The kiss of death!!!!!

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  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    Thought about you this morning OBOE...my polling place was a firehouse.

    haha i thought you were going to say it had something to do with a blanket!
  • hougt
    hougt Posts: 1,088

    You could have exercised under the blanket :wink:

    I like the way you think

    Not on my own I couldn't lol

    really Bex? wow, i have perfected this!

    good morning everyone :)

    WELL, HOW YOU DURRRIINNNNN? :flowerforyou: :love: :smokin:

    This is what happens when you've been single for as long as i have....

    Single? With those baps? At least you are becoming an expert in underhand djing ;)
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    :bigsmile:
    Single? With those baps? At least you are becoming an expert in underhand djing ;)

    yup. 4 years. bit of a long and tragic tale...
    and i'm not becoming an expert... i am an expert....:bigsmile:
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    Please tell me you've had your itch scratched in that 4 years though???
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    Please tell me you've had your itch scratched in that 4 years though???

    oh good gracious, yes. not often (very unfortunately) but yes. haha
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    Oh thank goodness lol :bigsmile:
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    no kidding! i need to find a more dependable source tho... this every few months (only when he sets it up, never when i request) is just not working...

    or, you know, someone that actually wanted to date me that wasn't a d-bag....I would be good with that too!
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    no kidding! i need to find a more dependable source tho... this every few months (only when he sets it up, never when i request) is just not working...

    or, you know, someone that actually wanted to date me that wasn't a d-bag....I would be good with that too!

    Ha, I think we are very similar hun lol
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    thus why i'm living vicariously through your wonderful date!!!!
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    Haha, well he seems really keen so I could be out of the woods soon LOL :bigsmile:
  • tinz75
    tinz75 Posts: 912 Member
    You could always mention that you have a friend who would like to..... er... scratch her itch?
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    that's all he shows up for. apparently i'm not actually dating material in his opinion...
  • tinz75
    tinz75 Posts: 912 Member
    what's he know...? have you tried creeping through some other MFP users profiles to find a more suitable toy.. er, boyfriend :)
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    no, it's too much effort. i'd rather stick with what's familiar. that way, i know what i'm expecting, and he really is a nice guy. not some guy that's gonna get all clingy (i went on one date with a guy, and the next day he wanted to go to the grocery store with me, then proceded to call me 4 times a day for the next week) or call me socially ignorant (yeah, that was on a first date, after which he tried to grab my *kitten*...)

    just too much trouble. maybe one day.

    meantime, i'll settle for a nice one every now and then, and the pleasure of spending time with myself under a blanket :tongue:
  • tinz75
    tinz75 Posts: 912 Member
    So you don't go for the 'verbal abuse followed by a quick grope' sort of guy then?!
  • hougt
    hougt Posts: 1,088
    meantime, i'll settle for a nice one every now and then, and the pleasure of spending time with myself under a blanket :tongue:

    Can we watch? :tongue:
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    maybe i need to lower my standards? haha then i'd be happily settled down! :laugh:
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    that's all he shows up for. apparently i'm not actually dating material in his opinion...

    What a wanker!!!
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    meantime, i'll settle for a nice one every now and then, and the pleasure of spending time with myself under a blanket :tongue:

    Can we watch? :tongue:

    unfortunately, my blanket isn't big enough to cross an ocean... haha
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    meantime, i'll settle for a nice one every now and then, and the pleasure of spending time with myself under a blanket :tongue:

    Can we watch? :tongue:

    unfortunately, my blanket isn't big enough to cross an ocean... haha

    That's what Skype is for LOL (Not for me to watch by the way lol)
  • chrisa8170
    chrisa8170 Posts: 466 Member
    that's all he shows up for. apparently i'm not actually dating material in his opinion...

    I think this guy needs a reality check and my size 11 boot up his *kitten*, what's not dating material about you, especially if you turn up in the blue number. If I wasn't married I would date you..... everyone needs a hero :flowerforyou: and being a cool firehouse chick does it for me!
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    you're so sweet.... but the truth is, i'm damaged goods. i have more baggage than a 747, and it's really hard to find someone who is willing to deal with that.

    but that's what i've been dealt, and truthfully some days it really sucks, cause i'm super lonely, and other days, i just, well... i keep walking forward.

    maybe one day, but i'm not going to hold my breath until then. i don't need a man, i just want one (preferably one who wants me!)

    :)

    Bex, why didn't i think of skype????
  • Tracey1147
    Tracey1147 Posts: 951 Member
    Can we all help you from feeling super lonely to just lonely??
    We are all here on the never ending thread for you whenever you need
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    you're so sweet Tracey.

    The truth is, i "had it all". i had the love of my life (can you say love at first sight?) then one morning i woke up and it was all gone. he was killed in a car accident on the way to work. almost 4 years ago.

    it has taken me a long time (and A LOT) of therapy to get where i am. and for the first time, i feel like i'm in a really good place with myself. but it's a lot to ask other people to deal with, because it has changed a lot of how i see things, and it's not something that just falls by the wayside... it's a big part of who i am now...

    so i'm ok if i'm by myself. it's not such a bad thing. but a nice pair of arms around me, a warm body to snuggle up to... that would be nice (let's not forget a visit to my bedroom more often than once every few months!!!!)
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    Skype anyone? :-p
  • tinz75
    tinz75 Posts: 912 Member
    Hay Maria, wow, that's a tough deck you've been dealt... Just makes you all that more impressive, and glad you are pulling through. but from a boyfriend point of view, that's not baggage, it's just your life experiences and any bloke who can't accept you for what you are now isn't worth the time of day frankly.

    Still a bummer that you're stuck on your own at the moment, but like life has already shown you in the cruellest way possible, you never know what is around the corner and lets hope, for you, it's going to be some hunky guy who sweeps you off your feet.

    ...so what's your skype id :D

    bearhug.jpg
    It may not be the real thing, but hope it helps :)
  • oboeing
    oboeing Posts: 1,816 Member
    thanks tinz :) i can only hope. until then, i'm glad to be in such a good place for myself and finally taking control of my life. and my blanket and skype...
  • hougt
    hougt Posts: 1,088
    Sorry to hear everything Obo, but you are stronger now!

    So Skype FTW.....................ORGY!
  • chrisa8170
    chrisa8170 Posts: 466 Member
    you're so sweet Tracey.

    The truth is, i "had it all". i had the love of my life (can you say love at first sight?) then one morning i woke up and it was all gone. he was killed in a car accident on the way to work. almost 4 years ago.

    it has taken me a long time (and A LOT) of therapy to get where i am. and for the first time, i feel like i'm in a really good place with myself. but it's a lot to ask other people to deal with, because it has changed a lot of how i see things, and it's not something that just falls by the wayside... it's a big part of who i am now...

    so i'm ok if i'm by myself. it's not such a bad thing. but a nice pair of arms around me, a warm body to snuggle up to... that would be nice (let's not forget a visit to my bedroom more often than once every few months!!!!)

    Thanks for sharing that with us and for me it's a good sign of where you are to actually tell us something of your past. As tinz say's that's not baggage, Here have a e-HUG from me to keep you going until your next real one :flowerforyou:
  • Bex2Bslim
    Bex2Bslim Posts: 1,092
    Hay Maria, wow, that's a tough deck you've been dealt... Just makes you all that more impressive, and glad you are pulling through. but from a boyfriend point of view, that's not baggage, it's just your life experiences and any bloke who can't accept you for what you are now isn't worth the time of day frankly.

    Still a bummer that you're stuck on your own at the moment, but like life has already shown you in the cruellest way possible, you never know what is around the corner and lets hope, for you, it's going to be some hunky guy who sweeps you off your feet.

    ...so what's your skype id :D

    bearhug.jpg
    It may not be the real thing, but hope it helps :)

    ^^^This^^^ Couldn't have put it better myself, so I won't try. Very brave lady xx
    :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:

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