Guys, what type of girl do u like physically?

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  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    OP...Your profile suggests you're married...are you? Obviously he finds you attractive

    Yeah, but it's not enough. It doesn't make me hate myself any less.

    Well that's your issue to work through then. How do you think it makes your husband feel to know his opinion doesn't count? What are you after? Guys falling over themselves to sleep with you? This will not give you the confidence and self worth you are after

    He understands. We've talked ab it. I just want to be beautiful & noticed. Ur prob right, it won't. Idk what I'm doing anymore.
  • Natashaa1991
    Natashaa1991 Posts: 866 Member
    yeah i saw the photos. that's not a shape. i will keep my huge waist. :P
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    OP...Your profile suggests you're married...are you? Obviously he finds you attractive

    Yeah, but it's not enough. It doesn't make me hate myself any less.

    hate yourself girl please you got some dam sexy legs

    my upper inner thighs are fat & my upper body is horrible. But thank u anyways.
  • IronmanPanda
    IronmanPanda Posts: 2,083 Member
    Breathing
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    OP...Your profile suggests you're married...are you? Obviously he finds you attractive

    Yeah, but it's not enough. It doesn't make me hate myself any less.
    Maybe you should get some kind of therapy? There is not shame in it. No matter how many guys tell you you're hot, no matter how much weight you lose or how in shape you get it won't help you self-esteem if it's an emotional thing you got going on.

    I'm starting to realize tht. People on my list have already noticed tht the more weight I lose, the worse I get. It's because I'm disappointed. I thought I would look good at my weight, not horrible. I was lookin n2 therapy, but the mental health center doesnt kno how to answer their phone, so I just gave up.
  • Jester522
    Jester522 Posts: 392
    Apple, pear, hourglass or straight?
    Fit, thin or plump?
    Or are you just not picky at all?
    Just curious as to what everyone likes. I always wonder. I know everyone likes different things, so it'll be interesting to find out.


    Hard body hourglass. Curvy but tight. I want something to grab onto.
  • Phaedra2014
    Phaedra2014 Posts: 1,254 Member
    Yeah, but it's not enough. It doesn't make me hate myself any less.

    Maybe you need to focus on the self-hatred issue rather than body type.
  • bestbassist
    bestbassist Posts: 177 Member
    I guess my preference would be stump-shaped...no legs or arms. An oversized fleshlight with central heating. Also, if she's mute that's a definite plus.
  • elprincipito
    elprincipito Posts: 1,200 Member
    I like rectangle shaped girls. no curves what so ever.
    you winz
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    yeah i saw the photos. that's not a shape. i will keep my huge waist. :P

    don't change a thing ^_^
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    OP...Your profile suggests you're married...are you? Obviously he finds you attractive

    Yeah, but it's not enough. It doesn't make me hate myself any less.
    Maybe you should get some kind of therapy? There is not shame in it. No matter how many guys tell you you're hot, no matter how much weight you lose or how in shape you get it won't help you self-esteem if it's an emotional thing you got going on.

    I totally agree with someonesomepl, this is getting confusing for the rest of us. Most of these posts are meant be entertainment, not reassurrance of your sex appeal. Does that make sense?

    It wasn't for reassurance for me. I didn't post any pics of myself & ask what people thought lol I don't have sex appeal. I was just wonderng what guys liked. now i understand what I'm lacking.
  • lachesissss
    lachesissss Posts: 1,298 Member
    Well I know Sir Mix-a-lot's type of girl.... and I quote:

    I like big butts and I can not lie
    You other brothers can't deny
    That when a girl walks in with an itty bitty waist
    And a round thing in your face
    You get sprung, wanna pull out your tough
    'Cause you notice that butt was stuffed
    Deep in the jeans she's wearing
    I'm hooked and I can't stop staring
    Oh baby, I wanna get with you

    Ahem. So, case closed.
  • RumRum85
    RumRum85 Posts: 61 Member
    now i understand what I'm lacking

    * check the profile pics *

    Some Leather and a guitar?
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    I guess my preference would be stump-shaped...no legs or arms. An oversized fleshlight with central heating. Also, if she's mute that's a definite plus.

    literally LOL
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    OP...Your profile suggests you're married...are you? Obviously he finds you attractive

    Yeah, but it's not enough. It doesn't make me hate myself any less.

    hate yourself girl please you got some dam sexy legs
    my upper inner thighs are fat & my upper body is horrible. But thank u anyways.


    4sure see a doc

    but from your pics your one sexy lady
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    now i understand what I'm lacking

    * check the profile pics *

    Some Leather and a guitar?

    lol what? I don't get it.
  • lbmore33
    lbmore33 Posts: 1,013 Member
    im kinda fond of petite women imo (too cute too sexy)...
  • shinesunfish
    shinesunfish Posts: 93 Member
    It really bugs me when women feel the need to point out all the little things about their bodies that they hate. Odds are, your husband or sig. thinks that you are pretty hot the way you are, but the more you run yourself down the more they also start to notice all of those little things. Like, "hey, her eyebrows ARE a little crooked..." or "her thighs ARE a little jiggly..." They don't care - they love you and think that you are very sexy. Stop pointing out reasons that they shouldn't feel that way. The more you say it, the more it becomes reality - and you also pass on those insecure feelings to other women and especially little girls that you know. It's a sickness.

    The common thread in most of these answers, other than the OBVIOUS (most men like boobs and butts) is that men are attracted to confidence. If you are confident and approachable, men will be into you no matter your hip to waist ratio or the definition of your abs. Of course you need to be physically attractive, but can you say that you are only attracted to men who look like Hugh Jackman? I definitely was always a dark-hair, beard-loving kind of gal, but I ended up with a totally handsome blonde, clean-shaven man. He has physical flaws, of course, but he doesn't always yammer on about them, and I don't really notice.

    This got kind of rant-y, but I hope you get my point.
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    im a coke bottle.....:bigsmile:

    I'll have a coke PLEASE .................:happy:
  • shorty35565
    shorty35565 Posts: 1,425 Member
    OP...Your profile suggests you're married...are you? Obviously he finds you attractive

    Yeah, but it's not enough. It doesn't make me hate myself any less.

    hate yourself girl please you got some dam sexy legs
    my upper inner thighs are fat & my upper body is horrible. But thank u anyways.


    4sure see a doc

    but from your pics your one sexy lady

    Thanks. I wish I could feel tht way. I'm tryin 2 find one. But anyways, back on subject.
  • RumRum85
    RumRum85 Posts: 61 Member
    now i understand what I'm lacking

    * check the profile pics *

    Some Leather and a guitar?

    lol what? I don't get it.

    I saw your pics, and I saw a potential rock star girl. Just need some leather clothe and a guitar!
  • mavrick7
    mavrick7 Posts: 1,607 Member
    It really bugs me when women feel the need to point out all the little things about their bodies that they hate. Odds are, your husband or sig. thinks that you are pretty hot the way you are, but the more you run yourself down the more they also start to notice all of those little things. Like, "hey, her eyebrows ARE a little crooked..." or "her thighs ARE a little jiggly..." They don't care - they love you and think that you are very sexy. Stop pointing out reasons that they shouldn't feel that way. The more you say it, the more it becomes reality - and you also pass on those insecure feelings to other women and especially little girls that you know. It's a sickness.

    The common thread in most of these answers, other than the OBVIOUS (most men like boobs and butts) is that men are attracted to confidence. If you are confident and approachable, men will be into you no matter your hip to waist ratio or the definition of your abs. Of course you need to be physically attractive, but can you say that you are only attracted to men who look like Hugh Jackman? I definitely was always a dark-hair, beard-loving kind of gal, but I ended up with a totally handsome blonde, clean-shaven man. He has physical flaws, of course, but he doesn't always yammer on about them, and I don't really notice.

    This got kind of rant-y, but I hope you get my point.

    Well spoken! Yes, that is how we feel, so lets go back to having some fun :laugh:
  • Rubie81
    Rubie81 Posts: 720 Member
    I find it very interesting that so many women are trying to figure out how they can meet or qualify as "hot" or attractive to guys. My recommendation, be comfortable with who you are. Don't change yourself and get a boob job. Everyone has a gift or talent, and I see beauty in all women.

    Because it's nice to be noticed. All my life I've felt invisible, I just want to feel accepted. But I don't have big boobs or a big butt. This thread basically lets me know not to hold my breath ab ever becoming visible. I don't have what it takes.

    Definitely not the attitude to have. Confidence, my friend. That is key. And a good sense of humor. None of that whiney stuff--men hate that!
  • Cougarita65
    Cougarita65 Posts: 240 Member
    I always thought I was an apple, but now I see I'm a banana...ha ha ha !!!
    Fruit salad anyone...lol
  • pamcuster
    pamcuster Posts: 770 Member
    I guess my preference would be stump-shaped...no legs or arms. An oversized fleshlight with central heating. Also, if she's mute that's a definite plus.

    literally LOL

    My first thought was, "Well, there's a brutally honest guy!"
  • mavrick7
    mavrick7 Posts: 1,607 Member
    I always thought I was an apple, but now I see I'm a banana...ha ha ha !!!
    Fruit salad anyone...lol

    *waves hand up high* to Hattiethetatt

    Yes, I have some fruit salad! :laugh:
  • NormalSaneFLGuy
    NormalSaneFLGuy Posts: 1,344 Member
    I always thought I was an apple, but now I see I'm a banana...ha ha ha !!!
    Fruit salad anyone...lol
    *comes with spoon*
  • makkman
    makkman Posts: 212
    Hattie is a banana with many curves
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    I always thought I was an apple, but now I see I'm a banana...ha ha ha !!!
    Fruit salad anyone...lol

    sure I have calories to burn I'll have a double serving
  • mavrick7
    mavrick7 Posts: 1,607 Member
    Note to OP: See how the confidences lures men? That is more compelling than the shape. :smile: