Am I the crazy one?

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  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Some of the more vulgar things can be a bit awkward to get in the middle of. But like you yourself said, you don't know their relationship. I personally tend to avoid making remarks like *smacks *kitten** or so on that I see often on my more fit female friends. But there are friends of mine who I have built enough relationship that I can say things to them openly and not worry about how others see it. An example is me writing this message towards a friend of mine on my wall that was seen by all of my friends. I did it to put a smile on a day that felt bad for her AND me so I got atleast 2 people to smile this way

    Jules, oh my darling Jules. This poor mans words don't do justice to how I feel about you. My hands won't allow me to write what you mean to me. They fear the world would consider me mad. This heart o mine beats only in hopes that you will once say you're mine. How long must you give me the gift of pain when my love for you can melt diamonds. My dearest, to me you're perfect.

    I have written such notes to others too. They all know I'm not serious. They all are non vulgar. They all put a smile on their (and my) face.
  • Sick_Beard
    Sick_Beard Posts: 407 Member
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  • naschulze
    naschulze Posts: 98
    Both sides are inappropriate, yet both love the attention. Some women post pics and comments to fish for comments from men and men comment because they know they wouldn't have the balls to say it in real life.
  • katamus
    katamus Posts: 2,363 Member
    *Immediately sends nudes to crazy8ts*



    Yes. You're the crazy one.

    I think a lot of the women on here are line-crossers FAR more than some men on here. And cheers to them, they're my favorites. :drinker:
  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,329 Member
    After all these years, nothing would raise my eyebrows. As long as they don't dis crochet, they can say what they want. :)
  • sgaranzuay
    sgaranzuay Posts: 34 Member
    Aww. You're cute.

    You should see the stuff that ^^^^^ she sends to me.
    No, YOU should see the stuff she sends ME!

    HAHAHAHA! Great one! But seriously, fishing is silly. We're here to lose weight and encourage/support each other as we make the journey.

    I don't think you're crazy. I think you're spot on!

    //Sev
  • DBiddle69
    DBiddle69 Posts: 682 Member
    Aww. You're cute.

    You should see the stuff that ^^^^^ she sends to me.
    No, YOU should see the stuff she sends ME!

    I want to SEE it!!
  • bulbadoof
    bulbadoof Posts: 1,058 Member
    It makes me really uncomfortable on MFP, but it doesn't bother me on other sites. I think it has something to do with the "user" vibe I get from a lot of the guys who message me on here - many women trying to lose weight are struggling with self-esteem issues at the same time. A lot of the messages I've gotten have come across as predatory, like they're looking for a girl who doesn't know her own worth.
  • Tilran
    Tilran Posts: 627 Member
    Something about if you cant handle the heat...get in the kitchen and make me a sandwich....Hmm I think that's right.
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    *Immediately sends nudes to crazy8ts*

    If I had known you'd send nudes, I woulda made that crazy posy myself.
  • crazy8ts
    crazy8ts Posts: 360
    *Immediately sends nudes to crazy8ts*

    If I had known you'd send nudes, I woulda made that crazy posy myself.

    Ah... it was a bluff.
  • HMD7703
    HMD7703 Posts: 761 Member
    It is not just on MFP... some men have carried this action over into real life. I have men say the craziest things in person... Hmmm really? Then they laugh it off. "Oh girl, you know I am kidding.. right?"
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    After all these years, nothing would raise my eyebrows. As long as they don't dis crochet, they can say what they want. :)
    that's where they use the mallet to hit the ball thru hoops then off a stick to win?
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    After all these years, nothing would raise my eyebrows. As long as they don't dis crochet, they can say what they want. :)
    that's where they use the mallet to hit the ball thru hoops then off a stick to win?

    Exactly.
  • yoovie
    yoovie Posts: 17,121 Member
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    just :heart:
  • MonicaMeeks
    MonicaMeeks Posts: 15 Member
    giving you a standing ovation! {CLAP CLAP}:bigsmile:
  • Going4Lean
    Going4Lean Posts: 1,078 Member
    I never get ppl sending me inappropriate stuff...WTF am I doing wrong? lol.

    ^^^^This
  • TheKitsune6
    TheKitsune6 Posts: 5,798 Member
    Hold on guys, guess who I'm doing an impression of:

    "Look at me! I go all around the internet telling people how they should act because I am always right and my opinion is the only proper way to live life! Yayayay!"

    I'm pretty sure it's none of your business how people conduct themselves to not you.

    *sings* Oooh baaaaby, talk dirty to meeeee
  • pastryari
    pastryari Posts: 8,646 Member
    Yea, it's really gross seeing these men say those things to women on here. I mean ew, haven't they heard of cooties?
  • taunto
    taunto Posts: 6,420 Member
    Hold on guys, guess who I'm doing an impression of:

    "Look at me! I go all around the internet telling people how they should act because I am always right and my opinion is the only proper way to live life! Yayayay!"

    I'm pretty sure it's none of your business how people conduct themselves to not you.

    *sings* Oooh baaaaby, talk dirty to meeeee

    Weren't you just recently telling others how rude they're being in a different thread....? Was it your business to tell people how to conduct their business that had nothing to do with you there?
  • wolverine66
    wolverine66 Posts: 3,779 Member
    did someone leave multiple soapboxes around here, or are people using the same soapbox and just taking turns?
  • msacurrie
    msacurrie Posts: 144 Member
    I have seen some rather...rough...behavior from both men and women on here, of all ages. But, thankfully, we can choose not to read certain posts or just ignore them. I do not keep people on my friends page with a foul mouth or negative things to say. I love that there are so many more positive, loving people on here, though, who are truly looking out for each other :)
  • devil_in_a_blue_dress
    devil_in_a_blue_dress Posts: 5,214 Member
    But I don't want to be saved....
  • fieldsy4life
    fieldsy4life Posts: 155
    My take on MFP.

    1. Women who were not really that good looking for the first 30 years of their life so flirting is new to them
    2. Men who were gigantic and married somebody gigantic and then started intermittent fasting and now they are slender and wanna spit game to cougars.
    3. People who count calories.
    4. People who count calories and love being able to say **** they couldn't on Facebook.

    If you're talking to somebody that you know is single and in your geographic area, take the conversation off MFP and let the creeps continue hitting them up on here.

    But I shouldn't reveal my secrets publicly ;)

    And I agree - some dudes are not being suave at all - it's pretty much the ish I see on "To Catch A Predator".

    Oh yeah, haters gonna hate.
  • TheRealParisLove
    TheRealParisLove Posts: 1,907 Member
    It's okay, it keeps me feeling justified in my misandronistic opinions of men.
  • jofjltncb6
    jofjltncb6 Posts: 34,415 Member
    While I can see OP's general point, I wouldn't begin to consider telling other people how they should or should not behave with each other, either online or off. Now how they interact with *me*, that *is* my business, but I will deal with that more directly (if necessary).

    And yeah, I'm still not convinced that OP's motives are completely pure in this. But I won't tell him he shouldn't do this either...if he finds some maidens in need of rescue, who am I to judge?
  • ILoveTheBrowns
    ILoveTheBrowns Posts: 661 Member
    My take on MFP.

    1. Women who were not really that good looking for the first 30 years of their life so flirting is new to them
    2. Men who were gigantic and married somebody gigantic and then started intermittent fasting and now they are slender and wanna spit game to cougars.
    3. People who count calories.
    4. People who count calories and love being able to say **** they couldn't on Facebook.

    If you're talking to somebody that you know is single and in your geographic area, take the conversation off MFP and let the creeps continue hitting them up on here.

    But I shouldn't reveal my secrets publicly ;)

    And I agree - some dudes are not being suave at all - it's pretty much the ish I see on "To Catch A Predator".

    Oh yeah, haters gonna hate.


    im not one to give props to dudes very often but you nailed it my friend........dead on nailed it.
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    I find it disrespectful when my friends DON'T say nasty things to me.
  • Iceman1800
    Iceman1800 Posts: 476
    But I don't want to be saved....
    Monty python at his finest :)
  • robin52077
    robin52077 Posts: 4,383 Member
    Dear guys that are posting inappropriate things to their friends:

    Add Me! :wink:

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