Harsh opinions wanted!!!

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  • Shange_Gully
    Shange_Gully Posts: 106
    Dumb thread
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    I have decided if I give a harsh opinion I will get another strike and it's simply not worth it. Thank goodness I am not PMS-ing.

    OP, you are pretty. How's that?
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
    Ok, so I've noticed that since I've lost weight, I can't go out without anyone trying to take me home. Now, I have mixed feelings about this and it's not limited to guys. My.girlfriends also try (I'm not offended and actually flattered). My ordeal is that I don't truly believe that it's because I'm attractive. I've met beautiful girls who are overweight who get attention and, have friends worth awesome bodiesv and terrible faces and bad attitudes. All of whom get hit on. I want to be the total package so I would greatly appreciate any critism to ground me and give me something to work toward. I'm being conscious about who I am and trying not to become a *kitten* while I lose weight like I've seen do many times before. I want to ground myself and start humble.

    Okay. So I don't even know where to start here. I would never make comments of this nature under normal circumstances. But you did just throw a slow pitch over home plate, so naturally I feel inclined to swing at it.

    I don't know what your intent was with this topic, other than to hear people tell you you're hot and wonderful and whatever. This isn't going to be that response. My response would be that you need to quit trying to feed your self esteem from the opinions of others. Otherwise, life is going to suck when you're forty and nobody's interested in feeding your shallow ego. Looks are only gonna get you so far in life. When those are gone, you'd better have something to back it up. Based on the arrogance of the comments above, I don't believe you currently do. So you might want to work on this in your free time instead of hanging out at bars where darn near anyone could get picked up if the hour is late enough and the guys are desperate enough.

    And if you're worried about becoming one of those *kitten* while you lose weight, I'd suggest running your posts past an honest friend (preferably an overweight one) before you put them on MFP. Because you really are coming off as an incredibly shallow, narcisistic person with zero self esteem looking for someone to tell you how pretty you are.

    Honestly? I'd rather be me fat than you skinny. And that's my harsh opinion.
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
    I have decided if I give a harsh opinion I will get another strike and it's simply not worth it. Thank goodness I am not PMS-ing.

    OP, you are pretty. How's that?

    Wait. What's a strike? Can I get kicked off here for telling the painful truth? Crap, nobody told me about that...:sad:
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    My strike was for saying what I did to my now husband on our first date. Sooooooo I think the strikes can be a variety of things. :laugh:

    But they frown upon being mean too. :tongue:
  • sizzle92
    sizzle92 Posts: 1,015 Member
    And if you're worried about becoming one of those *kitten* while you lose weight, I'd suggest running your posts past an honest friend (preferably an overweight one) before you put them on MFP. Because you really are coming off as an incredibly shallow, narcisistic person with zero self esteem looking for someone to tell you how pretty you are.

    Honestly? I'd rather be me fat than you skinny. And that's my harsh opinion................................................................................................

    She asked for it, love.
  • alarae
    alarae Posts: 263 Member
    I don't think it has anything to do with the way you look. Maybe it's that you are more confident. A lot of guys like confidence in a girl for a relationship, but if they're just wanting to get in your pants they look for the most emotionally vulnerable woman they can find. Just don't go around thinking you are better than everyone else and everything should be fine.

    This I agree with totally!
  • RobynMWilson
    RobynMWilson Posts: 1,540 Member
    I get hit on so much I can't even be bothered to answer text msgs or inbox msgs anymore. And i"m standoffish in person b/c I'm a lil shy in person. It gets really really old. As for staying grounded, I don't see myself the way everyone else sees me. I still see the obese kid I once was. So I guess that keeps me "grounded" lol. My golden rule is that I NEVER EVER forget where I came from!
  • naples89
    naples89 Posts: 33 Member
    This entire thread is a really transparent plea for attention. Hows that for harsh
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    Oh I'm so cursed. Everyone wants to take me home. I'm need a harsh opinion to ground me. Really? How about you sound vapid, shallow and narcissistic. Someone needs a reality check.

    ding ding....winner winner chicken dinner.
  • rextcat
    rextcat Posts: 1,408 Member
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    Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak out and remove all doubt.
    -Abraham Lincoln
  • jboccio90
    jboccio90 Posts: 644 Member
    I'm not sure if this is serious...
  • RobynMWilson
    RobynMWilson Posts: 1,540 Member
    I get hit on so much I can't even be bothered to answer text msgs or inbox msgs anymore. And i"m standoffish in person b/c I'm a lil shy in person. It gets really really old. As for staying grounded, I don't see myself the way everyone else sees me. I still see the obese kid I once was. So I guess that keeps me "grounded" lol. My golden rule is that I NEVER EVER forget where I came from!
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    This thread(meaning the OP) is ridiculous.
  • OhKelsey1
    OhKelsey1 Posts: 139
    ... Why did I read all of this?
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    This thread(meaning the OP) is ridiculous.


    duh. :drinker:
  • thrashrn
    thrashrn Posts: 35
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  • Corsetopia
    Corsetopia Posts: 307 Member
    I get hit on so much I can't even be bothered to answer text msgs or inbox msgs anymore. And i"m standoffish in person b/c I'm a lil shy in person. It gets really really old. As for staying grounded, I don't see myself the way everyone else sees me. I still see the obese kid I once was. So I guess that keeps me "grounded" lol. My golden rule is that I NEVER EVER forget where I came from!


    ? :laugh:
  • TheCaren
    TheCaren Posts: 894 Member
    This entire thread is a really transparent plea for attention. Hows that for harsh

    Ding ding ding! We have a winner! :happy:
  • Litlbeast
    Litlbeast Posts: 340 Member
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    I want to personally thank all of you for this excellent entertainment. :happy:
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    And if you're worried about becoming one of those *kitten* while you lose weight, I'd suggest running your posts past an honest friend (preferably an overweight one) before you put them on MFP. Because you really are coming off as an incredibly shallow, narcisistic person with zero self esteem looking for someone to tell you how pretty you are.

    Honestly? I'd rather be me fat than you skinny. And that's my harsh opinion................................................................................................

    She asked for it, love.

    <3
  • senami632
    senami632 Posts: 134 Member
    Stop hanging out in the meat market and you probably won't get treated like a piece of meat.

    LOL!
  • lachesissss
    lachesissss Posts: 1,298 Member
    Stop hanging out in the meat market and you probably won't get treated like a piece of meat.

    LOL!

    Lolz ^2. Seriously!
  • elenathegreat
    elenathegreat Posts: 3,988 Member
    Ummmmmmm.....okay, how's this-- Harsh, I know, but you did ask...
  • mandeiko
    mandeiko Posts: 1,657 Member
    I don't even want to post on this ridiculous thread.

    Oh wait... :huh:
  • djsupreme6
    djsupreme6 Posts: 1,210 Member
    don't know how harse it is but no wonder people try and take you home...your body is smokin hot and your face is gorgeous
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    don't know how harse it is but no wonder people try and take you home...your body is smokin hot and your face is gorgeous
    Something tells me she knows this.
  • kochou
    kochou Posts: 19 Member
    wow, this thread was entertaining. i guess i'm easily amused. >_< you want a harsh critique? you're an attention *kitten*.
  • FlaxMilk
    FlaxMilk Posts: 3,452 Member
    Moniqua, I'm wondering if you are feeling guilty about having pride in yourself when people hit on you. You don't have to feel bad and ask for people to insult you just because you enjoy the attention or feel more attractive/powerful/etc. A lot of us work on our bodies in part to feel more attractive. Of course you would enjoy it!

    If you catch yourself feeling better than other people, then you want to give yourself a reality check, but that's something you can do for yourself, not ask for others to abuse you. Just tell yourself, "Ouch, mean thought, chill, that's not who I want to be." :flowerforyou:

    Also, your body is gorgeous and I love having that inspiration on my friends list! I'm going to copy this to your feed because this thread is totally going to get deleted.
  • blakejohn
    blakejohn Posts: 1,129 Member
    Stop hanging out in the meat market and you probably won't get treated like a piece of meat.

    LOL!

    Lolz ^2. Seriously!

    med Rare with blue cheese, baked potato on the side sour cream and butter

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