are all men the same?!!

RealWomenLovePitbulls

don't expect anything to change after you get married, if u cant deal with it, and you cant come up with a compromise with him, then i would suggest not getting married.

i agree with the person who said to have family only weekends (maybe every other weekend) and then the opposite weekends he could spend one day with you and one day with his friends maybe?? i agree that his family should be more important, but for some reason it is hard to get men to see things from our point of view.

my husband goes out with his friends a couple times a month (usually staying at the friends house cuz they are drinking) and i don't usually mind it, but we don't have kids and he isn't away for work all week. so, it's a different situation.