Happiness is a Myth

Being Happy is a myth...Its an illusion to what we all are trying to attain. In everything we do in our daily lives its this deluded concept that what we are doing can somehow make us happy. We go to our jobs to slave away and earn a few dollars to buy stuff. We bite into a warm chocolate chip cookie for 5 seconds of bliss. A cigarette, a drink, a relationship, SEX. None of it is happiness its this false short lived instant... a brief moment. Its all a lie
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  • corn63
    corn63 Posts: 1,580 Member
    Beer provides hours of bliss.



    Fact.
  • unJunk
    unJunk Posts: 29
    Beer provides hours of bliss.



    Fact.

    More proof
  • Rixx31
    Rixx31 Posts: 220 Member
    Beer provides hours of bliss.



    Fact.

    More proof


    The proof is empirical. Just increase the quantity as needed.
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    Happiness is not a myth. It's a choice.

    If you are a miserable douche, it's usually because you wann to be.
    Which will lead to choices that will make your life miserable.
  • 2muchsauce
    2muchsauce Posts: 1,078
    If you choose to believe that ...............your life sucks lol

    I choose to be happy even with the bumps in the road !!! Sometimes it's the bumps that make you a better person
  • sillygoosie
    sillygoosie Posts: 1,109 Member
    You're fun!

    I'm plenty happy and I have a million little reasons why.
  • vim_n_vigor
    vim_n_vigor Posts: 4,089 Member
    Beer provides hours of bliss.



    Fact.

    More proof

    Higher proof = longer bliss.
  • Dub_D
    Dub_D Posts: 1,760 Member
    Sucks to be you!
  • ckish
    ckish Posts: 341 Member
    What a sad statement on life. Happiness is only a myth to people who think of it as a destination to be reached. It is a state of mind for those who appreciate where they are at the moment. Beer can't take you there......
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    http://www.amazon.com/Stumbling-Happiness-Daniel-Gilbert/dp/1400077427 I really like this book. It's about our perception of happiness. Really great read, even if it's mostly psychology and doesn't teach you at all how to be happy.
  • avasano
    avasano Posts: 487 Member
    In the immortal words of John Lennon, "Happiness is a warm gun."
  • leslie0422
    leslie0422 Posts: 108 Member

    Sometimes it's the bumps that make you a better person


    So true!
  • TylerJ76
    TylerJ76 Posts: 4,375 Member
    I bet you're fun to hang around..
  • PRMinx
    PRMinx Posts: 4,585 Member
    Being Happy is a myth...Its an illusion to what we all are trying to attain. In everything we do in our daily lives its this deluded concept that what we are doing can somehow make us happy. We go to our jobs to slave away and earn a few dollars to buy stuff. We bite into a warm chocolate chip cookie for 5 seconds of bliss. A cigarette, a drink, a relationship, SEX. None of it is happiness its this false short lived instant... a brief moment. Its all a lie

    Why so glum?
  • LavaDoll
    LavaDoll Posts: 595 Member
    Who hurt you, friend?
  • TexanThom
    TexanThom Posts: 778
    All trolls are unhappy...:cry:
  • Ge0rgiana
    Ge0rgiana Posts: 1,649 Member
    Wow. Aren't you a peach? Bet yer fun at parties. :huh:
  • TexasTroy
    TexasTroy Posts: 477 Member
    WOW..talk about a "negative nancy".
  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    I was just talking to my husband about this over dinner the other night. I had heard a story on NPR about attaining happiness. The Pursuit Of Happiness. I thought it was very interesting, and made me feel better about not being in a state of happiness. http://www.npr.org/2012/05/02/151881205/the-pursuit-of-happiness
  • unJunk
    unJunk Posts: 29
    http://www.amazon.com/Stumbling-Happiness-Daniel-Gilbert/dp/1400077427 I really like this book. It's about our perception of happiness. Really great read, even if it's mostly psychology and doesn't teach you at all how to be happy.

    Teach you how to be happy. LOL see this is a perfect example. Happiness isnt a choice something you have done is making you happy and sooner or later that will dissolve. Sure you can keep doing those little things over and over again but our life becomes this endless pusuit of happiness
  • Erisad
    Erisad Posts: 1,580
    Lots of little things can make you happy if you let them. :)
  • besaro
    besaro Posts: 1,858 Member
    oh and please dont call me a miserable cow because I don't think like you.
  • flobeedoodle
    flobeedoodle Posts: 176 Member
    Congrats OP, this is called depressive realism! The secret is to find meaningless, bullsh!t ways to pretend otherwise, and to block the truth from your mind, (eating cookies, not eating cookies, sex, drugs, religion, video games, football.) There's no reason not to eat the cookie, unless you find that you will get more enjoyment from something else (later) if you don't eat the cookie (now.)

    Also, when this stops being fun, or rather, when the pain outweighs the pleasures to be had, it's okay to just quit.
  • MyPsalm63
    MyPsalm63 Posts: 303
    I have Happiness and Joy in the Lord. Without him, nothing would fulfill me. The joy he gives me, bleeds into other parts of my life. Perhaps you are seeking happiness from the wrong things?!
  • _JR_
    _JR_ Posts: 830 Member
    What a crock! My doctor gives me lots of pills to make me Happy. Sure, I have to deal with a little anal leakage, but it's totally worth it.















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  • ZombieChaser
    ZombieChaser Posts: 1,555 Member
    Being Happy is a myth...Its an illusion to what we all are trying to attain. In everything we do in our daily lives its this deluded concept that what we are doing can somehow make us happy. We go to our jobs to slave away and earn a few dollars to buy stuff. We bite into a warm chocolate chip cookie for 5 seconds of bliss. A cigarette, a drink, a relationship, SEX. None of it is happiness its this false short lived instant... a brief moment. Its all a lie


    The cake is also a lie...
  • Randyamc
    Randyamc Posts: 365 Member
    Happiness is not a myth. It's a choice.

    If you are a miserable douche, it's usually because you wann to be.
    Which will lead to choices that will make your life miserable.

    ^^^This... omg all day long this!! lol
  • 76tech
    76tech Posts: 1,455 Member
    Finding joy and happiness within yourself, and not relying on external things to bring you joy, is the key to happiness which isn't fleeting.

    And it makes those fleeting moments that much more satisfying.

    Everyone has a baseline of happiness. If yours pretty much says life is a turd, then it will be so. On the other hand, if it's all gummy bears and unicorns, then yay.