Wives/Girlfriends and Gentlemens Clubs......

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  • embercakez
    embercakez Posts: 141
    it's not like I haven't THOUGHT it was a trap but, she's brought it up a few times and usually after she has a couple of drinks so, I know her inhibitions are a little less when she says it. But, I always blow it off and think "oh, she's just buzzin and talkin crap" Maybe we'll just have to seriously talk about it and give it a try. I've passed trap tests before...as long as I mind my own and give her most of the attention even in the club...might work out.

    How about this...take her out for a nice dinner and some drinks...get her nice and buzzed and when she says "we should go to strip club sometime" you say "well how about right now"? boom! then once you are there enjoy the show of t&a in your wifes face. (:
  • DoomCakes
    DoomCakes Posts: 806 Member
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    My thoughts exactly... coming from a female perspective, if she's the jealous type, it's a total trap for her to find something to get annoyed about how that stripper was paying attention to you.
  • Heaven71
    Heaven71 Posts: 706 Member
    Been there and done that, waste of money and a couple of evenings that could have been better spent. Wouldn't do it again but my guy would never go even if it were my idea.
  • Drussander
    Drussander Posts: 266 Member
    That's crazy talk! I would stick with something safe, like making pottery or taking a cooking class....because taking your wife or girlfriend to a strip club is a recipe for disaster. Does your wife really need to see you get a lap dance?

    I say turn the tables on her and take her to a club that is for the ladies.
  • IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym
    IpuffyheartHeelsinthegym Posts: 5,573 Member
    if she is jealous over something little, what do you THINK will happen when there are gorgeous,scantily clad women with their breasts out in your face, thonged crotch grinding yours going to make her do?
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    ok, here's the deal....My wife has mentioned several times over the course of the past few months that we should get a sitter for the kiddos and go to a strip club. What does that mean?

    A little wifey background....she's the jealous type, if I comment about how another woman looks, it better be a derogatory comment or I'm in the doghouse for a day or two. So, I don't get it......who's going to get in more trouble at a strip club....me or her?

    Go for it, could lead to the dream we all have, three ball baby HIGH FIVES
  • spade117
    spade117 Posts: 2,466 Member
    Married 7 yrs and happily.

    7 yr itch.
  • GeekGirl23
    GeekGirl23 Posts: 517 Member
    My husband and I have an understanding that our hearts are each others but our eyes are our own. As long as we come home to each other looking ain't no thang!!

    If you have a jealous wife and now she's offering this up... RED FLAG!!! She maybe only jealous or getting after you because she's doing some shady stuff on the side and because of the guilt accusing you. Or maybe she's into women and wants to find someone for you to play with.
  • rossi02
    rossi02 Posts: 549 Member
    Next time she mentions it, tell her to plan the date then. That it's not really your thing, but if it's something she wants to do, you'll tag along with her.

    1) You pass the test
    2) You may even end up at the club
    3) You show her than you support her "interest"

    Sounds like a win all the way around to me!
  • JustJennie1
    JustJennie1 Posts: 3,749 Member
    Ask her why she wants to go. She could just be looking for your reaction or she could just want to see what it's all about.

    I go all the time with my husband and as some people pointed out the girls are the ones who get the most attention when they are there with their guys.

    ETA: I'm also not the jealous type and there is no way I could be in a relationship with someone who is not only jealous but sets "traps" to try and "catch me" doing something wrong. That's just wrong all around. How can you have a relationship like that?

    Married 7 yrs and happily. I just know she has some insecurities from her previous marriage and I respect that.

    Wow. After 7 years she needs to get over those insecurities. I mean really. If you're happily married and you're ok with your wife setting traps for you then power to you.
  • tashjs21
    tashjs21 Posts: 4,584 Member


    I say turn the tables on her and take her to a club that is for the ladies.

    If she is wanting some girl action and wanting some boobies in her face, this will not be a good solution.

    I'd be all for seeing beautiful women with my man but being around half naked muscle dudes around him would just be uncomfortable.
  • tashjs21
    tashjs21 Posts: 4,584 Member
    Next time she mentions it, tell her to plan the date then. That it's not really your thing, but if it's something she wants to do, you'll tag along with her.

    1) You pass the test
    2) You may even end up at the club
    3) You show her than you support her "interest"

    Sounds like a win all the way around to me!

    ^ Best advice so far! :drinker:
  • Owsla135
    Owsla135 Posts: 350 Member
    She probably wants to see how many of the strippers know you by name...
  • HollyAus
    HollyAus Posts: 241 Member
    Seriously?!?! A trap?? Who would do that.

    Hey hun... Let's go to a strip club
    OK
    But if you look at those women I'll be mad

    that's like putting hot fresh bacon on a plate and saying "don't eat that!"

    Women!
  • majikmiker
    majikmiker Posts: 291 Member
    Perhaps you know a couple who is a bit more liberal who could "suggest" a double date for you guys to the club? That way it doesn't come directly from you and you get to test and see if she is actually interested? :huh:
  • fatfrost
    fatfrost Posts: 365 Member
    Just say no.
  • Drussander
    Drussander Posts: 266 Member
    Maybe she actually meant a club on the strip? Don't project your own desires when listening to she who must be obeyed.....
  • AlbaAngel25
    AlbaAngel25 Posts: 484 Member
    it sounds like a trap....
    this is how it'll go down


    she'll mention it to you again in the near future....and this time you'll say "yeah, we should go, friday night maybe?" and then she'll hit you with the " I can't believe you would ACTUALLY TAKE ME to the STRIP CLUB, obviously you wanna go .....bla bla bla bla...." and it all goes down hill from there.... I could be wrong but,

    thats just my two cents!!
  • pawnstarNate
    pawnstarNate Posts: 1,728 Member
    Ask her why she wants to go. She could just be looking for your reaction or she could just want to see what it's all about.

    I go all the time with my husband and as some people pointed out the girls are the ones who get the most attention when they are there with their guys.

    ETA: I'm also not the jealous type and there is no way I could be in a relationship with someone who is not only jealous but sets "traps" to try and "catch me" doing something wrong. That's just wrong all around. How can you have a relationship like that?

    Married 7 yrs and happily. I just know she has some insecurities from her previous marriage and I respect that.

    You've been married 7 years and she's still insecure about her previous marriage?


    You, sir, are a saint.

    Not a saint but, definately consider myself a decent guy....Her ex was a cheater and a crackhead. We've raised his two kids without a dime from him....oops, wrong thread

    It could be a fantasy thing for her. I've noticed her raise an eyebrow during a lil porn foreplay at the lesbian and threesome scenes. But, 99% of the time she's pretty modest. I will just have to ask her more about it next time she brings it up...mention to her I feel like it would be a trap for her to throw at me later on.
  • thebigcb
    thebigcb Posts: 2,210 Member
    A cheat and a crackhead, tough act to follow, bar murdering her mother and shaggin' her sister feel free to do as you please

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