Reminder: The Scale Does NOT Define You!

LorinaLynn

I can't count how many threads I've seen just in the past week that were along the lines of "My clothes are getting looser and I look thinner, but the DAMN SCALE WON'T BUDGE! How can I make the number drop!?!" :sad:

Stop it. Just stop it. Now.

If you're getting smaller, you're doing things right. It doesn't matter what the effect the earth's gravitational pull has on you at any given moment. No one knows that number but you.

To illustrate that point... Last October, I reached my goal weight of 126 pounds. I wanted to be 9 stones. No, I'm not British, but I like the number nine. And actually, I got to 125.5 pounds. To celebrate my victory over the bastardly scale, I bought new jeans.

These are those jeans last year.



Happy camper. Loved how I looked.

SINCE then, the scale has bounced around quite a bit. Between being on the bench about six weeks in January with a stress fracture, some trial and error with trying to find exactly what maintenance is, a few lazy weeks in June when I lost my mojo and then caught the flu... But I stuck with it, and tried to ignore the scale best I could. I eat about 2100 calories a day Monday through Friday, don't log on the weekends at all, run 3x a week and lift weights 3x a week (stronglifts 5x5, just started week 2, but I've been lifting).

I'm currently about 132-133 pounds. And here's those same jeans today.



I'm about 7 or 8 pounds heavier, but I could smuggle a loaf of bread down my pants.

And that's why I always say... Track your progress through measurements, how clothes fit, and progress photos, not just by the scale. The scale is a lying, cheating *kitten* who kicks puppies and takes candy from babies. Don't give it any power over you.

Like I said in a couple threads today... Losing pounds is like getting a promotion at work with a big fancy title, but no pay raise. Losing inches without much in the line of pounds is like getting a big fat pay raise. Which will matter more in your day to day life?

(Edit: I hate how the camera flash washes out all definition. :grumble: )

meerkat70

My god, woman, you are stunning.

I'm going to bookmark this thread, to remind me how stupid my scale obsession can be.

_AllieCat_

THANK YOU for posting this! You have photographic proof that the scale is not the best tool to measure progress.

I was getting frustrated that the scale hasn't moved in over a month, but I am looking smaller and have lost an inch in both my waist and hips during this month. I do weight train, so I attribute this to muscle gain/fat loss.

I needed to see this today.

You look absolutely stunning by the way.

bsierras

AMEN!! Thank you for reminding me. It is nice to see the scale drop when you have a lot to lose, but it feels so much better when your clothes are loose or you look good in the new shirt. I know I feel so much better the days I eat healthier...not rocket science. I know that as long as I am moving and eating better I am getting closer and closer to a healthier me.

bobie1978

Great post

peachea

I love when you post! Such a great motivator!!! Thank you!!

kimama01

You never cease to amaze me. I LOVE reading your posts. I especially enjoy your pictures, because a picture is worth a thousand words. Thanks for inspiring me everyday.

shoshi68

Love this.

LuccyH

Thank you for sharing and I know you are right. Im not loosing a lot of weight on scale but measurments are different, still long way to go but I feel better in my clothes. You are an inspiration.

3springchicks

GREAT Timing for your post. I've been pretty down lately about my daily (morning) battle with the Scale. Yes, I know I SHOULD NOT weigh myself each day, but I find it helps to keep my goals front and foremost in my mind throughout the day. I've made some great progress already, though I still have quite a bit to go. Your post helped me to put my "Scale Battles" into perspective. Thank you! Message received. I will keep up the good fight, and focus on measurements, not pounds.

shanolap

Thanks for the reminder!

love4fitnesslove4food_wechange

Wow! What a difference! that's amazing

Yanicka1

Everyone should read this.

PetulantOne

:drinker:
You're post always remind me what is important. Thank you!

kimiel51

I'm about to go on a scale strike! Damned thing!:grumble: :grumble:

happypath101

As always, you speak the truth. And, I LOVE the analogy. Having had several "promotions" without a pay raise, that one really hits home for me. Well said!

MelissaGraham7

new obsession....forget the scale....I wanna look like you!!

inspiring, as always

sc1572

THANK YOU!

mandamommy3

You are awesome!

totallydevious

tobnrn

Everyone should read this. The proof is in the pudding. Woot woot.

phatnotfat81

ditto

kylakesgal

First of all you look freaking amazing!!! Second I agree with you.....the scale is definately a big fat liar!!! I've been pumping up my strength training now for several months in addition to the workouts I've been doing consistenly now for over 600 days. I've noticed since I pumped up the strength, my weight has increased by 5 lbs on most days. You have proven to me that the scales aren't that big of a deal and we should be focused more on how we feel and look then that darn number on the scales, Thank you:):)

ObtainingBalance

I love this. You are an amazing inspiration.

teemarania

Thanks for posting this! I constantly weigh myself and get frustrated when it fluctuates. I gotta keep this as a reminder

Cheryl188

I keep this running through my head daily. The scale hasn't moved for me in over 3 months, but my clothes are falling off. It's the weight training that changes your body.

MinMin97

Love it Lorina!
Thanks for the always great thread and pics:)

skifvr1

You ROCK! Congratulations and thanks for the positive message!

californiagirl2012

You are so right. The scale is an inferior tool anyway. It's okay as a trend tool over time, but even then it's inferior over say a DXA scan or hydrostatic body composition test.

Your body loses weight in chunks, not linear. I have found that you can do everything right and your weight loss seems to plateau but if you are patient and keep exercising and eating at a deficit (however slight) you will lose it, it will suddenly "whoosh". There are so many variables for the scale; water retention, digestion, hormones, allergies, sodium, carbs, water intake, DOMS, inflammation, the list goes on. People mistakenly think they lose or gain weight when they eat more or less because of these fluctuations.

Losing weight requires tremendous patience. You will not lose it when you want it or where you want it. The body does its thing. Some apparent plateaus can last a month or so. You cannot make it happen faster. You must focus on two things; calories and exercise. Nothing else matters. Scales and metrics don't matter. The day in and day out grind of exercise and calories are all that matters. It is not very exciting until things fall into place. You get your victories and you ride one victory to the next.

The scale is a trend tool. The scale is good but put it away and only check once a week and only use it as a trend tool. It will fluctuate, it does not matter. Take front side and back progress pictures at least once a month. You will see differences that the metrics won't tell you and it's that little bit of NSV that will keep you going until the next victory.

KnightAmber

Thank you for this post soooo needed it :flowerforyou:

WilmaDennis91

Thank you so much!