Deleted/Deleting Friends

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  • atxdee
    atxdee Posts: 613 Member
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    I dont think I even noticed if I have been deleted or not..
  • Rannybanani
    Rannybanani Posts: 98 Member
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    I delete people who burn 1500 calories in 30 minutes or who log 'standing' as exercise.


    I just pee'd my pants
  • lachesissss
    lachesissss Posts: 1,298 Member
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    Honestly, I delete people who don't log in for a while and people whose diary and exercise patterns suggest ED problems. That's my limits, I don't mind different personality or opinions, variety is the spice of life. I've been deleted, but can't tell you who did it because I don't really know, it doesn't bother me and whoever is no longer on my friends list because of their own choosing, I hope they find the support they seek elsewhere. It's not my job to bog others down or to bring the drama into their lives or whatever else. My job is to lose weight, and while I love my MFP FL, I lost about 20lbs before I even had a solid FL here. I just appreciate the extra motivation from my current friends now.
  • opalescence
    opalescence Posts: 413 Member
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    I'll delete people just to get my FL to a multiple of 5.

    I like it when mine adds up to 7.

    And I've had people delete me MINUTES after I accept their request. It happens. Can't let it get to you.

    thats funny... I believe you did the same thing to me :sad: :drinker:

    *runs and hides*
  • red051683
    red051683 Posts: 44 Member
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    I've probably been deleted, but haven't noticed. I wouldn't take it personally.

    I have deleted some people who I find I am unable to be supportive of. If I can't offer them support, why should I keep myself in their business? There are some really nice, hard working people who I still have on my friend's list that I find hard to support due to very different food philosophies (I'm not sure why they asked to be my friend since I am very open in my profile about it) but I try to still make supportive comments on occasion, but without saying anything about food choice. It's really not my business what people are eating, and if I don't think they are being healthy, that's what deleting is for.

    Don't be offended or hurt when you are deleted; it's not personal. We are all on our own journey and have to do what works best for each of us.

    THIS ^
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  • Alicia7519
    Alicia7519 Posts: 160
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    :laugh: I thought I got deleted by three people. It turns out that it's an advertisement for an app. I didn't notice the "Click Here It's Free" link. Duh.:embarassed: :laugh:
  • mogletdeluxe
    mogletdeluxe Posts: 623 Member
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    When I first joined MFP, I did a lot of accepting. A lot of my friend requests were devoid of messages, and I just bimbled along and accepted them. This pattern continued, and I recently ended up not being able to support those who were being good to me.

    Now, I only accept request with a bit of an explanation as to why they're adding me - no problem with that. I delete if people haven't logged in for a while or fail to interact in any way with me. Keeps things manageable.
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
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    I have not noticed if i've been deleted so it doesn't matter at all. As far as me deleting people, yes I have. Its annoying when someone adds you and says nothing...ever...I always do even if its something small. I expect the same in return
  • Impy84
    Impy84 Posts: 430
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    i delete ppl all the time
    say something stupid ie: "i think i'll only drink water today i gained a lb" wtf? DELETE
    stop logging DELETE
    no "interaction" DELETE

    as for if i've been deleted i've not noticed and i wouldn't give to good hot shyts. doesn't affect my rent or real life so why care
  • zombie_porno
    zombie_porno Posts: 199 Member
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    I delete people who never enter anything in their log, people who are b*chy about my methods (I don't ask you to agree, but don't lecture me), or people who whine about never losing weight but eat a ton of food every day.
  • xxthoroughbred
    xxthoroughbred Posts: 346 Member
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    Sometimes I friend people and then realize they're notorious on the forums for being idiots...

    Like yourself? As I scroll through your posts, you seem to be an exceptional know-it-all. I bow down to you, oh great one!

    :wink: :flowerforyou:
  • BeeElMarvin
    BeeElMarvin Posts: 2,086 Member
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    I've been deleted by people who I don't interact with often. It's no big deal. I only have - maybe 10-15 friends that I would feel bad if they dumped me. I enjoy being entertained by my news feed.
  • karrielynn80
    karrielynn80 Posts: 395 Member
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    i deleted people if
    1. we don't have any notable communication (if i can't remember or know we have never actually interacted)
    2. after adding them i realize our goals are not the same or on par
    3. if their posts reflect a personality i would not literally hang around
    *i recently deleted a great girl, who has made amazing progress & i loved her style & spunk. but her updates were always frustrated rants. they didn't make me excited to look for her updates & generally this wouldnt be enough to make me delete someone - but she made massive status updates, and it just got old. She's seriously an awesome person, i probably just didn't have enough friends being active as well to counter all her posts...
  • MB_Positif
    MB_Positif Posts: 8,897 Member
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    I am sure that people have deleted me but I haven't paid close enough attention to my number of friends to know for sure...and well, obviously I am not missing those people if I can't even be sure if I have been deleted or not! Don't sweat it. Only reach out if you feel it is necesarry, most people including myself delete people for the following reasons: inconsistent logging in or not at all, grossly undereating and/or promoting eating disorders, zero contact, they are reducing their numbers to people they really intereact with a lot to not be overwhelmed by trying to keep up with too many friends, or they think the person is just super annoying. In the event of the latter, would you really want to know?
  • krisiepoo
    krisiepoo Posts: 710 Member
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    I have deleted because they were so full of themselves that it made me ill... I have deleted because they were posting overly religious stuff asking us to pray she made it to the gym that day... I have deleted for political posts...

    I also am sure people have deleted me but I couldn't tell you the number of friends I have right now, so there's no way I'd know anyways
  • alpine1994
    alpine1994 Posts: 1,915 Member
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    I've deleted people that were inactive for over 2 months or so, just because. I've never deleted anyone else.

    I've become a little selective on friend requests that I accept though. No offense whatsoever, but I don't accept most older men. Our goals are often very different and there have been a few instances of creepiness. Facebook is creepy enough. I just want to log my stuff and put up pictures without feeling uncomfortable.
  • DaveMurphy6
    DaveMurphy6 Posts: 129 Member
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    I only have one friend so my feelings wont get hurt waaaaaaaaa

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